Magna wrote:
AspE wrote:
Is the question about whether schadenfreude is morally justified? I think it depends how how much of a dick that individual has been.
Perhaps partially. Thanks for trying to understand what I'm trying to say (seriously).
Someone wants something from you.
You refuse to give it to them.
An impasse results.
The person relents their position and you win your position.
You proceed to ridicule and belittle them for relenting to you.I'm a stoic black and white thinker in many respects. The behavior described in the last line above seems immature and counter to the behavior I would perceive as mature or "correct".
Please note that the person wanting something from you in the above example may very well be terribly immature; I'm not asserting that they'd be exemplary and I also don't think Trump displays exemplary behavior; quite the contrary. That's beside my point that the bolded line behavior above seems wrong to me.
I agree with your point that the behavior in the last line is immature. I would say that this is the kind of behavior politics attracts, though, and we're better off accepting that than thinking the next generation will usher in some new, benevolent politicians.
And, not to take away from your original question, but I'd say that for me the real question is what would happen to any of us at work if we were so indecisive and uncooperative? Yet, these people manage us.