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12 Apr 2011, 11:52 am

Are men so weak that they can't stand seing a woman's hair without thinking of God-knows-what - how ever young or old may be that woman?
And I don't even speak of the view of bare hands or 8O... bare feet, navels and what else?

Who is indecent here?

Plus the security as Ruveyn and a few others said.

It's not only the burqa which is forbidden since yesterday, it's everything that hide people's face in public places.



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12 Apr 2011, 11:56 am

There are certain areas where they need to be able to identify your face, but why just burkas? And why all public areas? This is complete BS. There should be a policy in certain areas telling you to remove whatever article of clothing covers your face (bandanas, ski masks, burkas, etc... etc...) but a building's policy has no place in all public areas and to only include women who wear one type of clothing that covers your face is discriminatory garbage. btw are burkas just one complete piece of clothing like a jumpsuit or is it more like a scarf?



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12 Apr 2011, 11:57 am

Bethie wrote:
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The only bigotry is stemming from the Islamists..their really is no difference whatsoever in their idealogy with White Supremacists.
Making bald assertions about the entirety of a group based on the actions of a few? Is bigotry. Congratulations. YOU'RE the White Supremacist in this analogy.
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So lets say a Burqa wearing woman is driving a car and gets into an accident and hurts or god forbids, kills, a family member of yours...and the only reason the accident occured was because of the burqa and lack of vision? what than? how do you prosecute that?

The same way I'd be prosecuted if I did the same thing because my beanie slid into my eyes-I'd be taken to task as an individual who was careless.
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come on...these are religious beliefs that are incompatible in western modern society. Your watering down and ignoring of these critical issues speaks volumes.

They're incompatible only insofar as they violate the rights of someone else in "western modern society." Other than making gullible and hysterical people nervous, you've yet to demonstrate the harm of the face veil.

If you've nothing more to say on the issue than to incessantly
repeat your offensive stereotyping of millions of people,
assert that women wearing face veils is some massive security threat,
and declare that their freedoms are negated by the existence of bad people in their religious group,
I'll call an end to my attempt at discourse and let you ramble on.



You THINK I meant all Muslims when I said " Islamists"...but I didn't...You also make a lot of assumptions about me because I am opposed to the Burqa...Islamists refers to those who hold the fundmentalist beliefs that created the Taliban and Al-Qaeda. If you don't think their are many of them, you are either naive or not knowledgable about the situation of radiclization within the Muslim community. You THINK i have a problem with them wearing the clothes in their own private house, areas, etc...but I dont. I could care less...What DOES concern me is when it reflects on the Public and infringes on our rights as a Public. Maybe you should look at those in France who back the ban, many of them are secular muslims or not fundmentalist muslims, who see the practice as a modern form of female slavery. You are trying to make this a larger race issue than it really is. Perhaps you should spend some time in a Muslim country, Like i have done, and see it firsthand what Islamic fundmentalists believe in and how disgusting it can be.



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12 Apr 2011, 11:59 am

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Can I wear my balaclava? If not, why not?


And no, Tequila, you won't be authorised to wear your balaclava if you're only walking in the street for instance :shameonyou: Only if you ride a bike of if you go skiing.



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12 Apr 2011, 12:03 pm

zena4 wrote:
Are men so weak that they can't stand seing a woman's hair without thinking of God-knows-what - how ever young or old may be that woman?
And I don't even speak of the view of bare hands or 8O... bare feet, navels and what else?

Who is indecent here?


In more primitive countries where near-nudity is commonplace, they would think the same of us- the "line" of what is private and what is not has merely shifted.

An interesting perspective:

I will never forget a visit I made to Ilana, an old friend who had become an Orthodox Jew in Jerusalem. When I saw her again, she had abandoned her jeans and T-shirts for long skirts and a head scarf. I could not get over it. Ilana has waist-length, wild and curly golden-blonde hair. “Can’t I even see your hair?” I asked, trying to find my old friend in there. “No,” she demurred quietly. “Only my husband,” she said with a calm sexual confidence, “ever gets to see my hair.”

When she showed me her little house in a settlement on a hill, and I saw the bedroom, draped in Middle Eastern embroideries, that she shares only with her husband—the kids are not allowed—the sexual intensity in the air was archaic, overwhelming. It was private. It was a feeling of erotic intensity deeper than any I have ever picked up between secular couples in the liberated West. And I thought: Our husbands see naked women all day—in Times Square if not on the Net. Her husband never even sees another woman’s hair.

