Is it creepy for older men to prefer younger women?

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It seems to be a common theme in art. I'm glad that the Feminists like it.

AP, please stop spam-posting sexually suggestive images.

Otherwise, we will have to lock the thread.

AP you defiantly have a way of winding people up. rape, murder incest &, pedophilia are also common recurring themes in art. my ex wife joanne was raped multiple times as a child and this sort of talk makes me sick and angry. I think you are just trying to rationalize your own kink. or you get off on offending people.

i had no intention of getting involved with your narrow minded crap but my aspergers makes bullheaded sometimes and your constant aggravating and offensive discussion winds me up. you are not saying anything outrageous or thought provoking you are just being intentionally offensive. please stop.

Sorry.

We started talking about age differences between men and women, which, fine, some people may find creepy. Then, we moved on to art themes that Feminists might like.

I certainly don't condone the rape of children (or of anyone). But I do condone legal consensual coitus. Not saying that I necessarily advocate it in all cases, but I do condone it. And, I do condone daydreaming.

Nope. And the chances of that happening some day are about as close to zero as you can get. It is much more likely that a giant turtle will swallow the Earth than that I will take some poor damsel's virginity.



Just based on conversations that I've overheard--it is pretty much the opposite of traumatic for the guys. The guys get bragging rights.

And, you wouldn't want the responsibility? I can't imagine a guy, the week before his wedding, saying "My fiancée is still a virgin, and I don't want the responsibility of taking her virginity. I hope that I can find someone to perform this task for me." It wouldn't be hard at all to find someone.

I think that most guys who take a girl's virginity are pretty proud of their accomplishment.

Dafuq I just see? I expect to see those pics in Adult autism issues! AP at it again! [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJl-Wi-Xgeo[/youtube]

Well, we did go from ephebophilia to whether men were capable of painting or depicting sex interestingly, to the satisfaction of the discerning Feminist eye. At least my examples didn't show any bare areolae, so, hopefully, no-one fell into a swoon.

I am addressing the issue from what is scientifically known about human biology..and the human mating process..

I am not attracted to teenagers at all..i'm 53 years old and well past any ideas about reproducing..and sex does not interest me that much..the actual sex act..that is...

But..personally i don't have any problem distinguishing a 13 year old female from a 16 year old female..generally speaking there are always exceptions to generalities..though....

Pornography is dominated by marketing 'slightly' under 18 year girl old legal 'looking' girls and this is the major pornography market for men world wide...

The reason for that is simple..one word..

Biology..

There is no question that men overall are attracted to young looking fertile females..given all other cultural factors out of the equation...

Statistically, the time when a pregnancy is most likely to result in a healthy infant and a healthy mother is the mid-20's. Claiming that attraction to teenagers is based in biology is... self-serving, at best.

Someone had asked a question about taking a girls virginity. I ever have but I have had several opportunities. I was kind of afraid of causing pain and so in the one time I didn't chicken out or get interrupted I gave her oral sex instead. Not sure if that counts.

I'm not sure if you are addressing me..

But in no way am i saying that attraction to teenagers is based in biology...

What I specifically said is it is based on fertility..per young fertile women....

And if you will read my last several posts i clearly stated that peak fertility occurs later than the younger teenage years...

Obviously pornographers take it to the extreme..and no they usually are not biology majors...

The cultural factors do play a part in this..extreme part...well beyond the biological factors...

Per page 14 of this thread as quoted below:



But if you were not addressing me..please disregard this entire message..

Thank you...

Δ Why did you feel the need to edit your post where you stated that peak reproductive survivability peaks at 16?
I am tired of this bolloks ap you clearly mention desires with young teenage girls, if you don't find this creepy good for you you are obviously very proud of your kink, safe and faceless on an forum where you don't have to worry about any real repercussions or human interaction which is probably how you prefer your sex life. We never discussed art or the other stuff you mentioned, you just goaded me into rashly responding to your posts and spammed some pictures. I feel bored and tired responding to this and it will be my last reply. I wish you and your box of tissues a long and happy marriage. Bye bye

If you're addressing me: I never stated that. I did state that some girls do start breeding at that age, and that, in some jurisdictions, 16-year-olds are freshly available for legal consensual coitus and for marriage. I really don't know anything about peak reproductive survivability. Some people claim that it peaks at the mid-twenties. I do know that if a woman waits much later than that, then the chances of conceiving and gestating a live baby fall dramatically.



I didn't say that I was going to act on such desires. I'm too old for that, anyway. I'm content with looking at girls in bikinis. I proposed that such desires may exist somewhere within the psyches of heterosexual males, but are kept repressed, and occasionally manifest themselves innocently in popular music and art. Your apparent anger at the topic may suggest that you have difficulties with masking similar issues.



We did discuss popular music and art as avenues where sexual desires for young women are made apparent. And, we discussed whether men were capable of producing sexual art that would appeal to Feminists, and what such art would resemble.



Aw, you're sweet.