Ante wrote:
Society could be much more fairly run if there were no religions and people just admitted that some desires are unavoidable. Yes, people want sex a lot. Yes, people want to buy lots of shiny things and live in luxury. Which is the sin that keeps the poor in poverty? The latter. If people could stop being bloody minded and allow people simple pleasures like sex and stop associating guilt with it then everyone wouldn't be so desperate for wealth.
Wealth is only accrued to be attractive usually anyway. Women are attracted to it and of course since most women in the West are Christians they're more a part of it than anyone. This corruption is what I hate about Christianity. Hippies basically have the right idea except drugs shouldn't be taken because they mess with your mind. It's better to be free, without marriage, able to follow your desires sometimes than everyone living private lives of envy, repressed desire and accumulating wealth jealously to compete with others.
Do you think that everyone who's married is living a life of "envy" and "repressed desire"?
Are you saying that one of your main objections to religion is that is prevents people doing whatever the hell they want?
Some of the most-run down, miserable places in Britain are full of people doing whatever the hell they want, seeking instant gratification without any regard for the long-term consequences, e.g., drunken thugs fathering children by a hatful of different women, abandoning them and leaving the state to clear up the mess: people with nothing to lose and not much to look forward to.
For many people, though, responsibility and commitment are things that make life worth living, e.g., responsibility to their family, and the promise of giving their children a chance of a better life, and so on.
At least religion provides a focus for communities and moral guidelines for their members.
I do find the nihilism of parts of our secular society a bit unpleasant.
All this is not particularly easy for me to admit, because, firstly, I am not a religious person at all. Secondly, I have never wanted to get married, and I doubt I ever will want to. I also think it unlikely I'd be able to find a partner anyway (not least because I've never had a long-term relationship up till now).
I doubt my parents thought I'd turn out like this. Sometimes I feel they don't respect my way of life, and it makes me want to disrespect theirs.
So, anyway, I guess I am destined to be "free".
I wouldn't want to be a hippy though, sitting around reciting sh***y freeform poetry all day.
I once saw a documentary on free love, and it nearly made me vomit.
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