If a girl is raped and pregnant, should she keep the baby?

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16 Aug 2011, 1:36 pm

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Yes,especially when it comes to Christianity.It's not the baby's fault and second it the woman becomes pregnant it's her duty to raise the child as a right Christian.You can't say it's horrible for the mother as it is selfish,a good,humble person would raise the child.Do you know many priests raised many kids in bad times who were not theirs and that had nothing to do with someone becoming pregnant without planing it.Humbling is the biggest virtue.


Yeah. Not giving up all rights over her own body is selfish. How dare she. Never mind her physical health, her emotional health, her trauma from being raped, it's all about the rights of that piece of f*****g gelatine.


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16 Aug 2011, 3:36 pm

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Thanks for that information Philologos, wasn't aware Ostriches were ever native to the Middle East. Though my area isn't exactly the habitat ranges of birds.
To be an ornithologist one has to have at least a basic grounding in general biology. So, yes: we knew that.



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16 Aug 2011, 3:42 pm

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Yes,especially when it comes to Christianity.It's not the baby's fault and second it the woman becomes pregnant it's her duty to raise the child as a right Christian.You can't say it's horrible for the mother as it is selfish,a good,humble person would raise the child.Do you know many priests raised many kids in bad times who were not theirs and that had nothing to do with someone becoming pregnant without planing it.Humbling is the biggest virtue.


Yeah. Not giving up all rights over her own body is selfish. How dare she. Never mind her physical health, her emotional health, her trauma from being raped, it's all about the rights of that piece of f***ing gelatine.

^agree w/mechanical girl. Adoption is not the same thing as bearing and raising a rapist's unwanted offspring.
JohnyJohn is so clueless here that it almost looks trollish, but I'm not supposed to say anyone's a troll so I'll leave it at 'clueless' and 'almost.'



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16 Aug 2011, 3:51 pm

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Yes because I do believe that the baby is a human from conception on and therefore should not be punished for what someone else did. Yes, I know that is horrible for the mother. Yes I know I just pissed off half of the universe. Adopt the kid away, hell I'll take 'em to save their life. I would not want to be executed because my father raped and neither should that child.


Enough said. Your personal beliefs don't make it okay to force someone to be pregnant and give birth.


Do people that post and/or believe things like this not realize that they are in fact projecting their own views and beliefs upon others as much as or more so than they accuse others of doing? Did I mention my religious beliefs at all? Query, if it is not conception that something "becomes" human and is entitled to equal protection under the law, then when? Birth? 3 years old? Anything after conception is arbitrary. Now if you want to argue that they are human but that doesn't matter and the mother has the right to kill her child, then you are at least making a logical argument. One I do not agree with, but at least you are consistent. Why should anyone be able to arbitrarily be allowed to kill another because they were injured by a third party? The logic of A did wrong to B so B can kill C is not good logic. I think this illlogic arrises from an inability to look past the fact that once the woman is pregnant there are actually 3 people involved, the rapist, the raped and the child, not just the raped and rapist.


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Nope. Even if for argument's sake we decide the fetus's rights override, the fetus doesn't have the necessary neural hardware for consciousness until about 25th week. I'd say that would be a good dividing line.

Yes, I do think it's ok no matter how far the fetus is. Not even a born person gets the right to usurp someone's body.


There is brain activity around day 48 after conception. Arguing about when consciousness occurs is rather ridiculous because there is not any way to test for consciousness while the child is in the womb. Hell one of my coworkers told me about how doctors thought he was a stillborn until they realized he was breathing, because he actually was asleep.



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16 Aug 2011, 4:01 pm

Inuyasha wrote:
mechanicalgirl39 wrote:
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mechanicalgirl39 wrote:
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Yes because I do believe that the baby is a human from conception on and therefore should not be punished for what someone else did. Yes, I know that is horrible for the mother. Yes I know I just pissed off half of the universe. Adopt the kid away, hell I'll take 'em to save their life. I would not want to be executed because my father raped and neither should that child.


Enough said. Your personal beliefs don't make it okay to force someone to be pregnant and give birth.


