Why do MRAs..

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Let me put in a little perspective.

I have lived most of my life being taken advantage of by females. All of the females in my family saw me, a disabled young man, and they looked at me as a target to vent out all of their frustrations upon. I faced a nonstop barrage of physical, sexual and emotional abuse, and almost all of it came from females. When I tried to stand up for myself, I was ridiculed at best (because I was not acting "like a man"), and labeled a misogynistic monster at worst (because I dared to say that a female was causing me great harm).

I understand that what I went through is a rather atypical situation. But I know firsthand that misandry is a very real problem in today's culture. The MRAs are taking things to the opposite extreme, which I disapprove of.

I have even had people tell me that all of the physical and sexual abuse that women committed against me..... Well, they learned how to act that way from other men, therefore they should be absolved of all responsibility for their actions. I wish I were making that part up. That is exactly what quite a few other people have told me.

Y'know how it is socially unacceptable for a man to tell a female rape victim that she really wanted it? It is socially acceptable in today's climate to tell a male rape victim that he really wanted it if the perpetrator was a female. It is ALWAYS wrong to tell a rape victim that he or she really wanted it, IMO.

Coming from my personal experiences, I find myself seeing some core truth in what MRAs say, but at the same time, I am put off by their elitist attitudes. It feels like neither side wants true equality in this picture.

Ross Jeffries on Dr. Phil

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6t62cnVDC0I[/youtube]

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GRaYoDA-b_Q[/youtube]


I'm starting to get intrigued by this. I think that it would be quite useful for Aspies to study these techniques. And not just for getting women to spread their legs. It seems that some of these techniques would be useful in other interactions, say, in improving your chances on job interviews, or in dealing with colleagues. And, well, sure, some of us probably wouldn't mind getting laid once in a while.

One of the female audience members says that she won't go to bars any more. Well, aren't women who go to bars hoping to get some cock? She seems rather coquettish.

You can always give their techniques a try but this push and pull thing with today's social media could mean the woman will just go find someone else in her Facebook list if she doesn't feel certain that you are a sure thing.

These 2 statements

http://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Men's_rights_movement

Im equal opportunity I love and both groups equally the hate part is reserved for radicals of both sides mind you.

Here is Mel Feit (the MRA)

http://www.theatlantic.com/sexes/archiv ... te/267413/

...wearing more conventional male attire....

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rihu8_nbhw8[/youtube]

The overarching problem is this.

Feminists are of the position that sexual equality has not been acheived (Men still have over-riding privilege and power). They have legitimate grievances that can't be overlooked.
For example, men are still more likely to get higher paid jobs and have greater political efficacy. Economics and politics is advantage where it matters.

MRA's are of the opinion that

1) sexual equality has been acheived, plus some

2) or sexual equality isn't actually a worthwhile goal and it is better to revert back to the old status quo.

MRA's need to state where they lie but given the petulance of most of their delivery, I suspect their position is 2)