ShawnWilliam wrote:
But do go ahead and presume to insult me for no apparent reason other than to make yourself seem superior. Whatever helps you sleep at night.
It is one of those unpleasant traits.. us humans are known for..
It is easy to see the faults in others.. (I do it myself)
But much more difficult to see them.. in ourselves.
Wisdom.. then.. is being awake to this human weakness.. that we all have..
In general.. it seems to me.. people who can only mock other’s faults.. while remaining blind towards their own.. are out of touch with reality.
Self examination.. would be a much more realistic approach to take..
That is what the great sages taught.. anyway.
Why not make this your default quote.. ?
It will shut the mouths of the lions.. (see the book of Daniel)
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“Even when walking in the company of two other men, I am bound to be able to learn from them.
The good points of the one I copy; the bad points I see in the other.. I correct in myself.” - Confucius
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Here’s something from Buddhism.. about cherishing others..
Which is also a Christian belief.
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Finding fault
'...Unfortunately we have become very skilled in recognizing the faults of others, and we devote a great deal of mental energy to listing them, analyzing them, and even meditating on them! With this critical attitude, if we disagree with our partner or colleagues about something, instead of trying to understand their point of view we repeatedly think of many reasons why we are right and they are wrong. By focusing exclusively on their faults and limitations we become angry and resentful, and rather than cherishing them we develop the wish to harm or discredit them. In this way small disagreements can easily turn into conflicts that simmer for months...'
http://aboutdharma.org/cherishing-others.htm
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