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08 Nov 2012, 9:43 pm

It's funny, my ethnicity is a mixture of Iranian and Scottish and I've never had any identity crises. Ever. I never have any "OMG WHERE DO I BELONG WHAT DO I DO I AM HALF IRANIAN AND HALF SCOTTISH AND I BELONG NOWHERE!! !!" angst. It's just the way my family has always been. It's just the default to me. It isn't any deviation from any norm, it's just the way things have been since I was born, so it's really nothing new to me.

And no one has ever teased me about being Iranian/Scottish, ever. And I got a lot of teasing in my younger days. Probably kids were too busy teasing me for being a shy, weird, nerdy, big-boobed 12-year-old with an obsession with fascism and dictatorships.

Or maybe things are different in New Zealand

Can I also please say that nothing annoys me more than when well-meaning people go "OMG what a fascinating mixture!! !!1!!11!"? It's kind of dehumanising. It makes me feel like an animal in the zoo to be gawked at, or a dog. I am not a "fascinating mixture", I'm a person.



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08 Nov 2012, 9:58 pm

Inter racial marriage happens all the time. Men marry Women.

I am a member of the male race and my wife is a member of the female race.

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10 Nov 2012, 5:05 pm

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10 Nov 2012, 5:10 pm

What inference are we supposed to draw from this?

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11 Nov 2012, 11:07 am

What to say on this..ITS ONLY PIGMENTATION....we all have it!..TOO CRAZY that people are so bloody stupid to kill over it! :evil:



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11 Nov 2012, 11:20 am

ruveyn wrote:
What inference are we supposed to draw from this?

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Maybe that the so-called "American Melting Pot" used to be strictly about different European ethnicities shedding their European identities and blending together, and that we are moving beyond that definition.



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26 May 2013, 3:56 pm

Racism is not a big enough issue/problem to justify such a form of liberal tyranny.

Racism is exaggerated.

People should be allowed to marry whomever they want; however, I feel staying within your culture is best, especially if inter-racial marriage might result in your language going lost and your children having to be raised as anglophones, as a compromise because you happen to be Zulu and your wife happens to be Mandarin Chinese and you have to use English as your communal household language.

Why should groups be forced or expected to mingle? A country can function perfectly even though it's people are socially separated according to ethnic or cultural lines. Look at Switzerland, as an example.

Here in South Africa, all the different cultural groups stick to themselves socially. There are next to zero interracial marrriages here. Yet in the work place, people from all different cultures, ethnic groups and skin colour work together without any problems. Racism will only stick out its head when people are forced by the government or other liberal movements to mix when they don't want to.

South Africa had Apartheid, but that was mostly a result of the country having two competing white cultures: the small and endangered Afrikaner cultural group and the mighty and influential British/English South Africans, as well as because white people were an extreme minority. After Apartheid ended, the fact that the country remained stable and passive is testimony that there was never actual major racial hatred. Segregation was practised here for much more complicated reasons than in America and Australia. In South Africa the society is in harmony, even though the different groups don't inter marry and stick to their own groups socially. The problems we have are poverty, goverment incompetence and corruption, out of control immigration and crime. Out of all these problems, the only one that inter-racial marriages can help solve is that of poverty, as wealth from a white family might find it's way to a less fortunate, previously disadvantaged black family. But offering incentives for inter racial marriages will be a sick and unfair way to fight poverty. Just end the mismanagement of funds and divert it to creating jobs. The South African society, and I believe the American society as well, does not need to encourage inter racial marriages.

Racism is not that major of an issue and not that bad. There are some really alarmist caucasian liberal hypochondriac nut cases out there that will press this issue very hard in the future, but just ignore them. Maybe they'll go away.



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26 May 2013, 6:29 pm

Interesting article

http://www.csmonitor.com/2004/0507/p01s03-woaf.html

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....Exact numbers aren't known, but by one estimate, four of every 100 marriages are between the major race groups: black, colored (mulatto), Asian, and white. Given the country's troubled history, many see this number as quite high. And it's expected to grow.

