There is a psyche of males that is often dismissed, misunderstood, misrepresented and parodied, but rarely given the regard it deserves. The book, Iron John, describes it well, and despite it being a best seller, its message has been forgotten in the 25 years since it was published.
The Industrial Revolution took men away from families, traditions, initiations and other things that are important to the male psyche, and what's left is a different character of maleness that is often parodied in alarming ways. Men are often depicted as macho, brainless, foolish or even too metro or feminine. Absent the rituals of our long evolved tribal origins, men find ways to initiate themselves, which often leads to exaggerated responses, both at the aggressive and passive ends of the scale. No wonder the media loves to parody 'maleness.'
Yet the attempt by men to regain some of this, through men's groups and the like, is often seen as more reason for scorn or fuel for parody.
When I first read Iron John, it was like a watershed of emotional release for me, making sense of a feeling of loss that goes back decades to my teen years.
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I'm not blind to your facial expression - but it may take me a few minutes to comprehend it.
A smile is not always a smile.
A frown is not always a frown.
And a blank look rarely means a blank mind.