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03 Mar 2011, 4:37 pm

Nice attempt at evasion. Just as you stated the bridge nor the robot could not be created without individuals. Humans are not like robots. Robots are not conscious, volitional beings. Robots only follow directions; without an individual to give the directions, the robot would be absolutely useless.



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No one individual creates what is defined as a society. Individuals work together to create what is defined as a society.

A society is not a thing, it is not created.

I've already started a thread on individual rights, which is what our portion of this discussion started out on. I'd be more than happy to continue there.



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03 Mar 2011, 4:48 pm

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Nice attempt at evasion. Just as you stated the bridge nor the robot could not be created without individuals. Humans are not like robots. Robots are not conscious, volitional beings. Robots only follow directions; without an individual to give the directions, the robot would be absolutely useless.


The Victor example from your other post is a good example of what I am trying to explain. Supposedly, he had little human interaction and was not able to learn language. The Robot would not exist without human creation and a human would not be able to learn language without another human being. The examples are not the same, but they are related.



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03 Mar 2011, 4:56 pm

Creation is a characteristic of individuals, not society. Society = group of individuals. Group of individuals - individuals = group of nothing.
Society - individual = group of nothing. 'Society' is not synonymous with 'human interaction'.



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03 Mar 2011, 5:31 pm

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What do you think about the Kansas State proposed law that Ikorack presented earlier. The way I read it, it is based on the states interest to determine paternity to enforce child support; which I believe would be in the interest of the state to reduce taxpayer responsibility for aid to children. I don't think they would have proposed the law in its current form without it meeting the hallmarks you listed above. I don't see it meeting those hallmarks unless there is evidence that the fiscal benefits will outweigh the costs for the tax payer.

Also, considering the demographics of likely voters in Kansas, do you have an opinion on the passage of the proposed law.


Well, certainly parens patriae is a legitimate state interest. But let's work through the practicalities.

How many children born to married/partnered couples are the genetic offspring of the male partner? The law presently presumes 100%, unless there is evidence to the contrary. So by introducing testing, we are automatically undercutting that presumption.

If, for example, 5% of live births in Kansas are not the offspring of their putative fathers, then what? A negative result on a DNA paternity test does nothing to establish a positive identification of the father, and provides the putative father with absolute grounds for divorce. Are we potentially creating more problems than we solve?

Now maybe it's not 5%. Maybe it's 0.01%--but then the problem is so small that less draconian measures are required. Or maybe it's 15%. But then the problem is so large, that we are creating a vast array of complication to replace the current, managable levels.

I still see this as an excessive intrusion of the compulsive power of the state which is not demonstrably justifiable when considering the state's interest in compliance.


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03 Mar 2011, 7:34 pm

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The state does not serve itself it serves the people, at least here in America, I'm going to argue based on some asinine principle that the state is obliged to act solely on its own interest. Unless your claiming what is the benefit to the state in a way that would include what would the benefit be to the people, in which case I would say, look at the conversation between me and aghogday. He has listed several arguments for either definition you use, although he has outlined several potential problems which are (mostly conjecture and)irrelevant to the discussion.


But imposing mandatory paternity testing is not the state serving the people, it is the state imposing an obligation of service on the people. Such an imposition will not pass constitutional scrutiny in the United States unless it falls within the constitutional competence of the government seeking to impose it (let us suppose it is at the state level to avoid federalist issues), and the imposition must be weighed against the legitimate interest of the state.


? I have supplied a legitimate interest, gender equality in the matter of genetic assurance.

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Can be determined but this would prevent it almost completely. Also whether or not a crime is committed is not dependent on whether the victim has noticed or taken issue.


And a compulsory, single payer, public insurance system would eliminate the phenomenon of americans without health insurance. Just because a proposal can achieve a particular end does not mean that the proposal is ipso facto desirable or legal.


Of course not, but there is no objection of the legal variety that I have not already argued against. Also preventing crime is something that is largely considered an acceptable interest for the state. Health care is more controversial.

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And what is the balance of costs? Why conduct 4.1 million paternity tests per year, when we need only conduct a few thousand? Why take this on as a public expense, when it can be managed as a private expense for those cases where parties dispute paternity?


Equality, my argument is based on gender equality not practicality, I don't know how many times I must say this before its get through to you guys. The rights of an individual are not protected by the private sector, so why would this one be?

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Women know there child is theirs, and they know this absolutely, men should have as close to the same thing as possible.


A man is perfectly free to submit to DNA screening, and to submit his child to screening, at his own expense. In the case of a non-custodial parent seeking to establish his paternity, he is free to seek an order for screening.


