0_equals_true wrote:
I have a unique window into Jewish culture in a professional capacity. Specifically women's culture and the requirements on them within the faith.
I have to say it strikes me as quite controlling. There is a lot of rules, and it get into quite intimate areas. For men but women bare the brunt of it. It supposed to be a maternal faith, but in reality it is paternalist.
Particularly talking about ritual purity/family purity rules. Some of this is copied into Islam, but no where near as elaborate.
The stereotype of neurotic mothers whilst a stereotype is understandable under those conditions. Certainly the person I know the best is extremely nervous, and is always telling me how nervous she is and have seen it in others as a trend.
Also Jewish women are also expected to cover up and dress quite modestly, although wigs are also acceptable in some sects instead of head scarves.
I'm not talking about ultra-Orthodox here, just normal orthodox. Ultras can't even begin to imagine.
Anyone else seen this, or has any insight.
There are some instances where I believe Orthodox judaism is oppressive towards women. For example, obtaining a divorce can be difficult or impossible for orthodox women who adhere to the authority of the religious courts/community, and there are some sects in Israel that insist that women sit in the back of buses so as to not tempt the men to rape them, and prohibit women from seeking advanced degrees, but they are a minority.
As for American orthodox jews, and probably English orthodox jews as well, I think women actually have a lot of freedom, or at least no less freedom than the men with the exception of divorce, particularly in ultra orthodox communities. However women can be more burdened in the communities where the men spend most of their time studying torah and the talmud, and the women are expected to fill the role of both the wage earner and care giver.