Dox47 wrote:
DW_a_mom wrote:
It is not ok to criticize POC (group) because it covers people whose only shared trait is skin color.
How about policing people of certain races on "acceptable" opinions for them to hold?
Funny, I know what you are doing here because I do it, too. It's OK, I don't mind. Let's just see if I can answer suitably.
I just deleted a whole discussion on terminology because I don't think that is what you are asking about.
You are asking if its OK for a POC to tell a different POC what is an acceptable opinion for them to hold? Or for us who are not POC to tell POC what they are supposed to think?
I don't think it is ever acceptable for anyone to tell someone else what is an acceptable opinion to hold. Doesn't mean we can't challenge an opinion, but we have to do so in way that accepts their right to it.
But I am also aware that sometimes the big picture will indicate that some opinions are better not expressed at certain times and in certain places. To share one's belief on that with another in a matter of fact way isn't policing IMHO; it's supplying additional information the person may not have considered.
I can't answer for a group I don't belong to what big picture considerations may indicate for members of the group. That isn't for you or me to judge or decide. It's for other members of the group. We really should stay out of it completely.
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Mom to an amazing young adult AS son, plus an also amazing non-AS daughter. Most likely part of the "Broader Autism Phenotype" (some traits).