puddingmouse wrote:
LKL wrote:
My family is culturally Irish Catholic, though tempered by a couple of generation in the US. So, yeah.
But it's not jut the suffering; it's the idea that women's role is to have as many children as possible, regardless of what that takes.
Also, I don't mean to offend you. It's just that this is a bit of a hot button issue for me because I'm still a bit traumatised and I feel like I have to say this stuff or no-one else will. Other ex-Catholics I meet a so reticent about criticising the core of that faith (mainly because they're just lapsed and I've never really met anyone who has mentally excommunicated themselves to the extent that I have).
No offense taken. I'm a happy heretic, and my family are lapsed Catholics for the most part; my surviving grandparents still occasionally attend church, but they're the only ones. I do work at a Catholic hospital, but they're fairly low-key about pushing the dogma (I got proselytized at more when I was at the University than I do at work). Sometimes I take offense when people go Catholic-bashing because they're
talking about my family, but the Catholic heirarchy is loathed even by practicing American Catholics these days (with the possible exception of the nuns, who were recently audited by the Vatican for being 'too obsessed with social justice, the poor, and health care,' and 'not obsessed enough with gays and abortion.' My hospital (run by nuns), which for years have been performing post-c-section tubal ligations with only a surgeon's signature that it was 'medically necessary,' recently clamped down on this due to pressure from on-high, leading to the resignation of several top Ob-Gyns from hospital priviledges. The US nuns are now being overseen by a priest to make sure that they toe the line - so, I do think that there's a strong element of misogyny in there, not just a love of suffering).