magz wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
Wolfram87 wrote:
And there is a distinction between "minor" and "child".
You are oversimplifying a complex condition, pedophiles abuse victims from a wide range of ages up to 18 yrs of age.
Medically, after puberty it's not pedophilia.
Of course, it can still be very serious abuse, but that's another matter. Adults can be gravely abused, too.
There was a man I used to know who is a clear,I can't say pedophile because I don't believe he has ever touched a person under age.But he is a clear MAP(minor attracted person)when he was in his 30's he had many 15 year old friends(although I don't think he ever abused anyone)and he did have sexual experiences with 18 year old's usually getting them drunk and buying them alcohol them putting on the moves.Aside from buying alcohol for minor's,sexual contact with 18 year old's is legal,but for him it's a clear surrogate for the 14,15 year old's he desired.
Today he is in his 50's and all his friends (which I'm not one of)are all in there early 20's and he has said his dream lover is;Quote "one day over 18" end of Quote.
There are minor attracted people out there who control there desires well enough to stay away from under age people and use people in there late teens/early 20's as surrogates for there true desire.
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