Is Heaven a place for eternal celibacy?
We all know Christians describe Heaven as perfect love, yada, yada but do you think it's really true that their Heaven, people are celibate for eternity? Because I was raised Catholic, I don't exactly look forward to the return of Jesus as described in Revelation. I figure that I should have all the sex and relationships on Earth while I can, because I don't know any other religion (besides Islam of course) that believes in the afterlife, we won't be celibate spirits. I feel as lonely on Earth as it is. Why does God have to ruin it for me?
Several thoughts happen together.
I don't know what to think of that, it is a question I have too.
What is known, is that it is not said our eternity will be in heaven - there is that new earth thing happening eventually and our eternity will be there.
And contrary to popular culture, we do not become angels either. It is said we will be like them, which by definition means we will not be them.
And how far exactly does 'neither marry nor be given in marriage' go?
Is sex one of those former things which will not be remembered or come to mind?
As far as are people celibate for eternity, it is easy to draw that conclusion.
But I haven't seen something addressing the eternal celibacy question bluntly and explicitly; which doesn't mean it definitely isn't in there, just means I haven't seen it.
References for my above thoughts:
Psalm 8
"4What is man, that you are mindful of him? and the son of man, that you visit him? 5For you have made him a little lower than the angels, and have crowned him with glory and honor."
1 Corinthians 6
2Or do you not know that the saints will judge the world? If the world is judged by you, are you not competent to constitute the smallest law courts? 3Do you not know that we will judge angels? How much more matters of this life?
Isaiah 65
"17"For behold, I create new heavens and a new earth; And the former things will not be remembered or come to mind. 18"But be glad and rejoice forever in what I create; For behold, I create Jerusalem for rejoicing And her people for gladness. 19"
Isaiah 66
"22"For just as the new heavens and the new earth Which I make will endure before Me," declares the LORD, "So your offspring and your name will endure. "
2 Peter 3
"12as you anticipate and hasten the coming of the day of God, when the heavens will be dissolved by fire and the elements will melt in the heat. 13But in keeping with God’s promise, we are looking forward to a new heaven and a new earth, where righteousness dwells."
Revelation 21
"1Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth; for the first heaven and the first earth passed away, and there is no longer any sea. 2And I saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, made ready as a bride adorned for her husband. 3And I heard a loud voice from the throne, saying, "Behold, the tabernacle of God is among men, and He will dwell among them, and they shall be His people, and God Himself will be among them, 4and He will wipe away every tear from their eyes; and there will no longer be any death; there will no longer be any mourning, or crying, or pain; the first things have passed away. 5And He who sits on the throne said, "Behold, I am making all things new.""
Matthew 22
"28"In the resurrection, therefore, whose wife of the seven will she be? For they all had married her." 29But Jesus answered and said to them, "You are mistaken, not understanding the Scriptures nor the power of God. 30"For in the resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels in heaven."
Mark 12
"25When the dead rise, they will neither marry nor be given in marriage. Instead, they will be like the angels in heaven. "
Luke 20
"35But those who are considered worthy to share in the age to come and in the resurrection from the dead will neither marry nor be given in marriage. 36In fact, they can no longer die, because they are like the angels. And since they are sons of the resurrection, they are sons of God. "
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It's probably not a place for eternal anything. For as much or as little as I've read, human 'heaven' and Bardo are the same thing and, at least in the East, Bardo isn't particularly held in that high of esteem. On this side of the pond - 'I saw Jesus! Heaven's for real!! !!'.
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I have prayed to God that I will find a beautiful partner, but I'm becoming afraid that it's his plan for me to remain celibate in this life, and in heaven too. No matter what the bible may say, I pray to God to request that I can actually find a partner of my own in heaven. Heaven otherwise sounds like a good place.
Sometimes I even wonder if it's ever a point in talking to God. Since he is more all-knowing. It depresses me.
I just want to say that I am afraid we'll all die soon and leave it at that.
I don't know what to think of that, it is a question I have too.
What is known, is that it is not said our eternity will be in heaven - there is that new earth thing happening eventually and our eternity will be there.
And contrary to popular culture, we do not become angels either. It is said we will be like them, which by definition means we will not be them.
And how far exactly does 'neither marry nor be given in marriage' go?
Is sex one of those former things which will not be remembered or come to mind?
As far as are people celibate for eternity, it is easy to draw that conclusion.
But I haven't seen something addressing the eternal celibacy question bluntly and explicitly; which doesn't mean it definitely isn't in there, just means I haven't seen it.
