Sand wrote:
It seems to me this thread is grossly mislabeled. It should be "Group Not-think"
What attracted me to this site is that aspies and autistic people have unusual personal problems and faced with them, like any out group, they have to come up with unusual personal solutions to work out how to live in the world. People who conform to dogmas, to authorities, to social conventions live within those conventions and don't think about important problems that do not conform to norms. So.called "group think" is actually not thinking and an insult to an active searching mind seeking solutions to real problems with views conditioned by personal values and personal experiences.
I'm starting to understand at least what conformity and those dogmas are worth. On subconscious levels, and likely out of empathy, most NT's at least realize that they're moody and have excessive adrenaline (not unlike many of us either), they guess it of the next person, and establishing points of reference like that is something their minds adapt to and it seems like it may well be done for the very reason that people are afraid of what would happen if everyone just let it all hang out. While its a good idea to build a large buffer zone against our own inherent barbarism the troubling part is when it lacks self awareness - social religion and organized religion seem to both have major issues when the practitioners lack clarity or perspective.
I have to agree with you that trials of life and not being able to fit in, or at least for a long enough stretch of life, can lead to someone having a lot more perspective and clarity. I heard an argument the other day that the baby-boomer generation are among the most idiotic America has ever had largely because the given world of ease that they grew up in skewed their sense of reality - this lead to some very naive and idealistic assertions about life, fostering a culture that put feelings over truth, and their ideas have been reinforced upon generation X, Y, and it looks like Y may in fact make a pull-back from their dogmas but still; people who grow up with too much given to them can quite easily never grow up at all.