Abused and ignored in a nursing home - female victims

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06 Feb 2022, 3:23 pm

https://www.damemagazine.com/2019/01/31/raped-abused-and-ignored-disabled-women-are-invisible-victims/


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06 Feb 2022, 6:47 pm

If you have to go into one of these places you should have somebody visiting you, engaging with the staff as often as possible so the predators know somebody is watching them. Obviously and unfortunately many autistics will lack these people.


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07 Feb 2022, 2:09 am

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If you have to go into one of these places you should have somebody visiting you, engaging with the staff as often as possible so the predators know somebody is watching them. Obviously and unfortunately many autistics will lack these people.


Yep. Nurses are put under immense pressure - but this does not excuse them from losing their minds and giving into what is sometimes the worst, most carnal aspects of themselves, i.e, getting off on the pleasure of abusing those within their care - and getting off on that fact because of the authority they have over those patients.

They can always say "this patient is crazy", if they abuse a patient & the patient protests.

I had to report a biologically male care worker, for physically beating a defenseless Autistic individual when I briefly worked in care.

He told the poor Autistic guy that he wouldn't eat for a week if he told anyone what he was doing, and the Autistic guy, believing in the authority, succumbed to this abuse.

I was sacked twice in the care sector because people were scared of me as the whistleblower.


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07 Feb 2022, 5:29 am

I would like to add to the above post that rapes are not always physical, either, they can be mental rapes. Such as a perpetrator, misrepresenting who & what their victim is. It happens in Satanic child kidnapping rings in real life (the people who do this thing can be anybody basically, even religious people - such as Muslims who are supposed to be God worshipping folk).

They can appear biologically male, or biologically female, in person, and it is usually easy to spot them as they seem uninhibited with their perversion.

Then they will project all of their own sick characteristics onto you, after they have raped you - and they will take even more pleasure in this fact if they know you are a morally good person.

The entire criminal justice system is biased against effeminate biological men & biological woman when reporting being attacked. This is unfortunate, because in turn, innocent biological men are sometimes portrayed as being perpetrators of crimes and female predators use this to their advantage, by playing victim.


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07 Feb 2022, 8:46 pm

The point of this thread is that this is a huge, widespread & underreported phenomenon. It is not limited to one individual - it is being actively buried by mainstream media or ignored, because people are reinforcing these systems themselves by not recognising them.


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07 Feb 2022, 8:50 pm

blitzkrieg wrote:
I would like to add to the above post that rapes are not always physical, either, they can be mental rapes. Such as a perpetrator, misrepresenting who & what their victim is. It happens in Satanic child kidnapping rings in real life

Satanic child kidnapping rings? Woah, you really buried the lead here. Fascinating if true, do you have more detailed information about what I assume is a well-documented phenomenon?



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08 Feb 2022, 5:17 am

Barchan wrote:
blitzkrieg wrote:
I would like to add to the above post that rapes are not always physical, either, they can be mental rapes. Such as a perpetrator, misrepresenting who & what their victim is. It happens in Satanic child kidnapping rings in real life

Satanic child kidnapping rings? Woah, you really buried the lead here. Fascinating if true, do you have more detailed information about what I assume is a well-documented phenomenon?


Well, the perpetrators can be atheist, and may be rebelling against God in some way. Perhaps they were divorced/forced out of a religious family & are sore about that, for example. They utilise devilry symbolism and place that on their victims if the victim is willing to advertise that. The clever ones will pick on disabled foilk who are technically of legal age but are socially disabled, such as having Autism, so that it appears normal and is pretty much impossible to prosecute.

The outright criminals with no brains just kidnap people off of the streets, often in areas where the police are unwelcome, such as in socioeconoically deprived areas (northern UK for example).

There are stories about this in the media all of the time, but people like to ignore it because it disturbs them:

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8936051/Australian-child-sex-ring-uncovered-arrest-Justin-Radford.html

https://uk.news.yahoo.com/video/four-arrested-connection-international-child-061835455.html?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly9kdWNrZHVja2dvLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAACCkigO9k3RauQso93NBUV4VoQT_Ezo2DMYjybIEmXYoF3t23zZzT9ojK3ZUi3-nyKyrLXIeA-Xac8EjONdCCxZR_y1COXMNfA2ggqgxzE5CtpzfPD47Ms8mneEE96npGnQeUccPRDbJhUPOZhPBI0ufQDJ2Wc11ewJLGosEocUX

There is almost no scientific research on this, because of the ethical implications of police going undercover to expose such organisations. You cannot bear witness to such crimes without being guilty yourself, basically.

Which is why there is no evidence, and which is why we have an upsurge of anti-government protestors in the UK and QAnon in the U.S.


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08 Feb 2022, 12:54 pm

To blitzkrieg:

I agree with your concern about sexual abuse in nursing homes, and I agree with your concern about child trafficking.

However, about "Satanic child kidnapping rings": Please see the separate thread QAnon, Blood Libel, and the Satanic Panic.

Back to nursing homes: Another problem is (mostly female) aides who spend their time flirting with the male patients and ignoring the needs of the female patients.

At least this was a problem several decades ago. I remember, when I was in my teens or early twenties, once when my parents and I visited my grandmother in a nursing home, I saw several aides cheerfully doting over one particular male patient while ignoring a female patient who obviously needed help.


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08 Feb 2022, 12:57 pm

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I was sacked twice in the care sector because people were scared of me as the whistleblower.

Good for you for being the whistleblower. We need more whistleblowers on stuff like this.


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08 Feb 2022, 12:58 pm

Mona Pereth wrote:
To blitzkrieg:

I agree with your concern about sexual abuse in nursing homes, and I agree with your concern about child trafficking.

However, about "Satanic child kidnapping rings": Please see the separate thread QAnon, Blood Libel, and the Satanic Panic.

Back to nursing homes: Another problem is (mostly female) aides who spend their time flirting with the male patients and ignoring the needs of the female patients.

At least this was a problem several decades ago. I remember, when I was in my teens or early twenties, once when my parents and I visited my grandmother in a nursing home, I saw several aides cheerfully doting over one particular male patient while ignoring a female patient who obviously needed help.


It is unfortunately all too common for healthcare employees to put their needs above those of their patients. It is more common in the private healthcare sector from my experience, but happens in the NHS, too.

I have been in hospitals for a good portion of my life, with outpatient appointments for my endless list of health conditions & on a couple of occasions I have seen nurses literally camped out, laid down in staff rooms. I saw a nurse sleeping on the floor on one occasion?

I had to put something in a fridge, so one healthcare assistant thought it was a good idea to send me into a staff room full of nurses, with one, biologically female nurse sprawled across the floor, her lower body in the way of the fridge where I needed to put my drinks. :o


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08 Feb 2022, 1:30 pm

Mona Pereth wrote:
blitzkrieg wrote:
I was sacked twice in the care sector because people were scared of me as the whistleblower.

Good for you for being the whistleblower. We need more whistleblowers on stuff like this.


Yep. I don't tolerate abuse of persons with disabilities. Neither the abuse of myself, nor others.

If I do feel abused, I let resentful emotions build up inside of me, and it is my adversary who I will end up intellectually dissecting.


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