References for my above thoughts:
Psalm 8
"4What is man, that you are mindful of him? and the son of man, that you visit him? 5For you have made him a little lower than the angels, and have crowned him with glory and honor."
1 Corinthians 6
2Or do you not know that the saints will judge the world? If the world is judged by you, are you not competent to constitute the smallest law courts? 3Do you not know that we will judge angels? How much more matters of this life?
Isaiah 65
"17"For behold, I create new heavens and a new earth; And the former things will not be remembered or come to mind. 18"But be glad and rejoice forever in what I create; For behold, I create Jerusalem for rejoicing And her people for gladness. 19"
Isaiah 66
"22"For just as the new heavens and the new earth Which I make will endure before Me," declares the LORD, "So your offspring and your name will endure. "
2 Peter 3
"12as you anticipate and hasten the coming of the day of God, when the heavens will be dissolved by fire and the elements will melt in the heat. 13But in keeping with God’s promise, we are looking forward to a new heaven and a new earth, where righteousness dwells."
Revelation 21
"1Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth; for the first heaven and the first earth passed away, and there is no longer any sea. 2And I saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, made ready as a bride adorned for her husband. 3And I heard a loud voice from the throne, saying, "Behold, the tabernacle of God is among men, and He will dwell among them, and they shall be His people, and God Himself will be among them, 4and He will wipe away every tear from their eyes; and there will no longer be any death; there will no longer be any mourning, or crying, or pain; the first things have passed away. 5And He who sits on the throne said, "Behold, I am making all things new.""
Matthew 22
"28"In the resurrection, therefore, whose wife of the seven will she be? For they all had married her." 29But Jesus answered and said to them, "You are mistaken, not understanding the Scriptures nor the power of God. 30"For in the resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels in heaven."
Mark 12
"25When the dead rise, they will neither marry nor be given in marriage. Instead, they will be like the angels in heaven. "
Luke 20
"35But those who are considered worthy to share in the age to come and in the resurrection from the dead will neither marry nor be given in marriage. 36In fact, they can no longer die, because they are like the angels. And since they are sons of the resurrection, they are sons of God. "
What is your opinion on this matter?
Sometimes I even wonder if it's ever a point in talking to God. Since he is more all-knowing. It depresses me.
I just want to say that I am afraid we'll all die soon and leave it at that.
Revelation 21
Now, a question is whether the city of New Jerusalem described as coming down from heaven to be placed on the new earth for the resurrected humans to live in is figurative, allegorical, or literal. I dunno for certain. Would be cool if it is literal.
As described in the text, that thing is BIG.
"16The city is laid out as a square, and its length is as great as the width; and he measured the city with the rod, fifteen hundred miles; its length and width and height are equal."
Let's see, a cube 1,500 miles on a side, LxWxH = internal volume of 1,500 x 1,500 x1,500 = 3,375,000,000 cubic miles in volume.
Metric volume: 1500 miles x 1.6 = 2414km. And 2414 x 2414 x 2414 = 14,067,333,944 cubic kilometers
(feels almost sacrilegious to say this, but is one freakin big Borg cube!)
Everybody going to live in it or will there be other places to live? Dunno, I don't remember it saying.
And then I'm thinking, wait a minute, if there is a city over a thousand miles, two thousand kilometers, tall, that New Earth is going to have to be a very, very, very, different thing from this current one.
I have seen commentary saying there is also going to be a new outer space; a new universe. That kinda depends on what the original writer meant by heaven. Again, I dunno, is there going to be a new universe, new outer space, or is that something we westerners are reading in to it? I'm disinclined to speculate on that. Again, I do think it would be cool if there was.
After that I'm kind out of thoughts. My physical health is a mess and this afternoon I went to laundromat and did 3 baskets worth, so I'm worn out and hurting. And as part of that mess my mind gets run down too.
Going a bit off on a tangent ...
I will tell you a secret, sometimes the concept of existing for eternity, without end, is overwhelmingly huge enough I have had panic attacks over it. And the idea of ceasing to exist, fading to black, occasionally does about the same thing.
But then, how do I know whether I may or may not have existed for eternity already? All I can sense is right now; I have zero memory of coming in to consciousness, of being born.
Okay, now I'm really out of things to say
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By the way, I'm not changing the way I pray.
Then read the part I told you to read because it's important. And what my point is that a relationship for us autists is that both parties will have a hard time.
Revelation 21
Now, a question is whether the city of New Jerusalem described as coming down from heaven to be placed on the new earth for the resurrected humans to live in is figurative, allegorical, or literal. I dunno for certain. Would be cool if it is literal.