Do people that post and/or believe things like this not realize that they are in fact projecting their own views and beliefs upon others as much as or more so than they accuse others of doing? Did I mention my religious beliefs at all? Query, if it is not conception that something "becomes" human and is entitled to equal protection under the law, then when? Birth? 3 years old? Anything after conception is arbitrary. Now if you want to argue that they are human but that doesn't matter and the mother has the right to kill her child, then you are at least making a logical argument. One I do not agree with, but at least you are consistent. Why should anyone be able to arbitrarily be allowed to kill another because they were injured by a third party? The logic of A did wrong to B so B can kill C is not good logic. I think this illlogic arrises from an inability to look past the fact that once the woman is pregnant there are actually 3 people involved, the rapist, the raped and the child, not just the raped and rapist.


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Anything after conception is arbitrary.


Nope. Even if for argument's sake we decide the fetus's rights override, the fetus doesn't have the necessary neural hardware for consciousness until about 25th week. I'd say that would be a good dividing line.

Yes, I do think it's ok no matter how far the fetus is. Not even a born person gets the right to usurp someone's body.


There is brain activity around day 48 after conception. Arguing about when consciousness occurs is rather ridiculous because there is not any way to test for consciousness while the child is in the womb. Hell one of my coworkers told me about how doctors thought he was a stillborn until they realized he was breathing, because he actually was asleep.

1) there is neural activity at that stage, not "brain activity." Repeating your claim does not make it more true.
2)Newborns are not 'asleep.' He might have been 'unconscious,' but certainly after having his head forced through a bony passage so small that his skull was deformed (assuming that it was a normal, 'natural' birth), 'asleep' is not the right word to use. 'Unresponsive to painful stimuli' indicates pretty significant alteration in a person's level of consciousness, and is NOT the same as being asleep.



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16 Aug 2011, 4:08 pm

LKL wrote:
Inuyasha wrote:
mechanicalgirl39 wrote:
URtheALIEN wrote:
mechanicalgirl39 wrote:
URtheALIEN wrote:
Yes because I do believe that the baby is a human from conception on and therefore should not be punished for what someone else did. Yes, I know that is horrible for the mother. Yes I know I just pissed off half of the universe. Adopt the kid away, hell I'll take 'em to save their life. I would not want to be executed because my father raped and neither should that child.


Enough said. Your personal beliefs don't make it okay to force someone to be pregnant and give birth.


Do people that post and/or believe things like this not realize that they are in fact projecting their own views and beliefs upon others as much as or more so than they accuse others of doing? Did I mention my religious beliefs at all? Query, if it is not conception that something "becomes" human and is entitled to equal protection under the law, then when? Birth? 3 years old? Anything after conception is arbitrary. Now if you want to argue that they are human but that doesn't matter and the mother has the right to kill her child, then you are at least making a logical argument. One I do not agree with, but at least you are consistent. Why should anyone be able to arbitrarily be allowed to kill another because they were injured by a third party? The logic of A did wrong to B so B can kill C is not good logic. I think this illlogic arrises from an inability to look past the fact that once the woman is pregnant there are actually 3 people involved, the rapist, the raped and the child, not just the raped and rapist.


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Anything after conception is arbitrary.


Nope. Even if for argument's sake we decide the fetus's rights override, the fetus doesn't have the necessary neural hardware for consciousness until about 25th week. I'd say that would be a good dividing line.

Yes, I do think it's ok no matter how far the fetus is. Not even a born person gets the right to usurp someone's body.


There is brain activity around day 48 after conception. Arguing about when consciousness occurs is rather ridiculous because there is not any way to test for consciousness while the child is in the womb. Hell one of my coworkers told me about how doctors thought he was a stillborn until they realized he was breathing, because he actually was asleep.

1) there is neural activity at that stage, not "brain activity." Repeating your claim does not make it more true.
2)Newborns are not 'asleep.' He might have been 'unconscious,' but certainly after having his head forced through a bony passage so small that his skull was deformed (assuming that it was a normal, 'natural' birth), 'asleep' is not the right word to use. 'Unresponsive to painful stimuli' indicates pretty significant alteration in a person's level of consciousness, and is NOT the same as being asleep.