She must feel, I thought, so hot.

Compare that steaminess with a conversation I had at Northwestern, after I had talked about the effect of porn on relationships. “Why have sex right away?” a boy with tousled hair and Bambi eyes was explaining. “Things are always a little tense and uncomfortable when you just start seeing someone,” he said. “I prefer to have sex right away just to get it over with. You know it’s going to happen anyway, and it gets rid of the tension.”

“Isn’t the tension kind of fun?” I asked. “Doesn’t that also get rid of the mystery?”

“Mystery?” He looked at me blankly. And then, without hesitating, he replied: “I don’t know what you’re talking about. Sex has no mystery.”


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12 Apr 2011, 12:03 pm

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Don't forget that the case tried in the ECHR against a country for banning islamic dress was Turkey, an islamic country.


Well technically speaking Turkey is part in Europe geographically, but what gets me is why on earth are Israel in the Eurovison song contest & have UEFA membership..


Does that keep you up at night?


Edit: Israel is a member of the European Broadcasting Team, and therefore has a right to be in the Eurovision contest. They dont go by geography, but by those under its auspices.


No I was just curious to know, thanks.
John Toshack coached football in Turkey. A Turkish friend told me his surname is the Turkish word for bollocks.

Edit: off topic thanks for bringing Turkey up, now I can't stop think about one night in Istanbul full of Turkish delight in beating Berlusconi (2005 UEFA Champions League final).



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12 Apr 2011, 12:16 pm

Anyhow, I'll tell you something in case you don't know but in France all governments have been prefering putting more and more policemen in the streets and less and less educators since at least three decades. It's a choice they do and I don't understand why.

(Sorry for the grammar)



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12 Apr 2011, 12:17 pm

JeremyNJ1984 wrote:
You THINK I meant all Muslims when I said " Islamists"...but I didn't...

Oh, I'm sorry. When someone refers to a group, I guess I assume they're talking about...the group.
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Islamists refers to those who hold the fundmentalist beliefs that created the Taliban and Al-Qaeda.

"Catholics" refers to those who hold the fundamentalist beliefs that created witch hunts.
"Pro-life" refers to those who hold the fundamentalists beliefs that created doctor murders.
If you subscribe to guilt by way of someone bad believing something similar, that's fine,
but it's piss-poor public policy.
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If you don't think their are many of them, you are either naive or not knowledgable about the situation of radiclization within the Muslim community.

Perhaps. And throwing Muslim mothers in jail for wearing face veils does what, exactly to counteract that?
JeremyNJ1984 wrote:

You THINK i have a problem with them wearing the clothes in their own private house, areas, etc...

Interesting idea, since I never asserted such once.
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What DOES concern me is when it reflects on the Public and infringes on our rights as a Public.

There's a "right" to dictate to others what they may or may not wear?
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Maybe you should look at those in France who back the ban, many of them are secular muslims or not fundmentalist muslims, who see the practice as a modern form of female slavery.

No- they see women as synonymous with frightened, deferential prisoners of men, if they presume to think that NONE of the women could possibly be wearing a face veil of her own accord.
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You are trying to make this a larger race issue than it really is.

Nope. Haven't mentioned race once.
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Perhaps you should spend some time in a Muslim country, Like i have done, and see it firsthand what Islamic fundmentalists believe in and how disgusting it can be.

Nah. I'm sure it wouldn't convince me that this ban is remotely related to "security" and not everything to do with the political unpopularity of the Muslim presence in France.


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12 Apr 2011, 12:34 pm

zena4 wrote:
Are men so weak that they can't stand seing a woman's hair without thinking of God-knows-what - how ever young or old may be that woman?
And I don't even speak of the view of bare hands or 8O... bare feet, navels and what else?

Who is indecent here?

Plus the security as Ruveyn and a few others said.

It's not only the burqa which is forbidden since yesterday, it's everything that hide people's face in public places.


Ok to be fair to women & of security reasons ban hoodies & scallies from hiding theres faces in public.



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12 Apr 2011, 12:35 pm

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Perhaps. And throwing Muslim mothers in jail for wearing face veils does what, exactly to counteract that?

Nobody will be thrown to jail for that :o
The more they'd get would be a fine of 150 €.

Bethie, may I ask you if you know anything about the long relationship between France and some african countries?

It's quite complicated and the youg generation who want to dress like that, despite being born and raised and educated here shock everybody - included their own families most of the time.

