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Doberdoofus
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Joined: 31 Dec 2021
Age: 53
Gender: Non-binary
Posts: 1,166
Location: Orbiting Wrong Planet
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Yawn, Typically Folks Are Much Nicer to Each Other Face-to-Face Than
Electronic Media, So Far Removed From the Benefits of Human Warmth and Also
The Danger of Two Folks Getting Angry, Eventually Moving into Fisticuffs Next;
Particularly, Where Two Men Stand, No Matter What Their Proficiencies in Fighting May
Be As It's True, i Do LiVE iN "Stand Your Ground Trump Town USA, Panhandle of Florida,"
Where the Local Sheriff Got on TV And Gave the Advice to Shoot A Criminal Breaking Into Our
(They Even Offer
Target Practice
Classes as Well
As He Promoted That too)
Homes to Save the
Taxpayer's Money
For Having to Work on
Rehabilitating The Citizens
Who Run Afoul of the Laws of the Land
In Terms of Breaking Entries of Homes AS Such.
i've Watched 'The Locals in Action' as An 'Undercover
Public Dancer' Per Do, in the Last 9 Years And Have Learned
Much About the Local Populace For Being in Action With them
And Communicating Very Closely; Particularly, in Some Cases of
Grinding Dances 'offered-UP' Free to me in the Largest Dance Hall in
the Metro Area of Over Half-A-Million (6 Years, 298 Weekly Events) Folks to my Great Surprise Returning
To The Dance Hall From the Mid-Eighties to the Year of Our Lord, 2014, When Obama Directed The Country.
True, Back in those 80's Days, The Young Women Never Fully 'Assaulted' my Private Parts With Hips As a Stranger,
Who i Never Met Before; Yes, "Back in Those Days," i Spent Much of my Life as A Wall-Flower; Yet i Digress as Basically
Men Asked Women to Dance, and "Back in Those Days," i Was rather Shy and it Took Close to a 'Six-Pack' to even go in.
It's True in the Mid-Eighties, the Prospect of A Transgender Person Greeting Folks At the Walmart Door Was A Big Zero.
It's True Today, the Reality is Here, and Watching Folks Interact With this Kind Young Person, Who i Silently Give a Nickname of 'Jesus,' Until the Person Fully Identifies to me What Their Gender is, Plus Whatever Pronoun they Might
Enjoy to Be Called By to Satisfy Their Personal Gender Identity of Life; It's Worth Noting That In Artistic Endeavors Jesus is
(It's Not Likely Gonna Happen)
Presented aRtistically Yes
With An R Maybe U as
A Very Androgynous
Human Being With A
Beard and A 'Flaming HeART'
of Kindness Radiating All Around His Being For Others.
The Metaphorical Aspect of THiS 'FLaMinG HeART' is Why
The Transgender Person Gets That Silent Nickname from me...
Anyway, As Face-to-Face Interactions Go As the Kindest Walmart
Greeter Says Goodbye to the Locals As i Watch Their Interactions
Behind my Shades as Part of my 'Under-Cover-Get-Up-Per-Do,' They
Reciprocate the FLaME of Kindness Back to the Walmart Transgender Greeter
And By the Distance the Greeter Can No Longer Hear and View them, They Snicker Together;
Not Much Different Than the Folks Together At the Southern-Baptist-First Sunday-After-Church-Dinner on the
Southern Baptist Pastor's Farm Grounds as Typically Gossip is A Hot-Topic of Most all the Interactions There when
Others are Not Present.
It's Not Like 'Here' Where
Someone Who READS FAST
Can/Does Consume Large Chunks
of the Forum As An Anthropology
Participant Observer too to Gather
Muse for A Longest 9 Year, 10.8 MiLLioN
Word EPiC Long Form Poem Special Interest True.
Anyway, Honestly, i'd Rather LiVE iN This Small Trump Town USA
Than A Big City, Yuck, Like Seattle Where Some Really Ignorant Folks
Thought They Could LiVE Without Law-In-Order Provided by 'the State.'