The neural activity is centered in the head, that means it is brain activity genius. The brain, spinal cord, and heart are the earliest organs to begin to form in the brain. The brain takes a long time to develop (due to the complexity), however the fact is that is up and running around day 48, not week 25, like you like to claim. Heck there is limb movement well before week 25, so that kinda shoots your claim full of holes too.



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16 Aug 2011, 4:12 pm

So if the Baby is so human why isn't it entitled to free health insurance?



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16 Aug 2011, 4:19 pm

Inuyasha wrote:
LKL wrote:
Inuyasha wrote:
mechanicalgirl39 wrote:
URtheALIEN wrote:
mechanicalgirl39 wrote:
URtheALIEN wrote:
Yes because I do believe that the baby is a human from conception on and therefore should not be punished for what someone else did. Yes, I know that is horrible for the mother. Yes I know I just pissed off half of the universe. Adopt the kid away, hell I'll take 'em to save their life. I would not want to be executed because my father raped and neither should that child.


Enough said. Your personal beliefs don't make it okay to force someone to be pregnant and give birth.


Do people that post and/or believe things like this not realize that they are in fact projecting their own views and beliefs upon others as much as or more so than they accuse others of doing? Did I mention my religious beliefs at all? Query, if it is not conception that something "becomes" human and is entitled to equal protection under the law, then when? Birth? 3 years old? Anything after conception is arbitrary. Now if you want to argue that they are human but that doesn't matter and the mother has the right to kill her child, then you are at least making a logical argument. One I do not agree with, but at least you are consistent. Why should anyone be able to arbitrarily be allowed to kill another because they were injured by a third party? The logic of A did wrong to B so B can kill C is not good logic. I think this illlogic arrises from an inability to look past the fact that once the woman is pregnant there are actually 3 people involved, the rapist, the raped and the child, not just the raped and rapist.


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Anything after conception is arbitrary.


Nope. Even if for argument's sake we decide the fetus's rights override, the fetus doesn't have the necessary neural hardware for consciousness until about 25th week. I'd say that would be a good dividing line.

Yes, I do think it's ok no matter how far the fetus is. Not even a born person gets the right to usurp someone's body.


There is brain activity around day 48 after conception. Arguing about when consciousness occurs is rather ridiculous because there is not any way to test for consciousness while the child is in the womb. Hell one of my coworkers told me about how doctors thought he was a stillborn until they realized he was breathing, because he actually was asleep.

1) there is neural activity at that stage, not "brain activity." Repeating your claim does not make it more true.
2)Newborns are not 'asleep.' He might have been 'unconscious,' but certainly after having his head forced through a bony passage so small that his skull was deformed (assuming that it was a normal, 'natural' birth), 'asleep' is not the right word to use. 'Unresponsive to painful stimuli' indicates pretty significant alteration in a person's level of consciousness, and is NOT the same as being asleep.


The neural activity is centered in the head, that means it is brain activity genius. The brain, spinal cord, and heart are the earliest organs to begin to form in the brain. The brain takes a long time to develop (due to the complexity), however the fact is that is up and running around day 48, not week 25, like you like to claim. Heck there is limb movement well before week 25, so that kinda shoots your claim full of holes too.


the earliest interconectivity (a known requirement for consciousness) is observed at week 20.

again what they observed is actually like an UNCONSCIOUS brain.



for the 100th time aimed specifically at you inuyasha


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16 Aug 2011, 6:36 pm

Oodain wrote:
Inuyasha wrote:
LKL wrote:
Inuyasha wrote:
mechanicalgirl39 wrote:
URtheALIEN wrote:
mechanicalgirl39 wrote:
URtheALIEN wrote:
Yes because I do believe that the baby is a human from conception on and therefore should not be punished for what someone else did. Yes, I know that is horrible for the mother. Yes I know I just pissed off half of the universe. Adopt the kid away, hell I'll take 'em to save their life. I would not want to be executed because my father raped and neither should that child.


Enough said. Your personal beliefs don't make it okay to force someone to be pregnant and give birth.


