Raptor wrote:
Why not?
There is a class difference.
Remember in high school there were groups like the "burn outs", "jocks", "nerds", "metal heads" and how one group did not relate to another group. The same principal applies here.
I am in the "nerd" category, and these guys
don't appear to be. So, likely, I cannot relate to them. Likely, we are different in so many ways. They are likely lowly educated, working low wage jobs, drinking beer/smoking often, and I am the opposite.
However, there are secondary problems too.
- "Poor woes": Conversation with them will often become about their troubles, how they can't find work, how they are getting screwed by someone, how hard they have it.
-Possibly, they will find you arrogant or conceited, because you have a high paying intellectual job. I have two known incidences with this. One person just stopped talking to me.
-There is a concern that they won't appreciate that you are a non-smoker/non-drinker. I say this from experience, when I lived near a "marijuana couple" that filled the common area of our apartment complex with marijuana smoke.
-Of course, crime is a concern, because they don't have money. When I lived in a poor neighborhood, my home was broken into twice. Also, my car was broken into once.
These are just off the top of my head.