GGPViper wrote:
visagrunt wrote:
Even if he is right about 99% of muslims, he is still wrong about 1%--and that 1% deserves to be acknowledged.
If you were to give advice to a patient, would you recommend him or her to:
- Smoke tobacco or not?
- Being physically active or not?
- Consume trans fat foods or not?
I rarely give my advice to patients in terms of absolutes.
I don't say, "Don't smoke!" (except for patients with respiratory disorders); rather, I say, "Smoking is probably going to create health problems for you down the line. I'd prefer it if you didn't smoke, and there are some options we can look at to help you quit, if that's what you want."
Similarly on issues of diet and exercise. Me ordering a patient to get exercising and to drop bad food choices isn't going to get that patient to obey. My approach is to acknowledge there are choices and that there are consequences for choices. There are supports out there to help make better choices; but at the end of the day, good health should be as much about quality of life, as quantity of life.
And most important of all--I acknowledge a patient's good choices, and a patient's partial successes.
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--James