A bit tired

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of the AS people in REAL LIFE not getting along with even each other. Im tired of them bickering, and saying I have no right to speak at all cause I dont have Aspergers, and trying to pick on me.(Theyre well aware of my Aspergers vs PDDNOS diagnosis). I dont like to pick fights but Im seriously *****ed off, at them. Sometimes Id just wish theyd get over their differences and genuineness and just ****ing get along with each other!
Most of us "lower functioning ret*ds"(in their own words) get along....so why cant they?
I am really starting to dislike real-life Aspergers socializing groups.... Id rather hang out with the "ret*d" (according to many Aspies in REAL LIFE) group, than with Aspies, especially since ALL they want to do is fight, and bicker about politics/religion, show how big their intelligence is , and make fun of those who are "lower functioning in intelligence".
If theyre so smart, how come they havent figured out why they are alone(and they complain about that) especially when they are told why theyre alone?
Sorry if this seems like a rant, but I need to get this off my chest. 'get this off my chest' = 'vent'.
There are many forms of intelligence and one of them is knowing when to display ones intelligence and when not to, right?! We(us "lower functioning" in REAL LIFE) would rather not talk about things/use a giant vocabulary, since we're smart enough to know that most people wont know what the heck we're talking about! Better to keep silent than boast about our intelligence/huge vocabulary and annoy the crap out of people?

Uh, I think you're generalizing excessively. Honestly, if you said something as silly as accusing me of only wanting to fight, bicker, and try to look smart, I probably would act pretty rude about it. That would be IRL, though. I'm tempted to now, except here I have time to step back and figure, you probably didn't really mean it and yelling at you wouldn't do a whole lot of good.

Basically, if you don't want people to judge you based on your specific diagnosis, don't do it to them. I understand that sometimes you gotta vent, but doing it around many of the people you're venting about may be less than beneficial for everyone involved.

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I typed "in REAL LIFE", I wasn't referring to you or anyone online. Our group leader has asked that religion, intelligence, and other things NOT be talked about, but he gets ignored, and the Aspies go at it with talking about Politics, Religion, Intelligence, and how Im smarter than you, etc. EVERYTIME theyve gotten hurt, while those who they have belittled arent hurt.
Ive been told Im close to having Aspergers, so I try to relate, but I just cant, especially with what Ive seen of REAL-LIFE Aspies.
Just to clarify Im not trying to offend anyone, and Im trying to understand why they do this to each other? Cant they understand the stress and injuries its causing everyone?