*shrug* The presumption should be that someone wants their rights, and gender equality is not a right that is required to be claimed to be violated.

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Whether or not such a thing will be passed is not actually part of my argument, whether or not such a law is justified is. This is not a discussion on practicalities although you and aghogday seem to be trying to divert it into such.


A law which is impractical is a law that is not justifiable. For a law to be justifiable it must bear certain hallmarks:

1) It must be within the constitutional competence of the legislature enacting it
2) It must answer a legitimate public policy interest
3) It must minimally intrude upon the liberty of the subject

So far as I can see, your proposal fails the third test.


The relationship between practicality and justice is not what you make it out to be, just because something is impractical does not mean it isn't justifiable.

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If the man wants to named the father but does not want the test, that is what the court is for. A mother can have a court order a genetic test to prove paternity, why can't the court order such a thing in the interest of the state/father instead of the mother?


Because your situation is dealing with two people who have attorned themselves to the jurisdiction of the court in order to settle their dispute. You are seeking a public law that would impose this obligation on all live births regardless of the wishes of the parents and regardless of the best interests of the child.


They would be able to go to court and have the father declared with no DNA test.

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There is no reason the records would be kept. Your argument is irrelevant. Paternity checked, father recorded, DNA record destroyed.


There is every reason for the records to be kept. Suppose the spouse/partner of the mother is not the father. Does the birth certificate remain blank?


? It is only a requirement to know if you are genetically linked to the child. It is not required to match to list yourself as the father, I suppose if the father didn't match he would need the mothers permission to be listed as a father, and then he should have the same rights as the genetic father. Why would the records need to be kept in either of these scenarios?

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What of the potential for error? For father-son testing, Y chromosome testing is the benchmark, but Y chromosome mutation during meiosis will create potential false negatives in a number of cases. Father-daughter testing generally must rely on autosomal testing (remember, DNA screening for parentage is not a full genome map). Autosomal testing can produce inconclusive results and errors in as many as 15% of cases. When spread across 4 million tests (the annual birth rate in the United States) you could be looking at thousands of incorrect results.


The test could be challenged as allowed in the Kansas bill.(and can be challenged using any genetic test the potential father wishes.)

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Completely ass backwards. A child may be argued to have the right to know its parents but this does not take away or eliminate the rights of the parents to know their child. It may be the preferred focus of the courts at the moment, but the declared rights of a child to contact and residence do not implicitly eliminate the rights parents have had in the past.


You have a strong political argument, but it holds no weight in law. The tide is firmly and resolutely fixed against a parent focussed approach to family law, and as far as I am concerned this is only right and proper. A parent who selfishly pursues contact with a child whose interests would not be served by that contact is precisely the type of person with whom the child should not have contact.


You are mistaking a legal argument for a political argument, I have a strong legal argument, the focus of the law on the child currently does not contradict the existence of parental rights. Also the amount of people with 0 self interest is too rare to hold such a thing as the standard for a good parent, perhaps interest in the child before ones own is acceptable, but even that does not contradict the existence of someones own needs and rights. Nor should it, a health adult capable of protecting a child must have some amount of self interest. And I stated this in my last post a focus on the child's rights is not contradictory to the parents rights, the current focus is not against parents rights. Also since when do parents have to prove their presence would benefit the child?

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A child's best interests are generally held to be to have access to its two parents (whether natural or adoptive). But the child centred focus means that the court can always abridge a parent's privileges where they are inimical to the child's best interests.


But that is not saying a parent has not rights, it is saying that the child's safety overrides parental rights.

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It could be also stated that the parent has a right to support his/her child. What requires one to eliminate the other?


A parent has no such right. A parent has obligations. But even if such a right were to exist, when the two come into conflict, then one must prevail. It must be that of the child.


How so? When a man discovers a child has been kept from him he is entitled to affirm paternity and acquire visitation(and other parental) rights. How can you call this a child's right when the child has no way of claiming it? You may call them obligations but what discernible difference is there between obligations and rights if the first is done willingly with fervor.

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Yes it does, if the courts start receiving an influx of paternity suits which involve cuckoldry then there would be way too many children without one legally defined supporter. It also makes the matter of paternity and thus the matter of child support completely firm.(Meaning if a father is named we know he owes support and the courts can immediately proceed to declaring the amount owed, and enforcing the order) The only times the state would be required to supply aid would be when a parent has died, or has been imprisoned.



