Rick Santorum?
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This traditional paradigm turned out to be complete and utter BS though, just like the hardcore Christian definition of marriage. Marriage is a legal union between two adult people, nothing more and nothing less. There are many married childless couples, because procreation has never been a requirement for marriage.
According to who? The federal government doesn't define marriage as a legal union between two adult people.
It's not about deciding, it's about reality. A lesbian couple cannot have the same kind of relationship a male/female couple can.
You're right and I don't think anyone on this thread or Rick Santorum is advocating this. I believe that they should have the same rights you listed above. Which, I believe is the case in just about every state in this country.
As far as I'm concerned, a marriage is first and foremost about love between two people who want to share their lives together; and I think that's how most people today see it. So yes, a same sex couple can have the same kind of relationship.
And did I understand you properly - that infertile couples needn't get married as they can't have children?
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This traditional paradigm turned out to be complete and utter BS though, just like the hardcore Christian definition of marriage. Marriage is a legal union between two adult people, nothing more and nothing less. There are many married childless couples, because procreation has never been a requirement for marriage.
According to who? The federal government doesn't define marriage as a legal union between two adult people.
I don't think they define it as a legal union between a man and a woman planning to have kids either, don't think plans of having a family is required for marrige. Also what is so bad about homosexual couples making their relationship official via marrige or civil union? Does it really effect you and your life that much if homosexuals are allowed to marry?
It's not about deciding, it's about reality. A lesbian couple cannot have the same kind of relationship a male/female couple can.
Proof? and why should everyones relationship be the exact same anyways.....I am sure not all males and female couples have the same kind of relationship so why should homosexuals be held to that standard?
You're right and I don't think anyone on this thread or Rick Santorum is advocating this. I believe that they should have the same rights you listed above. Which, I believe is the case in just about every state in this country.
Well in order for them to have those rights when they make their relationship official it kinda has to be treated as a marrige legally otherwise they would not get those rights mentioned.
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This traditional paradigm turned out to be complete and utter BS though, just like the hardcore Christian definition of marriage. Marriage is a legal union between two adult people, nothing more and nothing less. There are many married childless couples, because procreation has never been a requirement for marriage.
According to who? The federal government doesn't define marriage as a legal union between two adult people.
I don't think they define it as a legal union between a man and a woman planning to have kids either, don't think plans of having a family is required for marrige. Also what is so bad about homosexual couples making their relationship official via marrige or civil union? Does it really effect you and your life that much if homosexuals are allowed to marry?
It's not about deciding, it's about reality. A lesbian couple cannot have the same kind of relationship a male/female couple can.
Proof? and why should everyones relationship be the exact same anyways.....I am sure not all males and female couples have the same kind of relationship so why should homosexuals be held to that standard?
You're right and I don't think anyone on this thread or Rick Santorum is advocating this. I believe that they should have the same rights you listed above. Which, I believe is the case in just about every state in this country.
Well in order for them to have those rights when they make their relationship official it kinda has to be treated as a marrige legally otherwise they would not get those rights mentioned.
I believe, although I could be wrong, that those rights are pretty much covered under civil unions or in some states, common law.
This traditional paradigm turned out to be complete and utter BS though, just like the hardcore Christian definition of marriage. Marriage is a legal union between two adult people, nothing more and nothing less. There are many married childless couples, because procreation has never been a requirement for marriage.
According to who? The federal government doesn't define marriage as a legal union between two adult people.
It's not about deciding, it's about reality. A lesbian couple cannot have the same kind of relationship a male/female couple can.
You're right and I don't think anyone on this thread or Rick Santorum is advocating this. I believe that they should have the same rights you listed above. Which, I believe is the case in just about every state in this country.
As far as I'm concerned, a marriage is first and foremost about love between two people who want to share their lives together; and I think that's how most people today see it. So yes, a same sex couple can have the same kind of relationship.
And did I understand you properly - that infertile couples needn't get married as they can't have children?
-Bill, otherwise known as Kraichgauer
Can the same sex couples' love result in the creation of new life? Obviously not, so therefore it is different. The fact that the possibility isn't even there makes it different.
I keep hearing people say that they think marrige is about love between two people. What about blood relatives? If a brother and sister want to get married should they be able to? What about a father and daughter?
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This traditional paradigm turned out to be complete and utter BS though, just like the hardcore Christian definition of marriage. Marriage is a legal union between two adult people, nothing more and nothing less. There are many married childless couples, because procreation has never been a requirement for marriage.
According to who? The federal government doesn't define marriage as a legal union between two adult people.
I don't think they define it as a legal union between a man and a woman planning to have kids either, don't think plans of having a family is required for marrige. Also what is so bad about homosexual couples making their relationship official via marrige or civil union? Does it really effect you and your life that much if homosexuals are allowed to marry?
