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Also, what business does the bloody government have telling me what I can and can't buy?
The problem in Eastern Europe in particular wasn't so much that government bureaucrats declared what people were and weren't allowed to buy... the problem was that when they went shopping, everything in stores was dirt cheap, but stores were perpetually sold out of everything people actually wanted to buy.
The best American example is to think about what stores like Sports Authority and Home Depot increasingly became like during the worst months of the Great Recession -- everything was marked down and perpetually on sale, but if you actually wanted to buy something specific, there was a good chance that they didn't actually have any in stock, because they weren't ordering new merchandise to replace merchandise that they sold, and everything you were likely to care about buying was sold out long ago. Want a pair of size 36 shorts? Sorry, they're all sold out. But if you wear 29 or 48, they have entire racks... and they're 60% off. Want a T-shirt? Great, as long as you wear XS or XXXL. They're even on sale. What? XL? Sorry, out of stock.
Likewise, even in the former Soviet Union, few people genuinely lived in fear of midnight knocks on the door from the KGB or Stasi. What people DID worry about was getting reassigned to a crap job, or living with their parents for years (after getting married!) waiting for an apartment somewhere to become available (even though politically-butt-kissing peers seemed to have no such problems). There were countless petty ways their governments could make their lives miserable, and people who made a point of antagonizing the Party were made as miserable as possible.
One of my coworkers (who grew up in St. Petersburg, Russia) put it this way -- it wasn't nearly as bad in the ways Americans always think it was, but it was unbelievably worse in petty ways that Americans can't even imagine. It wasn't so much a matter of life in a police state as it was a matter of living in a society where you spent half your life waiting in line after line so some bureaucrat could shrug and say "sorry, I can't help you", and you quickly figured out that you could either spend your life miserably fighting the system, or you could say 'f**k it', go through the motions of doing the least you could get away with, and and carve out your own private niche of sanity... which is exactly what everyone did.
As a group, high-functioning Aspies did quite badly in the former Soviet Union & Eastern Union. Why? Because under Soviet communism, advancement required lots of a$$-kissing, extroverted enthusiasm for the Party and its endless social functions, and knowing when to bite your tongue even when somebody in a position of political authority is being an idiot -- all skills we tend to suck at rather badly. Plus, military service was more or less a universal requirement (as has been discussed elsewhere, roughly 1/3 of Aspies thrive under military life, and 2/3 melt down and self-destruct), and military disgrace usually meant you could forget about ever having any kind of real career afterward.
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