This is A Most Peaceful Place i Can And Will Imagine and the Frigging Folks Around
Here, at Least Face-to-Face, Just Don't Bring up Politics and Religion As That's 'Normal Human Etiquette;'
On The Other Hand, i'm More Likely To Do it As i Don't Always Follow 'Normal Human Etiquette' in this Local
Community; However, i'm Always Kind Without Fail And Generally Speaking Ya Don't Mess With the Martial Artist
(i Have the Ability to Put Them to Sleep too With Long Fred-Talk Monologues As Well THeRE too)
Who Public
Dances
And Also Leg
Presses up to 1520 Pounds;
No Matter How Graceful A Bull
Manages Not to Break China in A Walmart Store Hehe;
i Have a Kind of Privilege in Life Most Folks Don't Even Have A NaMe for heHe...
Yet i Do Get Around, i Do Connect With Hundreds of Folks Each Week Still And True, On Average,
Before Covid-19 Shut-Down the Metro Biggest Dance Hall on 3.12.2020, i Connected With Literally
Over A Thousand Folks, at Least Non-Verbally, Weekly, Taking Notes Totally Sober as Such, WIDE AWAKE.
THERE were Folks of All Kinds of 'Orientations' and 'Identities' there and Everyone Typically Treated Each Other
As Humans Just Dancing The Night Away Getting Drunk, Until the Next Day of Work or School on Friday Reminded
Them What
They Did the
Night Before, Hehe...
Oh to be Young, Oh To Be
Open Minded Enough to Get
Along with Folks Who Are Different than Us...
These Were Newer Generations; i Watched the Millennials
Exit the Dance Hall and Generation Z Above 18 Enter the Place.
This Much i'll Dance Sing, Times Are A Changing And This Ain't Gonna
Be An 'Okay Boomer World' Much Longer; As the Silent Generation, Generally
Speaking Are Dying-off in Church Pews Locally And the Youngest Generation Left
is Typically Us Boomers Who Relatively Speaking Now Look Like Youngsters at Church
For As Far As One My Look Gray Hair is Mostly What is Left in the Pews; Culture Changes, It's the Only Constant;
Ya Either Catch Up to What's
New Or Ya Fall Behind and
Are No Longer
Part of 'the
Groove;' Let's
Just Say Through Practice;
A Whole Lot of Practice; i'm
Able to Fit and Get Along Fine in Every Damned
Crowd and Yes the Blessed Ones of Kindness too...
i'll Take This Place Beyond A Big City, So-called Liberal
Place, Any Day of the Week Just Because This is Literally A Safest Place
to Exist
And Express
my Own Unique
Way of Being Without
Even Missing A Dance Step
or A Song of a Word, No Matter Where i go...
In Fact, 'The Wrong Planet' Has Been one of the
Most Challenging Places to be me FREE Who i Really Am; Much Thornier than Any Place in 'Real-Life'
Yet of Course i Come From Hell For Real For 66 Months, it Still Feels Like A Rose Garden Here to me...
Meh, if it was Face-to-Face,
Doubt it Would be Anymore
Challenge Than Trump Town
USA That is NO CHALLENGE AT ALL NOW...
IN 'REAL-LiFE,' i LOVE Conservative Folks, They are Some of the Nicest Folks i know...
i Realize They Gossip About me Behind my Back And i Give 'em A Whole
Lot of Reason to Do
That too, hehe...
i Realize That's
One of Their Favorite
Past Times to DO; if Not me,
Anyway, Their So-Called Best FRiEnDS...
This is Just The Human Condition Like the
Rest of Existence, Thorns And Flowers Make Roses
Either Wilting
or Rising;
In Practice,
i Perfect 'The
Art of the Rise;' i Suggest
Others Enjoy HeaveN ON
EartH As Well, if They Can
And Will; And 'Just Do LOVE iT ALL For Real Now'...
Have A Nice Day; It's What Most of Us Do in 'Trump Town USA;'
Are These Folks Gonna Start a Civil War Out of the Three Thousand
Strong Local
Biggest
Church;
And All
the Others too,
F No,
They Gonna
Praise Jesus
Until a Dirt Nap
Promise oF A Place of Heaven.