It's not about deciding, it's about reality. A lesbian couple cannot have the same kind of relationship a male/female couple can.
Proof? and why should everyones relationship be the exact same anyways.....I am sure not all males and female couples have the same kind of relationship so why should homosexuals be held to that standard?
You're right and I don't think anyone on this thread or Rick Santorum is advocating this. I believe that they should have the same rights you listed above. Which, I believe is the case in just about every state in this country.
Well in order for them to have those rights when they make their relationship official it kinda has to be treated as a marrige legally otherwise they would not get those rights mentioned.
I believe, although I could be wrong, that those rights are pretty much covered under civil unions or in some states, common law.
It seems to me like whenever the homosexual couples get close to being legally treated like a married couple.....even if the word marrige is not used everyone throws a f*cking fit and the rights get removed again.
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This traditional paradigm turned out to be complete and utter BS though, just like the hardcore Christian definition of marriage. Marriage is a legal union between two adult people, nothing more and nothing less. There are many married childless couples, because procreation has never been a requirement for marriage.
According to who? The federal government doesn't define marriage as a legal union between two adult people.
It's not about deciding, it's about reality. A lesbian couple cannot have the same kind of relationship a male/female couple can.
You're right and I don't think anyone on this thread or Rick Santorum is advocating this. I believe that they should have the same rights you listed above. Which, I believe is the case in just about every state in this country.
As far as I'm concerned, a marriage is first and foremost about love between two people who want to share their lives together; and I think that's how most people today see it. So yes, a same sex couple can have the same kind of relationship.
And did I understand you properly - that infertile couples needn't get married as they can't have children?
-Bill, otherwise known as Kraichgauer
Can the same sex couples' love result in the creation of new life? Obviously not, so therefore it is different. The fact that the possibility isn't even there makes it different.
I keep hearing people say that they think marrige is about love between two people. What about blood relatives? If a brother and sister want to get married should they be able to? What about a father and daughter?
I think inbreeding and homoexuality are different things entirely, but I could be wrong....
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This traditional paradigm turned out to be complete and utter BS though, just like the hardcore Christian definition of marriage. Marriage is a legal union between two adult people, nothing more and nothing less. There are many married childless couples, because procreation has never been a requirement for marriage.
According to who? The federal government doesn't define marriage as a legal union between two adult people.
I don't think they define it as a legal union between a man and a woman planning to have kids either, don't think plans of having a family is required for marrige. Also what is so bad about homosexual couples making their relationship official via marrige or civil union? Does it really effect you and your life that much if homosexuals are allowed to marry?
It's not about deciding, it's about reality. A lesbian couple cannot have the same kind of relationship a male/female couple can.
Proof? and why should everyones relationship be the exact same anyways.....I am sure not all males and female couples have the same kind of relationship so why should homosexuals be held to that standard?
You're right and I don't think anyone on this thread or Rick Santorum is advocating this. I believe that they should have the same rights you listed above. Which, I believe is the case in just about every state in this country.
Well in order for them to have those rights when they make their relationship official it kinda has to be treated as a marrige legally otherwise they would not get those rights mentioned.
I believe, although I could be wrong, that those rights are pretty much covered under civil unions or in some states, common law.
It seems to me like whenever the homosexual couples get close to being legally treated like a married couple.....even if the word marrige is not used everyone throws a f*cking fit and the rights get removed again.
I agree with you here. This should not happen.
This traditional paradigm turned out to be complete and utter BS though, just like the hardcore Christian definition of marriage. Marriage is a legal union between two adult people, nothing more and nothing less. There are many married childless couples, because procreation has never been a requirement for marriage.
According to who? The federal government doesn't define marriage as a legal union between two adult people.
It's not about deciding, it's about reality. A lesbian couple cannot have the same kind of relationship a male/female couple can.
You're right and I don't think anyone on this thread or Rick Santorum is advocating this. I believe that they should have the same rights you listed above. Which, I believe is the case in just about every state in this country.
As far as I'm concerned, a marriage is first and foremost about love between two people who want to share their lives together; and I think that's how most people today see it. So yes, a same sex couple can have the same kind of relationship.
And did I understand you properly - that infertile couples needn't get married as they can't have children?
-Bill, otherwise known as Kraichgauer
Can the same sex couples' love result in the creation of new life? Obviously not, so therefore it is different. The fact that the possibility isn't even there makes it different.
I keep hearing people say that they think marrige is about love between two people. What about blood relatives? If a brother and sister want to get married should they be able to? What about a father and daughter?
I think inbreeding and homoexuality are different things entirely, but I could be wrong....
Again, I agree. They are two very different things. However, the same argument for marriage can be made for both.
1 adult who was born with an XY chromosone and 1 adult who was born with 2 X chromosones.
