I'm quitting Atheism
sonofghandi
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thinkinginpictures wrote:
Because my history of meeting atheists is that they are disgusting, in the sense that they don't talk nice. They are rude.
They are everything, but polite. You don't normally talk like this to people: "You *** idiot, everything you say is BS, and stop wasting my time etc. etc. etc."
90 % of the atheists I've met, are rude this way.
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Christians on the other hand, are way more polite and humble. So is my experience, at least.
It's not that I agree with the Christians, at all. It's just easier to have a conversation with someone, who don't call you a BS.
They are everything, but polite. You don't normally talk like this to people: "You *** idiot, everything you say is BS, and stop wasting my time etc. etc. etc."
90 % of the atheists I've met, are rude this way.
. . .
Christians on the other hand, are way more polite and humble. So is my experience, at least.
It's not that I agree with the Christians, at all. It's just easier to have a conversation with someone, who don't call you a BS.
This depends on many factors, especially the communities where you encounter them. In my experience, in more rural areas this is quite the opposite (although atheists tend to be fewer). Even in urban areas, it depends more on the particular church that the religious person belongs to and those that the atheist chooses to associate with.
I will say that on college campuses, I have found very few atheists that I would not put solidly into the militant atheist camp, whereas in the particular rural area where I grew up, bigoted religious fundamentalism was the norm and the encouragement to insult and abuse those who do not share your faith was (and still is) commonplace (which included not only atheists and those of different religions, but Catholics, Jehovah's Witnesses, Seventh Day Adventists, and especially Mormons).
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sonofghandi wrote:
I will say that on college campuses, I have found very few atheists that I would not put solidly into the militant atheist camp, whereas in the particular rural area where I grew up, bigoted religious fundamentalism was the norm and the encouragement to insult and abuse those who do not share your faith.
Wow, that's brought alot of memories flooding back to me.
I had a rural upbringing too and had that experience. I still live in a none city area and I find that people do tend to be prejudiced against those who are different, especially if they are foreign too. The look on their faces is like: "What, you have a different religion and you are a different colour to me? I'm so threatened I think my head will explode!"
It's mostly online that I've met sneering athiests, the "I'm more intelligent than you", "all religious people are stupid" sort, oh and 2 in real life, but one of them is someone who spends alot of time online on the likes of the Richard Dawkins forum and his attitude has got more antagonistic since participating in those forums. He has become more rude about my faith and more likely to put me down. I'm not sure why he thinks telling me I'm being stupid will win me over. Why do I want to agree with someone who calls me names?
Most athiests I know are people I have things in common with and I have good discussions with them. They respect me and I respect them. Maybe the anonimity of the internet makes us forget that we are talking to real human beings that might otherwise be our friends.