As described in the text, that thing is BIG.
"16The city is laid out as a square, and its length is as great as the width; and he measured the city with the rod, fifteen hundred miles; its length and width and height are equal."
Let's see, a cube 1,500 miles on a side, LxWxH = internal volume of 1,500 x 1,500 x1,500 = 3,375,000,000 cubic miles in volume.
Metric volume: 1500 miles x 1.6 = 2414km. And 2414 x 2414 x 2414 = 14,067,333,944 cubic kilometers
(feels almost sacrilegious to say this, but is one freakin big Borg cube!)
Everybody going to live in it or will there be other places to live? Dunno, I don't remember it saying.
And then I'm thinking, wait a minute, if there is a city over a thousand miles, two thousand kilometers, tall, that New Earth is going to have to be a very, very, very, different thing from this current one.
I have seen commentary saying there is also going to be a new outer space; a new universe. That kinda depends on what the original writer meant by heaven. Again, I dunno, is there going to be a new universe, new outer space, or is that something we westerners are reading in to it? I'm disinclined to speculate on that. Again, I do think it would be cool if there was.
After that I'm kind out of thoughts. My physical health is a mess and this afternoon I went to laundromat and did 3 baskets worth, so I'm worn out and hurting. And as part of that mess my mind gets run down too.
Going a bit off on a tangent ...
I will tell you a secret, sometimes the concept of existing for eternity, without end, is overwhelmingly huge enough I have had panic attacks over it. And the idea of ceasing to exist, fading to black, occasionally does about the same thing.
But then, how do I know whether I may or may not have existed for eternity already? All I can sense is right now; I have zero memory of coming in to consciousness, of being born.
Okay, now I'm really out of things to say
Revelation 21
Now, a question is whether the city of New Jerusalem described as coming down from heaven to be placed on the new earth for the resurrected humans to live in is figurative, allegorical, or literal. I dunno for certain. Would be cool if it is literal.
As described in the text, that thing is BIG.
"16The city is laid out as a square, and its length is as great as the width; and he measured the city with the rod, fifteen hundred miles; its length and width and height are equal."
Let's see, a cube 1,500 miles on a side, LxWxH = internal volume of 1,500 x 1,500 x1,500 = 3,375,000,000 cubic miles in volume.
Metric volume: 1500 miles x 1.6 = 2414km. And 2414 x 2414 x 2414 = 14,067,333,944 cubic kilometers
(feels almost sacrilegious to say this, but is one freakin big Borg cube!)
Everybody going to live in it or will there be other places to live? Dunno, I don't remember it saying.
And then I'm thinking, wait a minute, if there is a city over a thousand miles, two thousand kilometers, tall, that New Earth is going to have to be a very, very, very, different thing from this current one.
I have seen commentary saying there is also going to be a new outer space; a new universe. That kinda depends on what the original writer meant by heaven. Again, I dunno, is there going to be a new universe, new outer space, or is that something we westerners are reading in to it? I'm disinclined to speculate on that. Again, I do think it would be cool if there was.
After that I'm kind out of thoughts. My physical health is a mess and this afternoon I went to laundromat and did 3 baskets worth, so I'm worn out and hurting. And as part of that mess my mind gets run down too.
Going a bit off on a tangent ...
I will tell you a secret, sometimes the concept of existing for eternity, without end, is overwhelmingly huge enough I have had panic attacks over it. And the idea of ceasing to exist, fading to black, occasionally does about the same thing.
But then, how do I know whether I may or may not have existed for eternity already? All I can sense is right now; I have zero memory of coming in to consciousness, of being born.
Okay, now I'm really out of things to say
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From what I gather, in Heaven, everyone is married to God. Jesus actually said that people won't be married or engaged in Heaven when the religious leaders asked Him whose wife a woman who married 7 men and outlived them all (poor guys!) would be in Heaven. Since marriage is a picture of the relationship between Christ (groom) and the Church (bride), then same-same marriages would be an abomination, and divorces other than for fornication would be adultery. As for sex and having children, I don't think there is in Heaven, but can't say for sure on that one.
As for New Jerusalem, I'm not sure it's a literal city with streets of gold and all of that. (It appears to be a symbolic picture of the perfected Bride (the Church).) Revelation mentions a New Heaven and a New Earth, so apparently there is a new Earth too.
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It's probably fair to say that I won't be able to help much here if I don't share your exact beliefs and that likely goes for other posters here.
Have you tried asking this question on ChristianForums.Com or something along those lines?
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