What about people who get XXY, XYY, XXX, or just X? What about people with XX or XY chromosomes that have hormonal circumstances that make them look the opposite sex and grow genitals of the opposite sex?
However, you lie. A lot of sterile couples need to marry. Because many adoption agencies wouldn't accept an unmarried couple.
Easy to say this, as I guess that you plan to fall in love with someone of the opposite sex. To think so many people in the world are adults and are unable to marry the fellow adult person they truly love... Well, it does not add up to me that someone would say it is not a rights issue.
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This traditional paradigm turned out to be complete and utter BS though, just like the hardcore Christian definition of marriage. Marriage is a legal union between two adult people, nothing more and nothing less. There are many married childless couples, because procreation has never been a requirement for marriage.
According to who? The federal government doesn't define marriage as a legal union between two adult people.
It's not about deciding, it's about reality. A lesbian couple cannot have the same kind of relationship a male/female couple can.
You're right and I don't think anyone on this thread or Rick Santorum is advocating this. I believe that they should have the same rights you listed above. Which, I believe is the case in just about every state in this country.
As far as I'm concerned, a marriage is first and foremost about love between two people who want to share their lives together; and I think that's how most people today see it. So yes, a same sex couple can have the same kind of relationship.
And did I understand you properly - that infertile couples needn't get married as they can't have children?
-Bill, otherwise known as Kraichgauer
Can the same sex couples' love result in the creation of new life? Obviously not, so therefore it is different. The fact that the possibility isn't even there makes it different.
I keep hearing people say that they think marrige is about love between two people. What about blood relatives? If a brother and sister want to get married should they be able to? What about a father and daughter?
But people get married out of love most of the time, and very rarely with the intent of having children - though that is a by product of heterosexual marriage. So actually, getting married for love applies to both hetero and homosexual marriage. Thus, it is a marriage in my humble opinion.
-Bill, otherwise known as Kraichgauer
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I was also quite frankly thinking of the Dungeons and Dragons monster
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Troglodyte ... 26_Dragons)
It is of below average intelligence, attacks anything that is different, and secretes a foul odor
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I was also quite frankly thinking of the Dungeons and Dragons monster
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Troglodyte ... 26_Dragons)
It is of below average intelligence, attacks anything that is different, and secretes a foul odor
Ah, a right wing Republican!
-Bill, otherwise known as Kraichgauer
Bataar, love your avatar, but you are wrong about Santorum, Simply based on this objections to Loving vs Virginia, he is definately a hypocrite to Catholism, and I dare say being an American and is either
A. Racist or
B. So stupid that if he ever farts his head would cave in
Or possibly both.
This traditional paradigm turned out to be complete and utter BS though, just like the hardcore Christian definition of marriage. Marriage is a legal union between two adult people, nothing more and nothing less. There are many married childless couples, because procreation has never been a requirement for marriage.
According to who? The federal government doesn't define marriage as a legal union between two adult people.
That's what marriage is in practice throughout the entire Western World. A state or government recognized domestic contract between two persons.
It's not about deciding, it's about reality. A lesbian couple cannot have the same kind of relationship a male/female couple can.
There is no unchangeable reality to marriage. It is a social custom and a legal institution that has changed a lot over the centuries. In biblical times, marriage used to be between a man and his disenfranchised harem of wives and concubines. Some cultures practiced polyandry, others had polygamous marriages between two sisters and two brothers (such as the Maori of New Zealand), and the ancient Romans allowed gay marriage until 342 CE.
This shows that marriage is whatever we want it to be. The only constant throughout all ages and cultures is that marriage was a domestic partnership between several people. If we wanted it to remain traditional, we would have to reinstitute arranged marriages with dowries and disenfranchised underage brides. Luckily we've progressed beyond that. It makes no sense to stop this ongoing progress towards greater equality now.
You're right and I don't think anyone on this thread or Rick Santorum is advocating this. I believe that they should have the same rights you listed above. Which, I believe is the case in just about every state in this country.
In most states, civil unions / domestic partnerships don't grant couples all of the state-recognized rights, protections and benefits that are given to married same-sex couples. There are also legal requirements in some states, such as cohabitation and access to long-term care insurance, that don't apply to married people. And if "unionized" or "domestically partnershipped" couples move to a different state, their union might not be recognized at their new place of residence. That's not equality.
Besides, as you can see in the above paragraph, the wording is also an issue. Nobody gets down on their knees and asks their partner "do you want to unionize me". Imagine we came up with a new term for interracial marriage. "You can't get married, you can only have an interracial union" is utterly unthinkable. Even if the rights and benefits were exactly the same, the different term would still constitute discrimination.
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A. Racist or
B. So stupid that if he ever farts his head would cave in
Or possibly both.
My wife and I just got a laugh from your post.
-Bill, otherwise known as Kraichgauer