Do people that post and/or believe things like this not realize that they are in fact projecting their own views and beliefs upon others as much as or more so than they accuse others of doing? Did I mention my religious beliefs at all? Query, if it is not conception that something "becomes" human and is entitled to equal protection under the law, then when? Birth? 3 years old? Anything after conception is arbitrary. Now if you want to argue that they are human but that doesn't matter and the mother has the right to kill her child, then you are at least making a logical argument. One I do not agree with, but at least you are consistent. Why should anyone be able to arbitrarily be allowed to kill another because they were injured by a third party? The logic of A did wrong to B so B can kill C is not good logic. I think this illlogic arrises from an inability to look past the fact that once the woman is pregnant there are actually 3 people involved, the rapist, the raped and the child, not just the raped and rapist.


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Anything after conception is arbitrary.


Nope. Even if for argument's sake we decide the fetus's rights override, the fetus doesn't have the necessary neural hardware for consciousness until about 25th week. I'd say that would be a good dividing line.

Yes, I do think it's ok no matter how far the fetus is. Not even a born person gets the right to usurp someone's body.


There is brain activity around day 48 after conception. Arguing about when consciousness occurs is rather ridiculous because there is not any way to test for consciousness while the child is in the womb. Hell one of my coworkers told me about how doctors thought he was a stillborn until they realized he was breathing, because he actually was asleep.

1) there is neural activity at that stage, not "brain activity." Repeating your claim does not make it more true.
2)Newborns are not 'asleep.' He might have been 'unconscious,' but certainly after having his head forced through a bony passage so small that his skull was deformed (assuming that it was a normal, 'natural' birth), 'asleep' is not the right word to use. 'Unresponsive to painful stimuli' indicates pretty significant alteration in a person's level of consciousness, and is NOT the same as being asleep.


The neural activity is centered in the head, that means it is brain activity genius. The brain, spinal cord, and heart are the earliest organs to begin to form in the brain. The brain takes a long time to develop (due to the complexity), however the fact is that is up and running around day 48, not week 25, like you like to claim. Heck there is limb movement well before week 25, so that kinda shoots your claim full of holes too.


the earliest interconectivity (a known requirement for consciousness) is observed at week 20.

again what they observed is actually like an UNCONSCIOUS brain.



for the 100th time aimed specifically at you inuyasha


So it just went from week 25, to week 20? Just like that, seriously looks more like you guys don't have a leg to stand on.



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16 Aug 2011, 7:22 pm

again a comment that shows you really dont know what the hell you are reading.

im giving up, i have tried more times than i care to count to get this very argument across to you.

the reason is that even at week 20 what you see is only the emerging signs of an unconsciouss human consciousness, as wriiten.
anything before that is pre (the point of even being unconscious), also the reason why your ridicoulous argument about killing sleeping or unconscious people is utter bs.


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again a comment that shows you really dont know what the hell you are reading.

im giving up, i have tried more times than i care to count to get this very argument across to you.

the reason is that even at week 20 what you see is only the emerging signs of an unconsciouss human consciousness, as wriiten.
anything before that is pre (the point of even being unconscious), also the reason why your ridicoulous argument about killing sleeping or unconscious people is utter bs.


:roll:

You neglect to take into account that the womb doesn't exactly have much in the way of sensory stimuli.



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16 Aug 2011, 7:27 pm

Inuyasha wrote:
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again a comment that shows you really dont know what the hell you are reading.

im giving up, i have tried more times than i care to count to get this very argument across to you.

the reason is that even at week 20 what you see is only the emerging signs of an unconsciouss human consciousness, as wriiten.
anything before that is pre (the point of even being unconscious), also the reason why your ridicoulous argument about killing sleeping or unconscious people is utter bs.


:roll:

You neglect to take into account that the womb doesn't exactly have much in the way of sensory stimuli.


How would you know?



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16 Aug 2011, 7:33 pm

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again a comment that shows you really dont know what the hell you are reading.

im giving up, i have tried more times than i care to count to get this very argument across to you.

the reason is that even at week 20 what you see is only the emerging signs of an unconsciouss human consciousness, as wriiten.
anything before that is pre (the point of even being unconscious), also the reason why your ridicoulous argument about killing sleeping or unconscious people is utter bs.


:roll:

You neglect to take into account that the womb doesn't exactly have much in the way of sensory stimuli.


How would you know?


Last I heard, women didn't exactly have flashing lights in their body, nor do they have a total fitness gym. A child is inside a membrane that is there to protect them, so they really don't have much in the way of tactile stimuli usually.



