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Why was Ted Haggard so stupid
He wasn't able to think clearly 25%  25%  [ 2 ]
Because of his Christian values, he HONESTLY wanted to pay for his action 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Even if he tried his best to hide it, upon investigation it would of been found out anyway 13%  13%  [ 1 ]
He was trying to "balance" between the risk of being found guilty verses a rist of being found a liar, and the combination of these made him inconsistant 38%  38%  [ 3 ]
He was just worried about wellbeing of the church that he found 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Other 25%  25%  [ 2 ]
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08 Nov 2006, 1:06 am

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theres no arguing with someone who thinks god has shown him the way. just drop it, if you knew anything about god roman, you would know that he doesnt use men to speak for him, jesus wasnt concived by men. but rather from god. so your bible written by men means nothing. god is about love. and nothing more
I never said God need any men to speak for him. The ONLY place to lookon is Bible, period. Don't listen to preacher; read the bible. I am saying homosexuality is wrong because BIBLE says so, the fact that preachers happened to agree with the bible on this one is moot point.
i dont need a bible to know what is right and what is wrong, even though i had bad examples of parents i could cut through the bullcrap of religion to know that god loved me when i was a child, young adult, and senior.
Well, somehow it happends that people who are born in different societies take different things for granted. For example muslim suicide bombers are sure that they are doing the right thing. The point is that whatever you feel is right or wrong was taught to you since you were a couple of months old, so you are used to taking it for granted all your life. Now, why does it coincide with biblical principles? Because you happened to be born in Christian country rather than muslim one. Thus, the ultimate source of all that you know is the bible.
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the bible was writtren by men, not jesus.


But men recorded what they remember Jesus saying.
so your saying to me that people who grow up chirstians are using homosexuality as a suicide bomber tactic. since they cant strap on a stick of bombs to there chest to prove a point. wonderful.

next question, "but the men remember what jesus said" well thats great, i dont trust what men say, i havent then and i dont now. theres not much difference between then and now. understand?


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08 Nov 2006, 1:07 am

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During the first century, it costed their LIFES to defend their faith. So if it was made up, why would they do it? And they would of known it is a lie since they claimed to be eye wittnesses.


Because in the first century, they also believed in their faith, as much as you do now. That still does not mean that their beliefs were based on something that is true. It only means that they thought it was true. And they probably did believe things, just as many Christians see some of today's events and consider them as miracles from God.

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Also, what you are saying can be said about virtually anything. For example, may be there is conspiracy among cosmanaughts to lie that they see earth as a little blue ball when they circle around it. Or may be various historical events were made up just for intertainment since you weren't born to see them.


You're right. And that's why I like science more than Christianity. Science and Christianity are both used to explain past events, and to predict future events. However, the basis of science changes as more information is received, and evidence that contradicts the scientific theories arises. Science undergoes peer review. Christianity does not have this flexibility; when there is evidence to contradict the Christian faith and/or the Bible, then the evidence is immediately declared invalid, and the Bible is supposed to be 100% correct. But with that kind of thinking, there is nothing that could successfully contradict the Bible, even if the entire premise of the Bible is mistaken.

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God was supposed to have created the heavens and the earth and all the animals, and He saw that they were all good, right?

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Yes he did ... untill the original sin. Homosexuality, among all the other sins on earth, are consequences of that one sin.

Then why did God create 500+ species of animals that have homosexual sex? That arose from the Original Sin as well?



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08 Nov 2006, 1:14 am

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By the same logic, even things that are in front of your eyes don't exist either, it is just a bunch of neurons firing that cause your brain to perceive it.


Not necessarily. There are many ancient archaeological artifacts, but you don't assume that every religious reference in them is true. This is particularly the case of the non-Christian religious artifacts. Why should we believe the Dead Sea scrolls and not any of the other artifacts?



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08 Nov 2006, 1:17 am

stinkypuppy just stop arguing with him, since he wont shut up. hes wrong i've proved him so many times. hes been fed some BS thats unbelievable thats for shure


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08 Nov 2006, 1:17 am

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stinkypuppy just stop aruging with him, since he wont shut up. hes wrong i've proved him so many times. hes been fed some BS thats unbelievable thats for shure


Oh I know, I'm just bored. :lol:



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im shure jesus was the son of god. but i dont believe a darn thing a man wrote about him


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08 Nov 2006, 1:31 am

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Now lets slow down a little. In what way does prostitution harm society? Well, it causes moral decline. Now please define for me what IS moral decline? If you stick to moral relativism, there is no such thing since everyone is good in their own eyes. So in order to make SOLID argument that anything, including prostitution, causes moral decline, you have to go back to the bible. And if you do, then yes there are PLENTY of ways gays hurt the society -- they draw everyone who watches them away from the bible.

