IsabellaLinton wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
That's because old white men who run society place the stigma on them
I can say from experience that women are judged just as harshly by other women.
This pressure is colourblind.
Many years ago I was watched a documentary on how the British East India company caused the Bengal famine in India. The historian was reading letters from British women who lived in Calcutta at the time and how they thought the natives starving was because they were nothing better than animals (their words) and when their corpses lining the laneways was blocking the horses the British women's association of Calcutta wrote to the governor of east India company requesting that Indians be segregated away from their protectorate so that they could conduct tea parties without the stench of dead bodies ruining their outdoor functions as they dressed in petticoats and frilly hats and parasols as 10 million Indians starved around them.
Why I'm telling this story is that historians blamed British women living in India in the 16th century for introducing legislation that began the idea that inferior people should not live in the same areas as civilised people (they also wanted to stop their menfolk from sleeping with local women). This was thought to be the forerunner of the introduction of laws in the American colonies leading to Jim Crow and to apartheid in South Africa.
Women get blamed for things they didn't actually do. I watched a program recently that completely debunked the story and it turns out the East India company came up with the idea without the need of their womenfolk writing letters.
If women also apply stigma on girls seeking an abortion its because they brainlessly follow their menfolk. It's always men who make the laws but also men who set the values of society.