Not all Americans love AA. I don't like it at all. While it obviously works for some people I really dislike the way they tell you that you have a character defect, and that if you aren't in AA and do the steps that even if you quit drinking you aren't sober. I know a guy that it really helped, and I'm very glad he's sober and healthy but he turned into a huge self righteous ass from it. He's been in it for about 15 years and he still puts down friends who drink normally and he always talks about everything being an addiction. He goes overboard. I don't judge it just based on him though, and I'm sure there are lots of people it didn't do that to. A lot of what they say is not logical at all. Like when they say you have no power over alcohol. Of course you do, it's an inanimate object, what you may not have power over is your craving for it or your actions after drinking a lot of it.
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