Indeed, Jesus is still Saving Our Country ThiS Way;
Do Not Doubt The Force of the 'J Man' Among the Median
Age of 'Fox News Watchers,' Per 68 Years-Old, my Peers For Real;
Jesus, The MaGiC Password, If Ya Will Quote Bible Verses
There Ain't No Argument Ya Can't Get Out of Here, Hehe...
'When in Rome', Ya Thrive By STill Blending in on the Sly...
'Listen' Folks, 'Get Woke'; The Real World Ain't TV And The Interwebz
At Least
Not For
Real Now
in Trump
Town USA...
People Vote, They Go To Work,
They Go to Church, They Go Home
And Still 'Go to Sleep;'
After The Church Ladies
Watch the "Magic Mike XXL"
Movie They Promise to Get
Hot With Their Husbands
At the End of the Movie,
Literally Yelling it From
The Places They Sit, Oh God
YeS! i Witnessed that
With my Wife And
Her Female
Relatives too;
It's the Tradition
of the Tradition;
THere is Literally
No Escape for
Church Goin' Folks HeaR...
This IS A Least Scary Place to
LiVE oF ALL, Even if You Happen
to BE A Trangender Greeter At Walmart...
i'm From the 60's, 6.6.60, Here, WHere i Was Threatened
to Be Beat Up in the Early 70's, if i Smiled As A Boy 'They'
Said Looked Like a Girl at the City Park Playing Tennis,
And in Middle School Halls too Just Happy to Be Alive....
i Am Happy to Report that in 'Trump Town USA' Today
'They' Let People Who
Are Happy to Be Alive
Exist Now.
Thanks God
For Newer Generations
As the Anger and Hate Dies A Slow Dance Death...
Gotta Go, Gas is $3.29 A Gallon Here, School Loans Still Are Expensive, And
The Taco Tuesday Special at the Mexican Restaurant is Only $4.99 After 5 PM...
It's No Wonder Biden's Approval Ratings (Not Here) Have 'Sky-Rocketed,' 6 Points to 44, Hehe..
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30 Aug 2022, 6:03 pm
Nades wrote:
League_Girl wrote:
I do think Nades is being sincere when he says pronouns are hard to remember because of his disability. Yes you can still try and make an effort but I have experienced people getting impatient with me for not learning fast enough or misunderstanding my questions I'm asking as me not listening because I'm trying to learn and make an effort and I am trying to be sure I do remember the steps and I am not talking about pronouns here.
Even ASD people get impatient with me and it's come to a point where I don't want to make an effort anymore if it will just piss people off for even trying. No one can see inside my brain so they assume I am doing it on purpose.
One thing I have learned in the autism community is even people on the spectrum won't always understand me if they don't have the same issues I have when it comes to learning and processing things. This is a human thing than an NT thing to not understand someone different than them.
Even ASD people get impatient with me and it's come to a point where I don't want to make an effort anymore if it will just piss people off for even trying. No one can see inside my brain so they assume I am doing it on purpose.
One thing I have learned in the autism community is even people on the spectrum won't always understand me if they don't have the same issues I have when it comes to learning and processing things. This is a human thing than an NT thing to not understand someone different than them.
Being a guy that struggles to learn virtually anything and everything along with finding social interactions awkward and my preference to similarly, I'm just not interested in adopting yet another layer of complexity to interactions.
This is due pretty much entirely to disability. That and pronouns are a viscous enough hot topic online, why would I want to partake in anything relating to it in person?
There is a reason I am on SSDI. I piss people off with my learning and how I process things and there are not enough patient people out there so I am the one with a disability.
And when people get frustrated with me, I start having anxiety and then it's even harder for me to learn and i tend to shut down and i do worse.
30 Aug 2022, 6:21 pm
30 Aug 2022, 6:30 pm
I don't resist pronouns, I am saying I will have a hard time remembering them if they don't look the gender they identify as. It will take me longer to remember and all I need is reminders of their pronoun. It takes zero efforts to correct someone or to wear a pronoun tag on your shirt if it's that important. Apparently i am not trying hard enough. 
But then again, I am not most people.
30 Aug 2022, 6:37 pm