The first ones who did that, just starting with a little scarf on their heads and did it
1) for religious beliefs
2) for provocation, teen-agers provocations at school.
3) But it was also and in the meantime a kind of security for them.
You obviously don't know much about what it's like to live in some suburbs and areas here :(



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12 Apr 2011, 12:38 pm

zena4 wrote:
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Perhaps. And throwing Muslim mothers in jail for wearing face veils does what, exactly to counteract that?

Nobody will be thrown to jail for that :o
The more they'd get would be a fine of 150 €.

Bethie, may I ask you if you know anything about the long relationship between France and some african countries?

It's quite complicated and the youg generation who want to dress like that, despite being born and raised and educated here shock everybody - included their own families most of the time.

The first ones who did that, just starting with a little scarf on their heads and did it
1) for religious beliefs
2) for provocation, teen-agers provocations at school.
3) But it was also and in the meantime a kind of security for them.
You obviously don't know much about what it's like to live in some suburbs and areas here :(


So if you act like an attention whore THE GOVERNMENT WILL BAN YOUR CLOTHING.

Got it.


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12 Apr 2011, 12:39 pm

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That is where it goes from private to public issue.
What someone wears is a matter the Government should stay the f**k out of (unless it violates some non-discriminatory law such as say public nudity). Some places need to identify you by your face, but that should be a private policy not a public one. Also, the policy should apply to all articles of clothing that cover your face, not blatantly discriminate against a specific group.

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No one is discriminating against Islam here..no one is shutting down mosques, forcing a ghetto, or creating unequal civil laws. You know we have bigamy laws in this country, right? why not get rid of them as it discriminates against some of the tenets of the Mormon faith..aren't we discriminating there?
So because they haven't discriminated against everything practice of Islam, it's okay for em to discriminate against one of em? :roll:

This is obviously discriminatory BS. One piece of clothing and it only applies to women. If it's a security issue, then first off it's only a security issue in certain buildings or areas. Secondly, it should apply to all articles of clothing that conceal your face. Thirdly, why does covering your face only become a security issue when Muslim women do it? Anyone who robs a store or a bank with their face covered up is a security issue. Any extremist who uses politically motivated violence and hides their face is a security issue. Never mind that a bunch of hooded up anarchists firebombed a couple of cop cars and smashed windows up in the G20, it's only the brown women we should be worrying about :roll:

And last time I checked, extremism isn't exclusively an Islamic thing. Yes, most of the terrorists in the last 30 years have been Islamic extremists, but that's because of how the political circumstances in the middle east happen to be which makes it more prevalent, not cuz Islam is inherently more evil than Christianity or w/e. Most Christian terrorism I've heard of occurs in the UK, and if the political circumstances were the same in Canada or the US then it would be just as prevalent. But no, our political circumstances aren't the same so we don't have the same void extremists wanna fill.



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12 Apr 2011, 12:41 pm

If that interests you, i've also read that some women from Africa, which are educated in western schools, have a career, and such, become quite religious at the time they need to fetch a husband. Being educated apparently makes this rather complicated as well. They usually do this by organizing groups for women to discuss about religion (since they cannot do this while the men are present, iirc) and what social activities to do. This pretty much shows how they are a good muslim, and can be wed. It's a bit more complicated than that, but i "could" dig out the article if you're ever interested. ^.-

(I can't remember 100% about the concerned country, but i think it was Côte d'Ivoire, i could be wrong)



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12 Apr 2011, 12:49 pm

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So, it is ok for a woman to have to obey the will of her husband and family, but not ok it is the government?


What a fatuous remark.

It is not acceptable for either a woman's husband and family or her government to dictate to her.

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If you look at liberal muslim countries, very few women choose to veil their faces. In fact in countries like Turkey, many women wear western clothing. Those women in France are unlikely to be able to choose what they wear. I will not be an enabler of control of women.


Who are you to presume what these women can or cannot choose? If even one woman wants to veil herself, that should be her right. You put yourself in exactly the same position as the men who seek to control women when you deny them the right to self-expression and self-determination.

You might not respect these women for the choice that they make--but no one is asking you to have the basic human decency to respect another person. All you should be ask to do is mind your own business.

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Because of the way conservative muslim societies are set up, women who dont want to veil will still have to, just so women who believe it is wrong to show their faces can have the right to cover their face. How is that women choosing what they want to wear?