A father does not cease to be obliged to care for a child just because he discovers that the child is not his genetic offspring. So far as the law is concerned, having taken on the responsibility, he continues to bear it until another steps in to his shoes, either through adoption, or other guardianship arrangements.


Which is why I want genetic assurance confirmed or denied before a male takes on parental responsibilities. Women have genetic assurance as a mother, men should have the same before accepting the role of father.

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In fact, what you propose will be to create a legal environment in which male spouses and partners can abandon their wives' / partners' children at birth, leaving vastly more children with only one supporting parent.


Not any children they have already established parental responsibilities with.(who would still have two parents legally speaking) The child which is not the genetic offspring of the husband could be rightfully abandoned, but is that not the husbands right? The child's genetic father could likely still be found, what justification is there for forcing the husband to take care of what is ultimately not his responsibility(unless of course he accepts the responsibility regardless of genetic ties). Your assumption of only one supporting parent assumes that the true genetic father cannot be found, and while this could be true in rare cases it does not make the tying of the husband to the child(which is not his) acceptable.

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Genetic testing might rule out a woman's husband as the father--but it is not going to identify who the husband is without being able to test every other possible candidate. And if mom's not talking, how are you going to go about doing that?


If the mother is not speaking she is not speaking. She has of course violated the interest of the child(and the rights of the genetic father) and her custody of said child could be called into question. Also I'm assuming that by who the husband is you meant who the father is. But even this point does not make it acceptable it saddle someone with new rights and responsibilities that by all logic belong to someone else.



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04 Mar 2011, 1:26 am

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What do you think about the Kansas State proposed law that Ikorack presented earlier. The way I read it, it is based on the states interest to determine paternity to enforce child support; which I believe would be in the interest of the state to reduce taxpayer responsibility for aid to children. I don't think they would have proposed the law in its current form without it meeting the hallmarks you listed above. I don't see it meeting those hallmarks unless there is evidence that the fiscal benefits will outweigh the costs for the tax payer.

Also, considering the demographics of likely voters in Kansas, do you have an opinion on the passage of the proposed law.


Well, certainly parens patriae is a legitimate state interest. But let's work through the practicalities.

How many children born to married/partnered couples are the genetic offspring of the male partner? The law presently presumes 100%, unless there is evidence to the contrary. So by introducing testing, we are automatically undercutting that presumption.

If, for example, 5% of live births in Kansas are not the offspring of their putative fathers, then what? A negative result on a DNA paternity test does nothing to establish a positive identification of the father, and provides the putative father with absolute grounds for divorce. Are we potentially creating more problems than we solve?

Now maybe it's not 5%. Maybe it's 0.01%--but then the problem is so small that less draconian measures are required. Or maybe it's 15%. But then the problem is so large, that we are creating a vast array of complication to replace the current, managable levels.

I still see this as an excessive intrusion of the compulsive power of the state which is not demonstrably justifiable when considering the state's interest in compliance.


I did a little more research on the proposed law in kansas. It was introduced by a Black Female Democratic Representative in support of her constituents desire to know if they are the father of a child and help when they are named as the father of a child.

A Black Male Democratic Representative, in response to help from his constituents, is proposing a similiar law in Tennessee with the justification of proving paternity for the benefit of the child.

This is the second attempt to introduce the law in Tennessee.

The only real research I could find regarding Paternity tests showing false paternity was one that indicated four percent in a study including the United Kingdom and US. They are suggesting ten percent in Tennessee.

The public response to both laws was overwhelmingly negative, particularly among women. Privacy rights, government control, mistrust of women, broken marriages, tax costs, SCOTUS challenges, and Maury Povich were all mentioned. However, obviously it is a real concern among the constituents of the representatives that are proposing the laws, in the respective states.

I stand corrected in my opinion that the Kansas State law was based on the collection of child support to benefit the taxpayer. It is about giving Fathers the right to genetic assurance of paternity.

Seeing that they are democratic issues in Republican controlled houses, neither law may find its way past committee.



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04 Mar 2011, 1:48 am

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I should have phrased that as I see no legitimate reason women would be offended by this.


It assumes women are cheating, lying whores. I would have been horribly offended if someone suggested I *had* to get my kids DNA tested by law. I know they're my husband's, he knows they are his.

If there's a question, then the possible father can get a court order.

The government needs to stay the f**k out of it otherwise.


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04 Mar 2011, 2:20 am

@Tea: No, it only assumes that some women lie. Everyone is tested so that the few men who actually do suspect that they're being taken won't have to actually accuse their spouse/partner of cheating in order to have the test done.

