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26 Sep 2010, 4:02 am

After writing my last post, I started thinking how most of the population has an inaccurate perception of the reasons people are homeless and the difficulties facing those who do end up homeless so I'd like to ask all of you who think you know about the issue, or who care about the issue (and you should because people on the spectrum are very prone to homelessness) to take a look at this man's youtube page and watch many of his interviews.

http://www.youtube.com/user/invisiblepeopletv


Homeless people on the spectrum?
http://www.youtube.com/user/invisiblepe ... -B9OPsm5_4
http://www.youtube.com/user/invisiblepe ... nwulGZe_lo
http://www.youtube.com/user/invisiblepe ... DCzTK4eWDk
http://www.youtube.com/user/invisiblepe ... zzyS6Ijitk



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26 Sep 2010, 4:35 am

Gut-wrenching stuff,
I experienced homlessness for many years because i lacks the so called "social skills" which as this clip demonstrate so well are basicly no more than a code for an hearless existence/



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26 Sep 2010, 4:57 am

Ugh, I should've waited until the morning to watch that. (sad)

I question whether it's that people don't know, or that they don't want to know, though. It seems a common psychological defense to think, "he must've done something to deserve that. (So, therefore, that can never happen to me.)"



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26 Sep 2010, 2:56 pm

i couldn't go and watch that. sorry. i've had too many homeless friends, it breaks my heart. my daughter also now has 2 friends who are homeless. i want to pull them in close and care for them, but it isn't just my house. so i do what i can. one of her friends is getting on his feet.

canada and the u.s. have the highest rates of homelessness in the developed world. it is shameful.


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26 Sep 2010, 3:46 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
i couldn't go and watch that. sorry. i've had too many homeless friends, it breaks my heart. my daughter also now has 2 friends who are homeless. i want to pull them in close and care for them, but it isn't just my house. so i do what i can. one of her friends is getting on his feet.

canada and the u.s. have the highest rates of homelessness in the developed world. it is shameful.


If that is the case it is only because other countries consider shacks and huts proper homes.



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26 Sep 2010, 4:14 pm

Chronos wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
i couldn't go and watch that. sorry. i've had too many homeless friends, it breaks my heart. my daughter also now has 2 friends who are homeless. i want to pull them in close and care for them, but it isn't just my house. so i do what i can. one of her friends is getting on his feet.

canada and the u.s. have the highest rates of homelessness in the developed world. it is shameful.


If that is the case it is only because other countries consider shacks and huts proper homes.


i was speaking of the developed world, i.e. u.s. canada new zealand ireland france etc... (sorry too many to list)


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26 Sep 2010, 4:55 pm

Is there anyone here willing to share his house with a homeless person? Is there anyone here willing to buy a house for a homeless person? If not, then be still.

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26 Sep 2010, 5:02 pm

ruveyn wrote:
Is there anyone here willing to share his house with a homeless person? Is there anyone here willing to buy a house for a homeless person? If not, then be still.

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Precisely.

I can't watch right now because it's too personal. Spent most of my childhood homeless, on highways back and forth across the Southwest.



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26 Sep 2010, 5:06 pm

ruveyn wrote:
Is there anyone here willing to share his house with a homeless person? Is there anyone here willing to buy a house for a homeless person? If not, then be still.

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i have done so. can't do it now because it isn't just *my* house. but i do everything else in my power to help... just put some clothes in the dryer that belong to my daughter's homeless friend, and i have helped feed him, researched housing options for him, allowed him to use our shower, and so on...

i do not own a house myself, so the chances of being able to afford that for someone else are pretty remote.

i do what i can. so yes, i have the right to speak.


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26 Sep 2010, 5:11 pm

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i do what i can. so yes, i have the right to speak.


That is so. You have walked the walk, so now you can talk the talk.

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26 Sep 2010, 5:24 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
i do what i can. so yes, i have the right to speak.


Yes, there are more options than either buying someone a house or doing nothing.



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26 Sep 2010, 5:25 pm

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Is there anyone here willing to share his house with a homeless person? Is there anyone here willing to buy a house for a homeless person? If not, then be still.

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There are more effective ways to approach the issue. Most homeless people do not want to come into a stranger's home anyway.

You can help by donating time and resources and work to address issues within your own community which may be an obstacle to success for many homeless individuals.

Is there a place they can use as a permanent address in your city that is not a P.O. box? If not, you may want to pitch the idea to various help organizations.

Are there facilities for those who are completely destitute to clean their clothes? Some cities have centers where they can do laundry for free but those centers need volunteer staffers and people to maintain the appliances.

Are there public shower facilities? Most cities DO NOT have these and those who cannot access shower facilities at shelters for one reason or another often have to do their best to clean up in the restrooms of fast food establishments, who often deny them access.

Does your city have an ordinance against people sleeping in their cars? Many cities do. Find out why these ordinances were enacted and work to repeal them and tackle the problems they were enacted for other ways.

Does your city have an ordinance against panhandling? If so, see if there are alternative resources available. Most people are not professional panhandlers and only do it as a last resort to really get money for the bus or some food. A good alternative to panhandling bans is a permit program, in which the person obtains a temporary free permit to panhandle as long as they abide by certain rules, for example, staying out of the street, not harassing people, not standing outside of shops or places of business, etc.

You might also pitch the concept of subsidized bus passes which can be distributed to those in need via existing aid organizations.

Does your city have public locker facilities? Many homeless people find it difficult to travel because if they leave their belongings they will be stolen or thrown away. They need a safe place to keep their belongings during the day.

Work with your city to allow the establishment of temporary, supervised tent cities. These are usually a favorable alternative to shelters because they are cheaper to run, provide individuals with much needed private space, and create a sense of community which many people find helpful. Tent cities do not become shanty towns if they have the proper management.

Donate things to local charities, like clean socks and underwear, prepaid cell phones, attire appropriate for interviews, tents, high quality sleeping bags, feminine care items, deoderant, dental care items, luggage with wheels, backpacks, hand sanitizer, hair care items, hats and sunglasses, sunscreen and so on.



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26 Sep 2010, 5:26 pm

At the risk of sounding crass and heartless I will ask: what have the homeless done for me lately?

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26 Sep 2010, 5:32 pm

ruveyn wrote:
At the risk of sounding crass and heartless I will ask: what have the homeless done for me lately?

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Any problem which affects someone else has the potential to affect you, and solutions to those problems are solutions which may eventually serve you.



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26 Sep 2010, 5:35 pm

If something can be done, then why doesn't anyone do it?



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26 Sep 2010, 5:41 pm

ruveyn wrote:
At the risk of sounding crass and heartless I will ask: what have the homeless done for me lately?

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hopefully, exposed your conscience to an important message about humanity.


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