1. You give way too much credit to the Bible. Certain things that exist in the Bible also exist in other religious and secular moral codes.


Given that everyone traces their ancestry to Adam and Eve, obviously the forefathers of ppl of other religions had a chance to hear God of the bible. Then at some point they went their own way, but still some of the principles passed from generation to generation.

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2. Prostitution can cause decline because it can ruin relationships which can ruin people's happiness.


Once agian, only if you are in a context of monogamous society. In polygamous one the prostitution won't be that bad since ppl are having many wives to start with and it doesn't ruin anything.

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Also, it must be degrading for the prostitute to perform such a service.


Being naked in public is even more degrading, yet it wasn't the case in old pagan societies. So perhaps prostitution is also degrading strictly in CHRISTIAN society.

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3. Homosexuality does not draw anyone who watches them away from the Bible.


It makes ppl question the bible. If there were no homosexuals, we wouldn't be having this argument.

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That's unsubstantiated religious extremism. There are gay Christians and Christian gay sympathizers out there who worship the Bible as much as you who simply take a different stance than you.


As we have seen on example of Ted Haggard, some "christians" can lie. So may be gay Chrisitans also lie, by pretending to think that bible condones gay sex while they themselves know otherwise.

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Those Israel prophecies are likely occuring because Jews are intentionally trying to fulfill them, which does not prove that the prophecies would have occured had they not been written in the Bible and other religious documents. Didn't the Jews return to Israel and make it prosperous again specifically because of religious teachings?


Even though Zionist movement dates back to at least 19-th century, it never had an objection to accomplish its goals within ONE DAY -- there were no conceivable way of doing it. But the bible taught it had to happen within ONE DAY. And it was fulfilled by NATO conference that gave Israel to Jews, and the conference indeed lasted one day. Now its goal had nothing to do with fulfilling a prophecy.

As far as people living in Israel fulfilling prophecies, this isn't it either, since for one thing 90% of them are atheist. On the other hand, as far as religious Jews go, they have a huge controversy as to whether Israel has biblical basis given that Messiah haven't come. The people who konw that Messiah has already came are Christians, so ironically Christian Fundamentalists have much stronger consensus on the whole Israel-prophecy business than Jews do. BUT for all I know they don't go to Israel and make the lend fertile FOR the Jews. So the bottom line is that UNBELIEVING Jews fulfilled it all on their own.

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3. Is it healthy to eat pork? NO

Pork is healthy compared to many other foods. It's a source for nutrients such as protein.


Beef is also source of protein but it has far less toxic elements acumulated in it. I don't think there are any dietologists who would tell you to eat pork as opposed to beef.

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If he weren't loving, he won't have created us on the first place. Now if you create something you can create it however you want, so he doesn't owe his creation anythihng. BUT despite that, he still offers a FREE GIFT of forgiveness to ANYONE who would seek it. Now, how many governments do you know that would offer free release from jail for all criminals as long as they sincerely seek forgiveness? That sounds pretty loving to me.

You could use the same argument for any dictator. If the dictator weren't loving, he wouldn't allow people who follow his rules to live.


Being able to live is not a gift from dictator since he didn't create you. God did.

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After all, all who follow his rules get a free gift. But how loving is it for the dictator to imprison or kill those who disagree with him?


Like I said God also offers a chance to forgiveness. Dictator doesn't.

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All civilized human beings agree that that is totalitarian and unjust. Yet many of them just accept it when God supposedly does the same thing and condemns all who disagree with him or do not accept him to Hell.


Fine, lets compare dictator and God.

SIMILARITIES: They both punish you for not doing things their way

DIFFERENCES: God can change your heart, but dictator can't

So, dictator can't change who you are, he merely forces you from outside to do certain things DESPITE of who you are. So THAT is wrong.

On the toher hand, with God, you FIRST pray for him to change who you are, and then you can act differently in accordence with different you. So you would no longer be acting against your will.

That is actually a point of the whole concept of being born agian and works verses grace. If you insist on being the same person and merely do what God wants you to do because you want to, that would be "salvation by works" and it is preached AGAINST in New Testament PRECISELY because it makes God into dictator. On the other hand if you FIRST pray to God and have FAITH that he changes you and then act differently as you change, that is salvation by GRACE, and thats much better.

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You are unfair to yourself because you go through all this trouble finding love instead of going to prostitute which is a lot simpler.

I don't necessarily want a prostitute. Prostitutes are likely to contract diseases. Also, I don't want to have sex just for the sake of having sex, which is what people who go to prostitutes do. If I just want pleasure, I can get that by looking at porn.


