AJisHere wrote:
Jacoby wrote:
Your family and the parenting you get predisposes most of your success or failure in life I think, culturally we have a sickness in this country and what we need is a restoration of the family and traditional values.
The family is doing just fine, man. As for "traditional values", no thanks. I'd like to stay right here in the 21st century.
As regards what predisposes success or failure, I'd say one's financial background is kind of a huge deal. If you come from a poor family, you are unlikely to succeed. It's an uphill battle no matter how smart or talented you are.
That's not true tho, Asian-Americans have all this success why? They didn't come here rich, it's because it's culturally ingrained in them to value education. We all know the stereotype of the tiger mom right? It's not like it's based on myth.
And no, the family isn't doing just fine, there is a crisis of single parenthood and divorce in this country and it's the children who suffer. Our life expectancy is falling for the first time in the history of this country, we're a country and culture in decline. While you may enjoy hedonism, a healthy functioning society it does not make.
Good parents = good outcomes, bad parents = bad outcomes. It isn't simply being poor but rather a culture of poverty, just because a parent might love their child does not make them a good parent either. Some people(maybe not people like us) need a moral framework instilled in them to act right, maybe they can figure it out on their own eventually but somethings you don't get do overs at. I think one can be a great parent still even if they are poor, I do not believe one is permanently. I don't believe one is trapped in their circumstances simply by the nature of what their parents earned or didn't earn. That doesn't explain the achievement gap in my opinion, it's a learned helplessness.