fionaban, your tutor has no right to embarrass you and what you have and don't have is confidential, i hope you report this person. I'll pray for your tact and wisdom in handling this situation. and it does need to be handled, you said no, then your wishes should have been granted. PERIOD. ....Now I'm going to ask for prayer for my son, he is 19 his girlfriend is 18. Her father is so angry about her having a boyfriend. i worry about my son's safety, as this father is really wacked out about it. I did advise my son to end it, but he won't, and his girlfriiiends mother feels her husband is being rediculous. He is threatening to pull is daughter out of college if she continues to see my son, they don't even date hardly because of him. It's not proper, i don't see how God will honor this relationship with such oppostion from her dad, as she does live with her parents, and needs to respect their wishes. At the same time her mom says she will not allow her daughter to drop out of college, and that she will pay for it and that she likes the realtionship between her daughter and my son and wants them to stay together.....what a mess.Noow her dad is threatening to divorce the mom. Talk about emotional blackmail.