As far as diseases you can use condom. Well of course no condoms are totally safe, but I imagine even if they were, you still won't be going to prostitutes. If you don't want to have sex just to have sex, then it means that sexual drive isn't that hard to overcome. So I suggesst that gays do the same.



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08 Nov 2006, 1:33 am

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im shure jesus was the son of god. but i dont believe a darn thing a man wrote about him


Like I said first century christians were severely persecutted AND KILLED by Romans. Why would they do it for the sake of something that THEY KNOW is a lie?



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Given that everyone traces their ancestry to Adam and Eve
uh no? do we have to go here i again? i hope not


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im shure jesus was the son of god. but i dont believe a darn thing a man wrote about him
Like I said first century christians were severely persecutted AND KILLED by Romans. Why would they do it for the sake of something that THEY KNOW is a lie?
why do democrats and republicans have elections?


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08 Nov 2006, 1:44 am

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During the first century, it costed their LIFES to defend their faith. So if it was made up, why would they do it? And they would of known it is a lie since they claimed to be eye wittnesses.


Because in the first century, they also believed in their faith, as much as you do now.


No, back then they were saying they SAW Jesus rising, etc. Right now I would have to be 2000 year old in order for it to be that easy.

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That still does not mean that their beliefs were based on something that is true. It only means that they thought it was true..


They either saw jesus rising or they didn't. There is no room to be "wrong" here.

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And they probably did believe things, just as many Christians see some of today's events and consider them as miracles from God.

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Also, what you are saying can be said about virtually anything. For example, may be there is conspiracy among cosmanaughts to lie that they see earth as a little blue ball when they circle around it. Or may be various historical events were made up just for intertainment since you weren't born to see them.


You're right. And that's why I like science more than Christianity. Science and Christianity are both used to explain past events, and to predict future events.


Agree so far


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However, the basis of science changes as more information is received, and evidence that contradicts the scientific theories arises. Science undergoes peer review. Christianity does not have this flexibility;


Christianity undergoese peer review TOO, there are more and more denominations. Furthermore, like I said I don't follow ANY of the men's opinion, I just read bible for myself so I do A LOT of rewising of popular views.

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when there is evidence to contradict the Christian faith and/or the Bible, then the evidence is immediately declared invalid, and the Bible is supposed to be 100% correct.


In science I can ask similar question. The fact that our brain is a bunch of neurons implies that we might be hardwired to think that 2+2=5 which would render all of our basic axioms invalid. Yet, we continue to assume that everything that our brain tells us (such as 2+2=4) is correct.

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But with that kind of thinking, there is nothing that could successfully contradict the Bible, even if the entire premise of the Bible is mistaken.


Likewise in science nothing can successfully contradict your brain.


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God was supposed to have created the heavens and the earth and all the animals, and He saw that they were all good, right?

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Yes he did ... untill the original sin. Homosexuality, among all the other sins on earth, are consequences of that one sin.

Then why did God create 500+ species of animals that have homosexual sex? That arose from the Original Sin as well?


Animals do plenty of things that you would consider "wrong" on humanistic basis, such as the fact that they kill each other. So the point is that God put higher responsibility on men than on animals.



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08 Nov 2006, 3:40 pm

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Even though Zionist movement dates back to at least 19-th century, it never had an objection to accomplish its goals within ONE DAY -- there were no conceivable way of doing it. But the bible taught it had to happen within ONE DAY. And it was fulfilled by NATO conference that gave Israel to Jews, and the conference indeed lasted one day. Now its goal had nothing to do with fulfilling a prophecy.

As far as people living in Israel fulfilling prophecies, this isn't it either, since for one thing 90% of them are atheist. On the other hand, as far as religious Jews go, they have a huge controversy as to whether Israel has biblical basis given that Messiah haven't come. The people who konw that Messiah has already came are Christians, so ironically Christian Fundamentalists have much stronger consensus on the whole Israel-prophecy business than Jews do. BUT for all I know they don't go to Israel and make the lend fertile FOR the Jews. So the bottom line is that UNBELIEVING Jews fulfilled it all on their own.

The Jews didn't just randomly choose Israel as their new home after the Holocaust. There was a religious basis behind it - Jews believed, based on religious teachings, that Israel was given to them by God.

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SIMILARITIES: They both punish you for not doing things their way

DIFFERENCES: God can change your heart, but dictator can't

*rolls eyes*

Only you can change your heart. You ultimately make the decision to become Christian on your own after reading the Bible and evaluating its merits.

