General political stance of an autistic-friendly subculture?

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Mona Pereth
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22 Nov 2018, 1:04 pm

Here, in the thread The "no contact" thing in today's American culture:

rdos wrote:
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There is no "We" when it come to autistic, autistic-like, and autistic-friendly people -- there are only individuals with no social cohesion or common goal.

Small, relatively cohesive groups of autistic people do exist, such as ASAN plus various in-person support groups, at least in major cities such as NYC. As the number of such groups grows, and as they manage to network with each other, they -- together with forums like WP -- will begin to constitute a more cohesive subculture than we have now.

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Some want jobs. Some want girlfriends. Some just want to be housed, fed, and medicated in isolation so that they can play their video games without having to interact with others.

Until "We" become a cohesive whole with full agreement on common goals, there will be no rules that "We" have to follow.

There is every bit as much variation within the LGBT community, yet it is a distinct subculture with its own rules.

Rules of some kind -- hopefully not overly restrictive rules -- will inevitably emerge as a subculture organizes and grows, as the autistic community is now doing, albeit slowly. We just need to make sure that the rules make sense.

At the very least, we should NOT assume that the NT world's rules are an unalterable fact of life within even an autistic-friendly subculture.

I think this is a complicated issue. First, I'm not at all convinced that it is a subculture we should create. The problem with subcultures is that they still obey the general rules of NTs.

Are there any specific "general rules of NTs" that you are thinking of here, that an ND subculture would still follow, and that would be bad for NDs? If so, which specific "general rules of NTs" do you have in mind?

It seems to me that a subculture of autistic, autistic-like, and autistic-friendly people would need to have somewhat different rules. I think it would need, for example, to have a strong ethic of assertiveness (as distinct from both passivity and aggressiveness). Because we're bad at social subtleties, we need people to be assertive.

rdos wrote:
Second, I think you can generalize NDs as often being left wing, like socialist or communist, and we know how bad the implementation of these ideologies fared.

The best economies are neither left wing nor right wing, but mixed. The trick is getting the right mixture. In the U.S.A. this view is considered center-left. In Europe, perhaps it's considered center-right?

Anyhow, I think it's likely that the autistic community will continue be left-leaning overall, but will also continue to have a significant right wing sector -- as it does now, judging by the posts here on WP, including yours.

I think this will continue to be the case because, in conservative families, autistic kids are less likely to be thrown out (or worse) than LGBT kids are. The latter is, I think, the main reason why the LGBT community is as close-to-solidly left-wing as it now is (although even the LGBT community does have its right wing sector).

John Michael Carley, the founder of GRASP, has written about the bipartisan nature of the NT-dominated "autism community" (parents and professionals), which he believes is leaning more and more to the right, if anything. In a blog post We’re Not “Bad at Sex,” But We Sure Are Bad at Teaching It – Part 2: The Autism World Is NOT “Sex Positive.” Here’s Why, he wrote:

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But so-called progressives like myself don’t often like to acknowledge one historical point: Our self-advocate causes, most especially the arguments over the word “cure,” if not also the fight against wacko vaccine theories, were won with the help of many of the autism world’s conservative factions. In an unacknowledged alliance, those with religious belief systems joined forces with peer-run organizations like GRASP because, to them, trying to cure us was a rejection of what God had intended. Some of the original “gifts of autism” language comes not from spectrum literature (i.e. people on the spectrum themselves), but from more religious folks who had kids on the spectrum ....

... Most anti-LGBTQ-based thinking is rooted in religious doctrine. But if the task at hand doesn’t involve getting inside other people’s pants, religious people are natural allies for humanitarian causes. When I was a minor-league diplomat in a prior career – operating in places like Bosnia, or Iraq during the Saddam Hussein days – I never went to the United Nations Children's Fund (UNICEF) or the World Health Organization (WHO) if I needed help inside those countries. I always went to the religious organizations. When it came to hunger and disease, I trusted, and was always right to trust, their priorities. ...

... And a decade ago, Republicans and Democrats equally contributed to my efforts at GRASP. ... Republicans have just as many autistic kids as Democrats.

But those bipartisan times have changed. The result is a community that is more socially conservative, and thus destined to be behind when it comes to matters of sexuality.

I'm not sure I agree with him that the "autism parents" community has become predominantly right-wing. This probably varies by region. It might be true in the Bible Belt, but not here in NYC.

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IOW, autistic subcultures with strong cohesion would look an awful lot like some of the worse dictatorships we have seen, and so I rather not have those implemented.

I don't think this is likely to happen. I think the autistic community will continue to include people from all kinds of different backgrounds. And, if the community is sufficiently organized yet sufficiently de-centralized, it will not be possible for any would-be dictators to take over. In the long run, any new social rules that are accepted on a community-wide basis would, most likely, be those rules that actually work well for autistic and autistic-like people from a variety of backgrounds. If some particular rule doesn't work well, then there will eventually be a critical mass of people who speak up and resist.

rdos wrote:
The truth probably is that NDs should not organize social cultures at all as this is not natural.

Actually I think it is VERY natural for ND's (or at least a relatively extroverted minority among ND's) to be founders of subcultures. Not fitting in to mainstream society, it is only natural to look for fellow oddballs, and if possible to organize groups of fellow oddballs.

I suspect that there are lots of oddball subcultures that were founded by ND's, then later taken over by NT's.

Example: The bisexual wing of the LGBT community. I briefly attended some bisexual support groups back in the 1980's. Looking back on those days, I think many of the founding members were probably autistic. (I personally was close friends with one of them.)

Another example: The polyamory community. At least here in NYC, the polyamory community has a long history of being surprisingly autistic-friendly, and was so even before anyone had ever heard of HFA or Asperger's syndrome. Apparently it still is, according to the blog post Autism and Consent by Kirsten Lindsmith.

Another possible example: The hippie movement. I don't know who the founders were, but, judging by that subculture's fondness for comfortable clothes, I would guess that it might have been founded by people with sensory issues.


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22 Nov 2018, 5:50 pm

Mona Pereth wrote:
Are there any specific "general rules of NTs" that you are thinking of here, that an ND subculture would still follow, and that would be bad for NDs? If so, which specific "general rules of NTs" do you have in mind?


It's often subtle things, and so many of them might go unnoticed.

One thing is how conversations are carried out. NTs feel awkward when people don't talk all the time, but NDs prefer to only talk when they have something to say, which can create shorter or longer silence in a conversation.

Another thing is the greeting ceremonies and the small talk NTs do. This is completely alien to many NDs. Many NDs would prefer to skip small talk and start talking about things that are interesting for them directly.

The preferred organization model for NDs are flat organizations, and many NDs have problems with authority and large, hierarchical organizations.

Many NDs will not "mingle" when they are on meetings, rather will stay where they initially sat down. To make NDs talk to more than just their immediate table neighbors there is a need to force movement, and so meetings where people walk outdoors probably are a lot better than those where people are sitting at a table.

I'm sure there are more things in this area that I've forgot (or even don't know about).



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22 Nov 2018, 7:00 pm

My immediate thought is to look into the ethnography of LGBTQI+ groups as a starting point for how to structure ND groups. Different mode of dress, language, political attitudes, and the like.