I personally think it's overkill - as I said, genetic testing has tended to benefit women, rather than harming them, and I doubt that the rate of false paternity is that high - but since a cheekswap isn't too invasive, I have no major problem with the idea as long as I don't have to pay for it.



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04 Mar 2011, 9:59 am

aghogday wrote:
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What do you think about the Kansas State proposed law that Ikorack presented earlier. The way I read it, it is based on the states interest to determine paternity to enforce child support; which I believe would be in the interest of the state to reduce taxpayer responsibility for aid to children. I don't think they would have proposed the law in its current form without it meeting the hallmarks you listed above. I don't see it meeting those hallmarks unless there is evidence that the fiscal benefits will outweigh the costs for the tax payer.

Also, considering the demographics of likely voters in Kansas, do you have an opinion on the passage of the proposed law.


Well, certainly parens patriae is a legitimate state interest. But let's work through the practicalities.

How many children born to married/partnered couples are the genetic offspring of the male partner? The law presently presumes 100%, unless there is evidence to the contrary. So by introducing testing, we are automatically undercutting that presumption.

If, for example, 5% of live births in Kansas are not the offspring of their putative fathers, then what? A negative result on a DNA paternity test does nothing to establish a positive identification of the father, and provides the putative father with absolute grounds for divorce. Are we potentially creating more problems than we solve?

Now maybe it's not 5%. Maybe it's 0.01%--but then the problem is so small that less draconian measures are required. Or maybe it's 15%. But then the problem is so large, that we are creating a vast array of complication to replace the current, managable levels.

I still see this as an excessive intrusion of the compulsive power of the state which is not demonstrably justifiable when considering the state's interest in compliance.


I did a little more research on the proposed law in kansas. It was introduced by a Black Female Democratic Representative in support of her constituents desire to know if they are the father of a child and help when they are named as the father of a child.

A Black Male Democratic Representative, in response to help from his constituents, is proposing a similiar law in Tennessee with the justification of proving paternity for the benefit of the child.

This is the second attempt to introduce the law in Tennessee.

The only real research I could find regarding Paternity tests showing false paternity was one that indicated four percent in a study including the United Kingdom and US. They are suggesting ten percent in Tennessee.

The public response to both laws was overwhelmingly negative, particularly among women. Privacy rights, government control, mistrust of women, broken marriages, tax costs, SCOTUS challenges, and Maury Povich were all mentioned. However, obviously it is a real concern among the constituents of the representatives that are proposing the laws, in the respective states.

I stand corrected in my opinion that the Kansas State law was based on the collection of child support to benefit the taxpayer. It is about giving Fathers the right to genetic assurance of paternity.

Seeing that they are democratic issues in Republican controlled houses, neither law may find its way past committee.


Eh most of us consider most of our elected officials moderates on one side or the other, I don't think thats changed although I do remember the Kansas GOP discussing tossing out what it called obvious democrats or some such nonsense at one point or another. I don't see how this is solely a Democrat issue, explain?



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04 Mar 2011, 10:01 am

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I should have phrased that as I see no legitimate reason women would be offended by this.


It assumes women are cheating, lying whores.


Does not.



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04 Mar 2011, 11:56 am

ikorack wrote:
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I should have phrased that as I see no legitimate reason women would be offended by this.


It assumes women are cheating, lying whores.


Does not.


I'm not going to get into a 'does too!' 'does not!' argument. List reasons why you think this.


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04 Mar 2011, 1:04 pm

ikorack wrote:
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What do you think about the Kansas State proposed law that Ikorack presented earlier. The way I read it, it is based on the states interest to determine paternity to enforce child support; which I believe would be in the interest of the state to reduce taxpayer responsibility for aid to children. I don't think they would have proposed the law in its current form without it meeting the hallmarks you listed above. I don't see it meeting those hallmarks unless there is evidence that the fiscal benefits will outweigh the costs for the tax payer.

Also, considering the demographics of likely voters in Kansas, do you have an opinion on the passage of the proposed law.


Well, certainly parens patriae is a legitimate state interest. But let's work through the practicalities.

How many children born to married/partnered couples are the genetic offspring of the male partner? The law presently presumes 100%, unless there is evidence to the contrary. So by introducing testing, we are automatically undercutting that presumption.

If, for example, 5% of live births in Kansas are not the offspring of their putative fathers, then what? A negative result on a DNA paternity test does nothing to establish a positive identification of the father, and provides the putative father with absolute grounds for divorce. Are we potentially creating more problems than we solve?

