I love, absolutely love getting into debates with these sorts of people. Especially in public.
Invariably, they'll start quoting the bible at me. Big mistake. I attended catholic schools. Had bible classes right in between math and english every day for years. Attended church services two or three times a week. Plus a couple years worth of confirmation classes. Plus a couple more years of classes when I was my father's sponsor when he was confirmed. Plus a couple of sacred lit classes in college. I know that damned book as well as (better than, in some cases) most clergy.
So when they start throwing bible verses around (usually taking them completely out of context and misunderstanding the hell out of them), that's when I get the chance to really tear their arguments apart, make them look like the complete fools that they are.
Tim_Tex, I agree with you that there are many many moderate, reasonable Christians out there. Far more of those than of this type. It's unfortunate that the lunatic fringe (in any group really, not just Christians) tends to be the most vocal. And I agree that people like this are probably the reason why so many have such distaste for Christianity. It's unfair that the reasonable majority get painted with the same brush as these asses. But I think there are far too many Christians in this country, too many who do accept it, to call Christians "social pariahs."
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