Then the issue lies not with the veil, but with the conservative muslim societies. The veil is merely a symptom of a much deeper problem that should be addressed at its root, not at its symptoms.

Banning the veil will not stop conservative men from trying to control their wives and daughters. So the proper response is not to ban the veil--but to put means in place whereby women can safely reject the attempt to control them.

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Also, what if you are wearing a veil or face covering and you sneezed , it was a hot day and your face gets all sweaty, you have a nosebleed... those veils are Stupid, wake up people. These are real human beings, not just museum exhibits.


Nothing prevents a woman from reaching up under her veil with a handkerchief.


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12 Apr 2011, 1:09 pm

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btw are burkas just one complete piece of clothing like a jumpsuit or is it more like a scarf?


No I talked about what the burka is before in another post but for your benefit I'll quote that post.
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FYI I done a bit research into the Burqa, it consists of three items of Clothing.
The jilbāb is the body covering, the ḥijāb which is the head covering & the niqāb the face-veil.


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why not get rid of them as it discriminates against some of the tenets of the Mormon faith..aren't we discriminating there?


sorry I forgot to touch on the issue of Polygamy & Latter-Day Saints. The current official view of it from the church is best expressed by Gordon B. Hinckley back in 1998.
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I wish to state categorically that this Church has nothing whatever to do with those practicing polygamy. They are not members of this Church. Most of them have never been members. They are in violation of the civil law. They know they are in violation of the law. They are subject to its penalties. The Church, of course, has no jurisdiction whatever in this matter.

If any of our members are found to be practicing plural marriage, they are excommunicated, the most serious penalty the Church can impose. Not only are those so involved in direct violation of the civil law, they are in violation of the law of this Church. An article of our faith is binding upon us. It states, 'We believe in being subject to kings, presidents, rulers, and magistrates, in obeying, honoring, and sustaining the law' (Articles of Faith 1:12).



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12 Apr 2011, 1:10 pm

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Why should Muslim woman who moves to France or chooses to practice that fundmentalist belief think for a second that in a secular modern nation-state we should at all care about what they think of our country?


It is just as much their country. If France is truly founded on the principles of Liberté, Égalité, Fraternité then the public law must support the liberty of all people in France--not merely those whose views happen to match the political will of a xenophobic majority.

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You can't come to my house and dictate to me how I should live..its the other way around, when it concerns the entire house...


We're not talking about "your house." We are talking about people moving freely about in public. Unlike your private property, within a public space the government cannot arbitrarily restrict the freedom of its citizens unless government is pursuing a legitimate public policy objective. Show me that the chador has an impact on public health and public safety, and I will revise my opinion.

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If this law " violated your central identity" what does that say about your identity?


What a patronizing comment. Who are you to comment on another person's decisions about her identity? A woman herself, and only she, has the capacity to decide what is right for her.

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btw...the law doesnt say you cant wear the burqa in a mosque, private home, or car...it only concerns out in public.


That is precisely what is wrong with the law. It seeks to impose limits on personal freedom within public space where no legitimate government interest is being protected or enhanced.

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When you cover your eyes its a law enforcement issue when it comes to crimes committed, whether traffic violations or major offenses. That is where it goes from private to public issue.


Ah, but we don't ban wearing a mask or wearing a stocking on one's face. The fact that a practice might be used to avoid detection during the commission of an offence does not make that practice in and of itself a criminal offence.

This ban is specific, and targetted at religious face coverings, not face coverings in general. If government's intention was to assist police in combatting crime, and religious face coverings got caught up in that law of general application, I would be far more sanguine about it. But that is precisely what government did not do.

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No one is discriminating against Islam here..no one is shutting down mosques, forcing a ghetto, or creating unequal civil laws. You know we have bigamy laws in this country, right? why not get rid of them as it discriminates against some of the tenets of the Mormon faith..aren't we discriminating there? there comes a time when the practices of faith conflict with modern secularism, and we have to take the public concern over the religious dogma. The fact they are hypocrites was more to show how fundmentalist and backwards they are in relation to the modern nation-state. If they want us to respect their laws and customs they need to adhere to it when they come to our countries.


Frankly, I think the religious argument is irrelevant. This is a question of personal liberty, freedom of expression and security of the person. This is an example of government seeking to infringe on these freedoms without a legitimate public interest in doing so.

In a modern, pluralist, democratic state, it is entirely possible for traditional practice and secular public law to coexist. To suggest otherwise is to betray the very principles of individual liberty that lie at the foundation of those states.


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