mechanicalgirl39 wrote:
zer0netgain wrote:
What I find repugnant about the abortion issue in law is how it's all about the WOMAN's choice. The father has no say about if an abortion should or should not be performed. He can't compel the mother to give birth
Why the hell should he have that right? It's her health, her body at risk when she goes through pregnancy, her who could end up with incontinence and other issues, why the f**k should he get to decide that someone else must go through a serious medical condition so he can have the baby he wants?
Because pregnancy is not about the woman. It's about both the father and mother. A woman's right to her body terminates when she willfully gives herself to a man and it results in becoming pregnant. What is inside of her is 50% the man's DNA. If brought to term, the law will compel the man to support that child for the next 18 years. Still, the man gets no say in anything, it's all reserved to the woman. That's an utterly one-sided view of the issue, and the law is not supposed to be lopsided as such.
That the woman must bear 9 months of pregnancy is a ludicrous argument when the man is going to be forced to support her choice no matter what it is. Both sides are equally invested.
Now, if the woman refuses to ID the father or does not know, I can see the argument swinging on that, but by leaving him utterly out of the process, he won't be held accountable for any choices made. However, when the father is brought in, he should have his rights represented.