Is it creepy for older men to prefer younger women?

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Is it creepy for older guys to prefer younger women?
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21 Dec 2013, 10:54 am

Maybe its more creepy for the Younger Women who prefer older Men?

If you saw a Young Woman offered a bowl of delicious fresh apples, and she routed around and found an old dried wrinkled apple at the bottom with maggots and she chose that, and then started eating it, well thats creepy.

As for the Old man offered the same bowl, do you think he should go for the wrinkly apple just because he is wrinkly himself?, no, hes going to go for the fresh ones.

Old is ugly, even dogs look better when they are young, sure you might love your old dog because you have been together a life time, but if you went to the pound to chose a new dog, you will go for a young attractive dog, not some fat wrinkled thing whose breath smelt like it had been eating poo.

Iam old and I prefer myself young, let alone a Woman who is going to want me to tell her how beautiful I think she is every 5 minutes.
This isnt to say there are not attractive older Women, there are, and they are rare, too rare for the poor.



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21 Dec 2013, 11:36 am

AspieOtaku wrote:
Misslizard wrote:
I think men in their thirties are nice.
:oops: :oops: :oops:


Miss Lizard and Aspie Otaku, up in a tree....


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21 Dec 2013, 11:56 am

Is there a tree house involved?
[img][800:768]http://i1326.photobucket.com/albums/u660/2lucky4snuffy/898898bc14b4e68018f4b29e8f74b1f6_zpsbe948c5b.jpg[/img]


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21 Dec 2013, 4:24 pm

Now that looks cozy. Image



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22 Dec 2013, 3:11 am

I personally find it creepy if the woman is still a teenager, and the man is not.



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22 Dec 2013, 5:08 am

it's hard for a guy to date a girl who is older if they are progressing along a normal life/career development path. Girls want to date someone more successful than themselves because being "stronger" even in a career sense makes any man they try to date emasculate. This is especially true in the 20-30s and especially for breeders. after 40-50 it tapers off and reverses.



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28 Dec 2013, 9:09 am

Depends on how big the age difference is.



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28 Dec 2013, 10:01 am

As long as both parties (or all parties, in the case of group sex) are of legal age, t'ain't nobody's business.



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28 Dec 2013, 6:35 pm

TallyMan wrote:
....It looks ridiculous especially if they have a sense of entitlement about it. If I was single again I likely wouldn't refuse a one night stand with a pretty young woman but the odds on that happening would be slim to none and I'd count myself very lucky, or the woman blind :lol: , rather than feeling entitled....


Old men and blind women are both entitled to a little sex.

An old man can go and get himself a beautiful young wife in the Philippines.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wS1frcqxIsE[/youtube]



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28 Dec 2013, 7:29 pm

What about an old blind woman?Will she have to be content with just hearing the sounds of sex?


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28 Dec 2013, 8:39 pm

Misslizard wrote:
What about an old blind woman?Will she have to be content with just hearing the sounds of sex?


Well, Southeast Asia is famous for its blind masseurs/masseuses.

http://www.worldette.com/ignite-your-tr ... east-asia/

It seems like they're strictly doing the therapeutic massages, although it wouldn't surprise me if some were offering the cootchie-cootchie variety.



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28 Dec 2013, 8:55 pm

That is pretty cool their skills are in demand.I would guess that people who have body image problems would prefer a blind person to give them a massage.


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28 Dec 2013, 9:18 pm

Misslizard wrote:
That is pretty cool their skills are in demand.I would guess that people who have body image problems would prefer a blind person to give them a massage.


We just solved TallyMan's problem, didn't we? :lol:

But, I think that it is more the issue that people think that the blind can feel their way around your body better, rather than a customer's body-image problem.



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28 Dec 2013, 9:23 pm

TallyMan wrote:
I'm comfortable enough with myself to not feel guilty for lusting over attractive young women;


I enjoy looking at (and lusting for) a young piece of ass, too. But, I never claimed that I wasn't a creep. :wink:



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29 Dec 2013, 12:16 am

I ran into this problem in college. I was about to date... hmmm.. sleep with... a conservative Muslim Girl. I had known her since middle school and she was very pretty... under the burka she was wearing to signify her engagement to some guy she'd never met in Lebanon. I ended up stopping the whole affair when I realized that she thought that our little misadventure in a campus bathroom would lead to marriage. Quite honestly I would have married her too. I'd always liked her and even made that offer when she first became engaged against her will in high school. But her goals didn't match up. She wanted to be a stay at home mom.

I told her that if she could work then I would marry her, but it was out of the question for her she was a breeder and wanted to get to breeding. The problem is that the math just didn't work out. I figure that with 40K in income I could comfortably own property, or raise a kid but not both. So to start a family we need an 80K income to meet my goals. I can get that alone... 10-20 years in the future assuming I don't get age discriminated into oblivion. But two earners can easily make 40K each, we can start on those goals in a 5 year time-frame and get the kids born before she turns 25 and the autism risk starts increasing exponentially (since I'm a carrier and severity is inversely proportional to age of the mother.. then again maybe it's maternal transmission). But the math just didn't work out for that to work with just one entry level income and kids draining my wallet and emotional reserves that I would otherwise be using to get promotions.

But if I was at the 80K mark, established with property, career etc... that would be a different story. let's say I'm 40, I still dont want increased chance of autism/ downs etc and so I'm still going to look for a woman in the pre-25 age range to achieve my goals. If she wants to be a stay-at-home mom then it might fit her goals as well. Matter of fact I bet that's the type of person my friend's parents chose for her in Lebanon. Someone with enough resources to pay her dowry aught to be able to care for her and her children.

just a different perspective from the "young piece of ass" people out there. (though in all seriousness dat ass tho!)


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29 Dec 2013, 10:18 am

If you want to breed, then you will be better off courting younger women. The older they get, the more difficult conception and pregnancy become.

And, certainly, there is something to be said about dat ass. :P