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16 Aug 2011, 7:58 pm

Inuyasha wrote:
pandabear wrote:
Inuyasha wrote:
Oodain wrote:
again a comment that shows you really dont know what the hell you are reading.

im giving up, i have tried more times than i care to count to get this very argument across to you.

the reason is that even at week 20 what you see is only the emerging signs of an unconsciouss human consciousness, as wriiten.
anything before that is pre (the point of even being unconscious), also the reason why your ridicoulous argument about killing sleeping or unconscious people is utter bs.


:roll:

You neglect to take into account that the womb doesn't exactly have much in the way of sensory stimuli.


How would you know?


Last I heard, women didn't exactly have flashing lights in their body, nor do they have a total fitness gym. A child is inside a membrane that is there to protect them, so they really don't have much in the way of tactile stimuli usually.


Not that I'm at all interested in yet another abortion debate, but I'd like to point out the total nonsense of this comment. Babies have lots of stimuli in the uterus and this becomes more and more apparent as the baby grows and develops. Movements become reactionary and moms can feel this. Babies react to lights (as seen through ultrasound), sounds, foods that mom eats. They even develop predictable sleep/wake patterns. But all of these reactions are limited to babies that have developed consciousness.

I would contest the 20 week hypothesis though. In my own personal experience, movement seemed reactionary probably closer to around 16 weeks, but that's just an anecdotal hunch. Either way, a fetus at 8 weeks or even 10 weeks, no way.



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Last I heard, women didn't exactly have flashing lights in their body, nor do they have a total fitness gym. A child is inside a membrane that is there to protect them, so they really don't have much in the way of tactile stimuli usually.


You are correct in asserting that women do not have flashing lights and total fitness gyms within their wombs.

There is the mother's heartbeat, keeping the fetus company.

The fetus is swaddled in a tight liquid container. The fetus does move around.

If the mother smokes, or is exposed to second hand smoke, it hurts the fetus.

The fetus does have tactile stimuli. If you're lucky, a pregnant woman may permit you to play with her fetus by stroking her belly.



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16 Aug 2011, 10:17 pm

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Yes because I do believe that the baby is a human from conception on and therefore should not be punished for what someone else did. Yes, I know that is horrible for the mother. Yes I know I just pissed off half of the universe. Adopt the kid away, hell I'll take 'em to save their life. I would not want to be executed because my father raped and neither should that child.


Enough said. Your personal beliefs don't make it okay to force someone to be pregnant and give birth.


Do people that post and/or believe things like this not realize that they are in fact projecting their own views and beliefs upon others as much as or more so than they accuse others of doing? Did I mention my religious beliefs at all?

You didn't mention religious beliefs, but neither did mechanicalgirl39, she mentioned personal beliefs. And that belief of yours that cells are magical beings worthy of more rights than actual living women count as personal beliefs and quite silly ones at that.


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Query, if it is not conception that something "becomes" human and is entitled to equal protection under the law, then when? Birth?
Yes birth, obviously.

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Anything after conception is arbitrary.

Conception is metric tons more arbitrary than birth. For starters, it is just a cell damnit. There is nothing magical about cells. They don't really 'dream' or anything like that. Meanwhile, at birth the being starts being its own closed system rather than part of the woman's. I am not saying birth is the best line, but it is still a much better line than conception.

Giving arbitrary rights to an early zyg (anything younger than 20 weeks) sounds incredibly silly to me. A piece of meat without even a brain I cannot consider a person that deserves more rigths than the host.


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I think this illlogic arrises from an inability to look past the fact that once the woman is pregnant there are actually 3 people involved, the rapist, the raped and the child, not just the raped and rapist.

Once the woman is pregnant, there is one person involved, the woman. The rapist can go to heck. The fertilized is way undeveloped to deserve person-hood. The only "illogic" here is in trying to assign magical or holy properties to something as mundane as a limbless, brainless zygote.

There is nothing holy about conception. No spark of god suddenly flashes and creates a person when a sperm fertilizes an egg. Fertilized egg still has a loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo oooooooooooooooooooong way before it becomes something that I would say makes sense to call a 'child'.


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