Now maybe it's not 5%. Maybe it's 0.01%--but then the problem is so small that less draconian measures are required. Or maybe it's 15%. But then the problem is so large, that we are creating a vast array of complication to replace the current, managable levels.

I still see this as an excessive intrusion of the compulsive power of the state which is not demonstrably justifiable when considering the state's interest in compliance.


I did a little more research on the proposed law in kansas. It was introduced by a Black Female Democratic Representative in support of her constituents desire to know if they are the father of a child and help when they are named as the father of a child.

A Black Male Democratic Representative, in response to help from his constituents, is proposing a similiar law in Tennessee with the justification of proving paternity for the benefit of the child.

This is the second attempt to introduce the law in Tennessee.

The only real research I could find regarding Paternity tests showing false paternity was one that indicated four percent in a study including the United Kingdom and US. They are suggesting ten percent in Tennessee.

The public response to both laws was overwhelmingly negative, particularly among women. Privacy rights, government control, mistrust of women, broken marriages, tax costs, SCOTUS challenges, and Maury Povich were all mentioned. However, obviously it is a real concern among the constituents of the representatives that are proposing the laws, in the respective states.

I stand corrected in my opinion that the Kansas State law was based on the collection of child support to benefit the taxpayer. It is about giving Fathers the right to genetic assurance of paternity.

Seeing that they are democratic issues in Republican controlled houses, neither law may find its way past committee.


Eh most of us consider most of our elected officials moderates on one side or the other, I don't think thats changed although I do remember the Kansas GOP discussing tossing out what it called obvious democrats or some such nonsense at one point or another. I don't see how this is solely a Democrat issue, explain?


It is commonly understood that a majority ruled house has a better chance of passing laws than the minority party. The law did not have enough support in Tennessee for the first attempt to get the law past committee. This is the first try in Kansas and the public response, for the most part, is negative. I have no idea if more individual republicans or individual democrats support the issue.

My guess would be the majority of women oppose it. All of the cons I considered in my earlier posts were brought up by the public. The issue of state support for children, that I thought might be a majority opinion, was relatively, of little concern, compared to all of the other negative concerns.

The problems driving the passage of these laws are of those falsely accused of paternity, those that want to know if they are the father of a child, and those that want to make sure that the child knows who the father is. It would make it easier for all of these people if the law was passed, but another opinion voiced in the public is let the citizens that are concerned about this provide the paternity test; do not impose it on a majority based on a minority need.



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04 Mar 2011, 1:10 pm

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The problems driving the passage of these laws are of those falsely accused of paternity, those that want to know if they are the father of a child, and those that want to make sure that the child knows who the father is. It would make it easier for all of these people if the law was passed, but another opinion voiced in the general public is let the citizen that is concerned about this provide the paternity test; do not impose it on the majority of people based on a minority need.


Right. Make it easier for people to seek out paternity testing. Don't make people that don't want or need it take it because of them.

And yes, mandatory paternity testing DOES assume women cheat and lie. On top of that, it assumes all men care whether they are the biological father or not.


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Where are you drawing your public opinion from?

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I should have phrased that as I see no legitimate reason women would be offended by this.


It assumes women are cheating, lying whores.


Does not.


I'm not going to get into a 'does too!' 'does not!' argument. List reasons why you think this.


I followed the same level of evidence that you did. Well not really, I offered genetic assurance as a reason for this law, you simply stated that it must be assuming that women are cheating lying whores because it offends you. You offered no evidence to back up your view.

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State Rep. Melody McCray Miller, a Democrat from Wichita, says the bill is intended to help men who have been named as a child's father, or who want to know if they are the child's father. The bill would also apply to married couples who have several children.


Which would imply that men want the certainty that women have, which would support my statement not yours. Men don't assume their wives are whores cheaters or liars, if they thought that they likely wouldn't involve themselves with said wives.

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On top of that, it assumes all men care whether they are the biological father or not.


It assumes men want to know, and that is all.



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04 Mar 2011, 1:37 pm

You don't test the paternity of a child unless you don't trust what the woman says. While I admit to being offended, that has little to do with my assessment of the situation.

I agree there are other motives for the law, but that doesn't negate the the fact that women's characters are being questioned.

Personally though, I think society puts too much emphasis on who the biological father is. This has caused children to needlessly be abandoned by the only father figure they've ever known when they find out there's no biological connection.

Now, I get the concerns over child support. However, not ALL children need to be tested to benefit a few. If the paternity of the child comes into question, then get it done. Making it mandatory at birth will only hurt those it didn't intend to target.


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