Awesomelyglorious wrote:
Because it can be fun to mess with people.... or maybe he *really* is a racist and only has a black girlfriend as something to hark back to the days before the civil war when white guys freely had sex with black women all of the time in coercive relationships. Btw, Dox, were you abusive to women at that time as well?
Nah, convincing off-hand sexism is harder for me to pull off. Unless you consider the old fashioned chivalrous type of sexism to be abusive. Besides, just having a girlfriend doesn't insulate you from the accusation of sexism in quite the same way that having the black girlfriend shields you from the racism card. It really was funny too, I'd be talking to someone who didn't know me that well about my restaurant job and how working for tips makes you hate everyone, and you could just see them getting worked up about how "bigoted" I was. Then my girlfriend would show up and they'd just get this stunned look on their face, and I'd give them the most evil grin possible

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Incidentally, my ex was the least "urban" black person you could hope to meet, she went to school and worked full time, spoke Spanish English and German, was generally a highly driven person. Unfortunately, she was also crazy(borderline personality disorder), which with my at the time undiagnosed AS, it never occurred to me that how she acted wasn't normal. Definitely not subservient or demure though, if anyone ever got coerced into anything in that relationship, it was me!
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