Abortion...
It’s murder. It’s as simple as that. I do believe that it’s acceptable to abort a baby in the case of rape. But because abortion is murder, I think the rapist should be tried as a murderer.
I also look at ANY homicide as being justified if and only if the person, knowingly or unknowingly (doesn’t matter), poses an absolutely certain threat to the life to another. And by that I specifically mean that if your continued existence means that I WILL DIE, then you’re toast, dude, and I don’t care if you’re 8 minutes after conception or if you’re 80 years old. I’m not going down without a fight UNLESS I have a clear, logical REASON, such as if I feel you have more to offer, or if I’m so selfish I’m unwilling to live without you. And what I’m talking about is plain self defense.
All pregnancies are risky, but they’re not THAT risky. To hear some people talk about it, you have to wonder why humans even exist at all. So using the self defense excuse just to escape the consequences of what you knowingly consented to just doesn’t fly with me.
I might add this issue has recently hit close to home for me. My wife and I are trying for #4, one of those situations you don’t know you want until you have it and it’s gone. She had a miscarriage. Within a few weeks, she went from being an expecting mother, to hearing another heartbeat, to no heartbeat, to being on the business end of a D&C (in effect, an abortion). Granted, this happened in a hospital and not at the PP in Jackson. Within a few short minutes she went from cramping and bleeding to back where we were 8 weeks prior. We felt we’d been robbed. Emotional, I know, but it’s unthinkable for us that anyone would WANT to do this and, even worse, that there are groups of people who celebrate it when it happens.
Disposing of a dead body, though unpleasant, is necessary. Giving an uninvited guest in the home a bad case of heavy metal poisoning is unpleasant, but necessary when he makes his evil intentions clear. When it comes to preserving life and freedom, hard decisions have to be made, sometimes without the luxury of time to carefully weigh the consequences. If you wouldn’t casually dispose of a toddler, a grandfather, or anyone at any age, I hardly see why any exception should be made for the womb. Will this baby kill me? No? Have the baby. Yes? It’s either self defense or accidental death, but that’s not your fault.
Having said that, I do think it’s important to carefully consider why a mother would kill her baby and try to offer some compassion. You don’t always know the circumstances or what would drive someone to homicide. Even in the criminal justice system, when women murder their romantic partners, you find that it’s a complex, convoluted affair. It might not make it right, but I think the least you can do is try understanding someone before you condemn her.