To the religious: has your faith interacted with your ASD?

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^ I don't know what relational identity is.

I'm still not sure what you are asking, but will make a attempt.

Words can get people really mixed up when trying to describe something as ineffable as an experience of a higher power of some/any kind. I suppose some people call it having a relationship with God/S/w. But then you can't use the normal definition of relationship to argue about whether or not someone has a relationship with G/S/W, or if such a relationship is even possible.

Hicksite Quakers have an experiential experience of God. We have much more in common with the mystics than traditional Christians. As a Quaker, I spend my days trying to listen/feel/experience G/S/W, and not talking to him/her/it as one thinks of in most prayers.

To relate back to the OP, I think Quaker practices help me in my aspie way of understanding the world and interacting with the world. It provides a basis for my ethical and moral decisions that I "believe in" so that I can rely on my Quaker practice in daily and difficult affairs, rather than being blown to the winds as an aspie that understands nothing of the world and what I am supposed to do in it.

I don't have any particular views on any of the things you are asking about. I can only speak to my condition and my experience.

Quakers do not have a dogma or rules to follow in the way most other religions do. Quakers live their lives by asking questions. I believe Roman Catholicism has a version of this. A priest i was friends with a long time ago told me that life was not about getting answers, it was about living the questions.

Quakers have what we call "testimonies." The Peace testimony is the one most non-Quakers are familiar with. Other testimonies are: integrity, equality, community, simplicity and more recently, stewardship. So instead of a rule on, for example, equality, I would ask myself: Am I showing respect to all the people who I interact with? Do I give equal time and consideration to others in the community? Am I neglecting anyone due to ....?" And so on.

In no way does my experience reflect on what others believe, how they worship, or what their particular dogma is. I am not "right."

And experience can change. Revelations occur over time within a single life and over the generations. I have experienced revelations that one might call divine, but I have no way of knowing if that is what you are referring to.