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09 Mar 2017, 8:43 am

I am a Mississippian and had an experience last August.

On a Sunday afternoon, I was going to get a "to go" ("takeaway") order from a cafeteria and was quite casual: knit shirt, cargo shorts, and sandals. When I got there, a crowd from a recently finished service at a large mostly black church was there--of course well dressed. Did I feel awkward? Yes. Did I feel embarassed? Yes. Did I feel threatened? No. The people there were quite friendly with one another and what interactions I had with them were polite and mutually respectful.

Checking out, I got past an older black man using a cane so I could open the doors for him, and felt good doing it.

I don't care for those who think their skin color alone entitles them to a free ride for life. I have the same ire for those black organizations who don't think their main goal is to work themselves out of a job. Booker Washington warned of "race hustlers" back in 1910, so they have been here for quite a while.



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09 Mar 2017, 9:28 am

I would say, in many cases, that people might have racists THOUGHTS at times---but, when it comes down to it, believe that we are, after all, people.

This is reflected in a large quantity of respectful, friendly interactions between adults of different races in all states in the United States.

Most people's racism these days, which, by the way, I believe is not based upon any logic, is of a relatively subtle variety, and usually is considerably diluted upon actually encountering people of different races on a day-to-day basis. The key to getting rid of racism, in my opinion, is the encouragement of actual interactions between people of different races, ethnic groups, and nationalities.

Education is the key, really.

Most of the time, any sort of "bias" is based upon a lack of knowledge.



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09 Mar 2017, 10:52 am

I don't recall any racism when I went to Mississippi in the late 1980s. On the other hand, I was refused service in an Ohio McDonalds around that time.



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09 Mar 2017, 11:27 am

^^ Are you black?













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09 Mar 2017, 11:50 am

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09 Mar 2017, 1:06 pm

^^ Wow----that's even MORE interesting!













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09 Mar 2017, 1:07 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I hope you do get to come to the US sometime.

Flint, Michigan is about 150 km or so from Detroit, Michigan One of the main problems with Flint is that the General Motors plant there closed, there were mass layoffs, and many of the people laid off lived in Flint. Unemployed people get depressed, and don't maintain their homes and neighborhoods. But if you happen to come to Flint, all this wouldn't affect you, as a tourist. There are a couple of "attractions" there--but tourists aren't exactly flocking to this place.

You'll find out that the US, in general, really not what it seems to be based upon media portrayals. You'll find that you'll absolutely need a car in most parts of the US, so don't rely on public transportation unless you're in a very large, preferably "older" city. "Newer" cities tend to be more car-driven. You have idiots in the US--but most people just want to be left alone to raise their families, and they don't mind tourists, usually.

I heard New Zealand is a nice, pretty place.

I'm really of the opinion that people should "get out" more, and stop relying on the Internet so much when they are trying to assess people and places.
New Zealand is a nice place you could say, much of the beauty comes from the rural areas, a place like Auckland would be much like New Orleans or San Francisco.

I don't think most people in the US are racist, far from it.

I went to San Francisco recently and I found that it did match up with the prevalent stereotypes of the USA. I saw homelessness to much more of an extreme level than Auckland. In one incident I even saw a man completely oblivious to traffic walk across the road, shirtless intensely scratching himself and stretching. And this is every street corner I have basically come across.

Have you ever been to Michigan or one of the Rust Belt states?



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09 Mar 2017, 1:24 pm

I've been to most of the Rust Belt states. They are only rusty in parts of the inner cities.



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07 Mar 2019, 10:34 pm

Mississippi as well as Alabama, Georgia, Louisiana, and Tennessee it really depends on what part of the state you are in.



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08 Mar 2019, 1:08 am

It depends on the people you meet. The main problems with MS are Phil Bryant (the governor) and a barely existent economy, due to a lack of industry.


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09 Mar 2019, 12:49 am

This is the state flag of Mississippi. What more needs to be said?

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09 Mar 2019, 10:42 am

History is history, warts and all. It seems that any founding father who had any imperfect trait (e.g., owning slaves) is not worthy of having any monuments, holidays, or streets named after him. Come to think of it nobody would measure up. People who are "offended" by the Mississippi flag will be offended by something else tomorrow.

Meanwhile, how does being offended help resolve racial conflicts? Maybe never, the "race hulstlers" want to stay in business. Is changing the Miss. Flag and wiping out the history of Robert E Lee, etc. going to be offered as a trade to wiping out MLK?

Of course, some people bandy racist as anyone they disagree with.



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11 Mar 2019, 1:21 pm

redrobin62 wrote:
This is the state flag of Mississippi. What more needs to be said?

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The irony is that blacks are close to a majority in MS.

Here in TX, Hispanics will likely have an outright majority at the next census.


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19 Mar 2019, 9:24 pm

redrobin62 wrote:
This is the state flag of Mississippi. What more needs to be said?

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