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one of them was that God created all women to be mothers, either actually or spiritually. I do not seem to have this nurturing, receptive character that they were talking about.
This is one of those rare moments I glad to be male -- I don't have to put with expectations of being nurturing and all that. But, ultimately, all of that is just some guy's opinion of how women should be.
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Another passage said that we were created through an act of love and that our soul gives us the capacity to love and be loved.
IMO, that's just some overwrought romanticism. All we truly know in life is that we are here and that we are alive.
I don't know if this will make sense to you, but the above reminds me of straight people waxing poetic about being complementary to their partner and how that is definition of love and similar sentiments. If that's true for them, great. But it only feels like a Truth of the Universe to them because it's the only thing they know and because they are high (on endorphins). I take such statements about as seriously as I take things said by people who are drunk.
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I seem to be lacking that capacity. It's like there's a piece missing.
Do you care about you pets? Also, I recall some women here stating that they didn't "get" babies until they had their own children, and then all that stuff mostly came naturally.
For me, people make it difficult to show that you care in ways that they understand. (Which is why I prefer non-humans.)