Any Jewish aspies/auties?

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Shalom. I was born Orthodox, but I don't feel I was successfully raised Orthodox. I always remember daydreaming during my Judaic courses more often than in my secular courses; it's probably because I couldn't personally connect with the teachers. My high school was all about pluralism, but the way the faculty went about teaching courses and whatnot made me feel like they were unintentionally pleasing no one. In college, none of my courses involved religion, and I could almost never make time for attending Jewish clubs because I was struggling just to get good grades in my classes.
I almost always sleep in during Shabbos afternoons, so there's no Shabbos learning for me. I'm terrible at planning a schedule and sticking to it, so I don't go to Jewish education events during the weekdays. Heck, I don't even know Hebrew too well. I feel like I'm in the midst of an existential crisis; I want to become more Jewish, but I don't know how to start.

My maternal grandmother's maiden name was obviously of Jewish origin, but as far back as her family could remember, they had been Prussian Lutherans. In all honesty, I see this Jewish branch in my family tree as little more than just a curiosity, and I regard my ethnic/religious identification to be German Lutheran. I'm much more a son of Arminius than I am of Abraham.

As there is an Autism Spectrum there is also a Jewishness Spectrum. If not convinced, spend a little time at Jew or Not Jew.

Anyway, in my case, I was raised by atheists (my mother actually joined the Methodist Church for social reasons but admitted to me not long before her death at 92 that she never believed any of that stuff).

Anyway, I was always somewhat attracted to Judaism (there may be reasons why aspies would find Judaism an attractive religion) but it would have been an idle interest except that 30 years ago I was engaged to a Jewish woman and decided to convert via the Reformed branch which makes it debatable whether I am in fact Jewish or not.

I could talk about how halachically valid my conversion was but won't. One motivation was that I didn't want to raise my kids in one of those interfaith homes where they light the menorah on a credenza next to the Christmas tree.

The fact is that I have continued to practice Judaism ever since. In fact I have fasted every Yom Kippur (at one point I learned there was a study to determine how many Jews actually practice Judaism and apparently the minimum criterion was fasting on Yom Kippur). I haven't much worried whether other people consider me Jewish however I generally expect they won't because there's usually no reason to think so and I don't feel a need to bring it up.

But I did feel I should post to this thread.

I'm Jewish and I have High Functioning Autism

Paraphrasing Adam Sandler
ASPartOfMe Jewish

Raised conservative
I true Aspie klutz fashion had a wicked shiner at my Bar Mitzvah, I lost a fight a to the 2nd klutziest guy in school the week before

Davening is repeated repetitive motions

I am half-Jewish.

I'm Jewish (though Chabad would fight with my credentials) and an aspie.

I remember insisting on doing my whole Bat Mitzvah a) at age 12 and b) in Hebrew, even though my family wasn't religious enough to care. Memorizing the Haftorah was probably one of the most fun challenges my memory had.

My mother is Jewish, so I'm Jewish.

I was raised with some vague belief in God--but I didn't go to synagogue nor church--only in summer camp!

I'm an agnostic/atheist, though I sometimes consider myself to be Jewish "culturally."

I started keeping the torah 4 years ago and observing the laws and feasts.

You could say that I am spiritually Jewish but I haven't converted so you can call me torah observant.

I would say Obama counts as our first black President. To his credit, he has not emphasized that fact too much.

Yes, I would follow Judaism's conception of the meaning of Jewishness.