ironpony wrote:
Well when I said before that I don't believe in no fault divorce, do you think that maybe some people would agree that people shouldn't be allowed to leave a marriage and leave their partners they promised for any reason? Like if they made laws that divorce can be granted on certain reasons, such as abusive partners, infedility, etc, and things like that.
"No-fault divorce" is a misnomer. "No-fault" divorce is actually "MAN'S fault" divorce, regardless of who's
actually to blame. Women own the divorce court system. So the woman always gets the house, the car, the kids, the dog, the antique stamp collection, the lifetime alimony, and 50% of her ex-husband's money. Even in conservative, beet-red states like Arkansas, marriage is still very lucrative for women. Which is why women still want to marry men.
As for infidelity, it's only bad if a man does it. If a woman does it, it's celebrated. The best way to succeed at the marriage game is not to play it at all. I have friends who are women, but there's no way in hell I'm letting a woman marry me!
Until I learned as child that getting married was a choice and not compulsory, I had a suicide plan in place, to carry out the night before the wedding. It was the ultimate revenge fantasy. I'd cheat her out of being a star of a one-woman show and the power to boss me around for life, while suffering no consequences for it, as I'd be dead. The show "Bridezillas" clinched my beliefs.