slowmutant wrote:
And I am a big believer in the Golden Rule and the reciprocity of energies. I believe you will encounter more violence in your life if you are a naturally aggressive person than if you're a naturally peaceful person. Send out negativity, receive negativity back.
I agree completely. What you send out, you get back. There are quite a few people in my life who have f***ed me over so badly it's taken me years to get to the point of "over it"-ness that I'm at now, and I still am not completely healed. The blows keep coming. But frankly, I could never wish these people death or harm. If not for them , then in my own self-interest. Failure to forgive only hurts the person holding the grudge. "Misery is in the eye of the Grudge-holder" so to speak.
But seriously, I believe in total forgiveness of most wrongdoings. I'm sure there might be a line somewhere that should be drawn where a wrongdoing is incapable of being forgiven, but I don't know where that line lies, if it exists, and it isn't my job to draw it. Until then, I try to love and be loved. I'm not Christian, but I am a strong advocate of the Golden Rule. I think things are in a right state in the world today. I don't need to add to it by contributing my petty grievances. The best I can do is love and be loved. That's the most good anyone can do, and believe me, it makes a difference.
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