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On the toher hand, with God, you FIRST pray for him to change who you are, and then you can act differently in accordence with different you. So you would no longer be acting against your will.

I didn't come to this board to be preached to. I expected better from an Aspie (i.e. rational and nonconformist) board, but apparently Aspies can be just as bad as NTs. Continuing this discussion obviously won't solve anything because we don't have any common ground from which to have a debate, so let's just end this crap.



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08 Nov 2006, 8:19 pm

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Even though Zionist movement dates back to at least 19-th century, it never had an objection to accomplish its goals within ONE DAY -- there were no conceivable way of doing it. But the bible taught it had to happen within ONE DAY. And it was fulfilled by NATO conference that gave Israel to Jews, and the conference indeed lasted one day. Now its goal had nothing to do with fulfilling a prophecy.

As far as people living in Israel fulfilling prophecies, this isn't it either, since for one thing 90% of them are atheist. On the other hand, as far as religious Jews go, they have a huge controversy as to whether Israel has biblical basis given that Messiah haven't come. The people who konw that Messiah has already came are Christians, so ironically Christian Fundamentalists have much stronger consensus on the whole Israel-prophecy business than Jews do. BUT for all I know they don't go to Israel and make the lend fertile FOR the Jews. So the bottom line is that UNBELIEVING Jews fulfilled it all on their own.

The Jews didn't just randomly choose Israel as their new home after the Holocaust. There was a religious basis behind it - Jews believed, based on religious teachings, that Israel was given to them by God.


Yes, religious teaching is the reason why Israel was given to Jews but its NOT why it was given WITHIN ONE DAY which also happened to fulfill prophecise.

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SIMILARITIES: They both punish you for not doing things their way

DIFFERENCES: God can change your heart, but dictator can't

*rolls eyes*

Only you can change your heart. You ultimately make the decision to become Christian on your own after reading the Bible and evaluating its merits.


Since you never been Christian, you don't know that. And bringing particular Christians, like Ted Haggard, won't help you either becaues they aren't true Christians. Whether or not someone is true Christian is between a person and God so the only one whom you can know FOR SURE to be true christian is yourself. Thus, the only time when you are in a position to say what is it like to be Christian is when you are one yourself, which you aren't.

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On the toher hand, with God, you FIRST pray for him to change who you are, and then you can act differently in accordence with different you. So you would no longer be acting against your will.

I didn't come to this board to be preached to.


If you go back to the first page of this thread, you will find that I never intended to preach. My original goal was to do a SECULAR discussion about psychology of Ted Haggard, nothing more nothing less. The first move was made by yourself at the fifth response from the end of the first page, and by richardbenson at the very last response in the first page. In fact, I have recently made another posst about Ted Haggard just to get on topic, so this shows you that indeed that is what I wanted to talk about; I weren't making any excuses to start to preach or anything like that. Now, if I were to come to one of your threads on another topic and start to question why are you atheist, most likely you would start to defend your position, right? That is exactly what I did.

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I expected better from an Aspie (i.e. rational and nonconformist) board


If we are going to talk whehter or not I am rational, then again it would be "preaching" so I won't go into that. If we are going to talk about my being "nonconformist", then consider that my interpretations of the bible are very different from others, for instance I rejecct trinity. Besides, the whole idea of Christianity was non-conformist on the first place since I was raised Jewish.

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but apparently Aspies can be just as bad as NTs.


There are other Christian aspies on this board, I am not the only one.

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Continuing this discussion obviously won't solve anything because we don't have any common ground from which to have a debate, so let's just end this crap.


If you don't want to talk, that is fine; for one thing there might still be a hope of going back to the Ted Haggard discussion which was the original intention of the thread. Like I said, the ONLY thing I was doing was responding to other ppl's objections.



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08 Nov 2006, 8:50 pm

returning to the original topic

Haggard's a tard and deserves everything he gets.
Y'wanna put yourself in a position of authority, you'd damned well best be prepared to be held to a higher standard.



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08 Nov 2006, 10:00 pm

*sigh*

I always have this problem. I just don't know how to argue without alienating people. And I'm sorry for hijacking your topic.

And who knows? Maybe I'll become Christian someday. But it's not going to happen unless I see a rational explanation of why I should be one. :)



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08 Nov 2006, 10:12 pm

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*sigh*

I always have this problem. I just don't know how to argue without alienating people.


No worries, you haven't allienated me. I often do similar things without noticing, so I totally understand.

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And I'm sorry for hijacking your topic.


Your appology is accepted

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And who knows? Maybe I'll become Christian someday. But it's not going to happen unless I see a rational explanation of why I should be one. :)


I wish you good luck there.