To those who can't talk

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Pardon my opinion based on complete ignorance... but based on my own experience from not being able to look away or shut up...

I think that those who can't talk (without being mute) aren't doing it because they can't... but because deep down they figured out that no matter what they say people will only see negativity in it and try to get the upper hand, hurt them, and reject them. So, probably without being conscious of the process, the wonderful beauty of survival instinct make them act in a way that save them so much pain... give them trouble... yet spare them probably much worst...

Those who can't make eye contact... I think it,s because they can see that the verbal language and physical body language don't match... people smile but look more like their growling in disdain from a forced one, people lie pretending to be kind, but you can see the disdain and hatred all over their face... so they look away...

So my point is...

While I would feel very hurt because I have issues with feeling ignored... while I understand that your life is probably not easy either and that other choices always have positive and negative aspects...

I envy you...

I don't think it's being weak, unable, dumb...

You might actually be the most clever people on earth...

Refusing to take part in all that BS, lies, hypocritical stuff... yet knowing that no one is ready to welcome anything different... that the rule of the game won't change, so you just don't even try to play the game...

I heard that shy silent people have the most interesting things to say... the most meaningful things to say... I believe it's true for them...

I believe it's even more so for autistic people who are even further on the introvert spectrum, even more so for people who are so introverted that they don't talk or look at people...

They probably met god and knows the secret of the universe, he truth behind cancer, and how to fix it (actually I think I saw that one.)

I think I have a lot to learn from you with my big mouth, and if more people did that sometimes, there would be less pain, less bullies, less lies (don't you just hate to compile bad data)

The world would be a better place.

I love you. I wouldn't know how to deal with you since I can't help being the other extreme... and I'd feel lonely feeling ignored... But I love you.