DMK: There are two main problems with the Bible. The first is that most people who are quoting the Bible or using the Bible to justify their behavior (especially poor behavior towards others) do not really know what is in the Bible. This results in discussions that are meaningless.
The second problem is that the New Testament, such as it is, was not written during Jesus' lifetime, and it was not written by specific people named Mark, John, Luke and Matthew. The earliest gospel, Mark, was written many years after Jesus' death. It was not written by the hand of god, however you may conceive of her, it was written by people, even groups of people, most of whom had an agenda to push. Also, they were copied over and over by scribes who may not actually copy correctly, or may editorialize somewhat. A historical study of the Bible reveals the likely agendas. Much of what Christians rely on for guidance are the letters of Paul, a Roman who converted to Christianity long after Jesus died. The holiest of holy, in my upbringing, was the Nicene Creed. Then I learned it was chosen by some ruler (can't remember anymore who it was) from some competing political agencies.
Nevermind Matthew, how can anyone read Leviticus and think that is the way we should live our lives? Every time someone gets all riled up because of this or that which is in the Bible and therefore must be true, should try living their lives by Leviticus.
The more one studies the Bible and the history of Christianity, the less it becomes possible to believe.
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