I know that the thread was about violent woman. So according to general oppinions, I am more aggressive and violently then average woman. I am a woman, I am in general more aggressive an violently, so this is on topic, when the topic is about more violent woman.
So when that behavior of mine, was logically caused by my violent father, then according to this threads theories, this means that he has to have been a feminist. Because if violance and aggressiveness is according to this thread caused by feminists, then my father, teaching me to become more aggressive and violant and to be no little girl, or elseway people will beat me out of fun, seems to have been the feminist that bred me.
Or maybe the whole theory is wrong, and its not feminism breeding violance, but simply more woman learning, that there are simply sometimes as*holes out there, that you cannot reason with, that you cannot discuss with, that you cannot try to please and comfort by being a little girl saying with a tiny Minny-Mouse voice "Oh, please...." but that only accept direct confronting as a reason to not treat you like s**t.
There are people you can argue with, there are people you can discuss with, but there are simply as well totally stupid people, that dont see any worth in doing so, and that will only treat you badly if you try to comfort them. And they are not stopped by anything else then directly confronting and opposing them. If someone gives you no other escape then aggressively opposing him, then its their faults, not the one that was given no other choice.
I work on construction sites. With most people, I have totally no problem. But there simply are stupid people, that will see an nice, friendly behavior as an invite to s**t on your head. So they will not care for coming on time, because of them not respecting you as long as you dont behave idiotic aggresively, they will do pauses whenever they want to, leave a day off without doctor-papers, or not care for arranged meetings that are important for the construction sites. Some people simply WANT to be kicked in their ass, to give you respect. I agree that its totally stupid, and I have no problem with 95% of our workers being totally ok and having no problem with me being "feminine" nice and friendly normally. But there are simply some stupid as*holes existing, still thinking to be apes, that see a nice, friendly behavior as "That person must be weaker then me, else she would not be friendly to me, so that means she allows me to s**t on her head." and that simply needs idiotic chimp behavior as a reason for respecting others. The moment they see, you are able to violently scream as well, instead of behaving friendly, they suddenly respect you and you even can act friendly with them. Stupid as hell, but thats the way it is.
I dont see that as something feministic, but my male coworkers, bein responsible for construction sites, have the probs with the same people as well. Some of our workers, simply dont respect you, anyway if you are male or female, until you play the chimpgame with them. And maybe woman in earlier times, mostly working with other woman did not need to learn how to play that game, but I simply needed to do it. Bringing cupcakes and doing a nice chat about family, while drinking tea, may be good for getting you respect in an office, but doesnt help you with a primitive guy, thinking to be a chimp. Thats not my fault, or the feminists fault, its the chimps fault.