TwilightPrincess wrote:
I think I’ve become a more moral person since I’ve become an atheist. One example: my religion followed the Bible strictly, so there was a lot of homophobia going on. I could never be as homophobic as I needed to be. It’s a pretty strange thing to feel guilty about not feeling hateful, but that’s where I was.
My religius upbringing wasn't
that crazy, catholicism has its "hate the sin love the sinner" concept running (actually, catholicism is so big that you can find all kinds of attitudes there) and before I met my first openly gay collegue, I was just prejudiced by the picture of gay activists - not realising activists of all causes and colors are a special bunch.
However, I relate to becoming more moral after giving up religion, too. I was made believe lack of religion means lack of purpose and nihilism and I found out it was completely untrue. If there's no god to judge me, there's also no god to clean up after me - so I might not be judged by some eschatological being but all the good and bad I do will be what I will leave after myself. That's somehow way more motivating than any vision of judgement.
Maybe that's just me - I generally find out I perform way better when motivated from inside.
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