hyperlexian wrote:
Keniichi wrote:
Why do some people hang on to the past? Even like events in the past that were over 100 years ago?
For example:
The friend I was referring to in the other post of mine here kept going on and on about blacks and slavery. This friend is also black.
*sigh* slavery ended over 100 years ago, and I know that blacks have fought for their rights, (just like many other non-black people do) but seriously why do so many people(not just my black friend, there are other friends/people that I know in real-life) hang on to a past that they themselves werent involved in, and arent affected by?
(I know some are affected by the past, but not all of the people that Im referring to are, in fact most of the ones Im referring to have a very good life.)
Im not racist either.
because african americans are still treated very badly as a group by default in the western world, and it will take a long time to reverse that. on an individual level they might have a great life, but overall the levels of discrimination against them are very bad. simply stopping slavery doesn't make all that go away.
i think that maybe your friends would be well served by you, if you were to learn a little bit about their current situation. it's pretty nasty for you to dismiss what happened to their own ancestors (something that probably still affects their ethnic group in myriad ways) just because YOU think it is ancient history. maybe listen to what they have to say and try to understand a few things from their perspective.
here is an interesting survey to help you understand just how much privilege you carry around compared to them on a daily basis:
http://www.nymbp.org/reference/WhitePrivilege.pdf
I have sympathy for my friends, I have sympathy for hurting people in general. However I TALKED to my friends and they said that they knew when I first said those things, that I wasnt being offensive, and told me that they just felt like saying that stuff.
Also Im dark skinned so, Im not really white/caucasian. My relatives in the past were Indians, Africans, French, German, Dutch, Mexican,Irish etc.
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Keniichi