Black-white marriages are the rarest - and get the most attention. Some such couples are called "Top Decks," after a candy bar that's both white and milk chocolate. "That's an insult," says Frans Cronje, a researcher at the South African Institute of Race Relations in Johannesburg. "But at least these couples aren't getting beaten to death in the street. And when you think about where we were 10 years ago, that's a positive thing."

...there's a big gap between blacks and whites on the issue of interracial marriage. Just 27 percent of blacks - and fully 75 percent of whites - say they'd be bothered if their child married across race lines, according to a survey by Harvard University and The Kaiser Family Foundation.

Americans, by contrast, are more accepting, though there's still a black-white gap.

...In 2003, 66 percent of American whites - and 86 percent of blacks - said they wouldn't object if their child married interracially, according to a Gallup poll.

...Also, American black-white unions are more often black men marrying white women. In South Africa, it's typically reversed: white men marrying black women. To the extent that economics plays into marriage, the widespread poverty among South Africa's black men "may be compelling black women to seek financial security from privileged - or white - groups.

...When Hazel began dating Phillip, all four of their parents were unfazed. But one of Hazel's favorite aunts - the one she always told all her secrets to - pulled her aside. "Why are you dating him?" she asked sharply. Like others in the village, the aunt worried, "He's a dropout who can't find a white wife,"

...It's not that blacks and whites aren't marrying very much "because they don't like each other," says Mr. Cronje. After decades of separate existence under apartheid, "We just don't know each other very well." Even a decade on, he says, "We've got a lot to learn about each other."


I was surprised by the part in bold. In the USA, lots of White chicks dig Black dudes.

I'm surprised that your coloured population would care that their children only marry other coloureds.



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26 May 2013, 8:59 pm

I thought the term "coloreds" was passe and considered to be disparaging to blacks.
Leave it to a liberal. :roll:


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26 May 2013, 9:07 pm

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I thought the term "coloreds" was passe and considered to be disparaging to blacks.
Leave it to a liberal. :roll:


What's Raptor doing, taking part in a discussion that isn't about guns? We haven't started shooting each other yet.

"Coloured" is the South African ethnonym for South Africans of mixed race.

http://www.southafrica.net/za/en/articl ... d-heritage


And, even in the United States, the NAACP hasn't gone so far as to remove the "C" from its name.



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27 May 2013, 9:33 am

Here are a few of South Africa's 4.5 million Coloureds:

[img][800:368]http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_wNJtF1XNe8Y/S9WdUC-mZKI/AAAAAAAAB80/DJ2BF0V85lk/s1600/coloured+souls.png[/img]

I suspect that inter-breeding occurred as soon as Europeans established contact. A typical priority for young adventurers is to insert their penises into a vagina, particularly after a lengthy sea voyage.

With permanent European settlement, interracial marriages had to have been fairly common, as European men found the local ladies to be quite comely and appealing.

For some reason, after South Africa started importing European women as wives for its White men, or after White European families started moving to South Africa, the large number of Coloured people became second-class citizens.

There was a similar situation in North America. Pocahontas had married John Rolfe, and was brought to England to advertise the availability of similar maidens in the New World, and to promote additional English settlement. Some time after that, people in the United States would go to great pains to deny any non-European ancestry.



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27 May 2013, 9:39 am

I love mixed flavours so I have no problem with marrying other races.



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27 May 2013, 10:54 am

What's that you say? I provided some eye candy for the ladies and gay men, but nothing for the heterosexual gents? Well, we can't have that now, can we? I feel your pain indeed.

Here is Maria Venus Raj!! ! :cyclopsani:

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She has the cutest little walk that I've ever seen.



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31 May 2013, 12:31 am

Some cultures could use some east asian european and central asian genetics for its women but east asian european and central asian women should stay to their own culture for the most part dont need the best to be too watered down.



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31 May 2013, 7:57 am

Raptor wrote:
I thought the term "coloreds" was passe and considered to be disparaging to blacks.
Leave it to a liberal. :roll:


"Coloreds"- short for 'Cape Coloreds"( ie colored folks of the Cape) is a century old South African term for racially mixed people of their own country. The term has nothing to do with what americans decide to call american blacks at any given time.



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31 May 2013, 8:36 am

I don't know if inter-racial marriages should be -promoted- but I think such marriages should NOT be prevented.

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