/me braces herself for the inevitable shrieks of horror...
i actually had this same argument re: the two boys in the jamie bulger case (google it, if you don't know, cos i ain't going to go on about it). bear with me - it's a long one, but please do read to the end before you start castigating me.
basically, my sister sent me an email, which contains screams of outrage that the two lads were to be released after serving their time. "lock them up for life," "these boys are devils," and all that stuff. my argument is, basically - how in the name of arse do two KIDS - please note, we're talking about children here - get to the point where they do this sort of thing? yes, yes, i know - what they did, and others like them, is heinous, and they have to have some sort of punishment (i'm not a bleeding heart liberal - far from it - i do justice, not mercy). but just stop and think for a minute - these are very young people, and i do not believe in "god/the devil told me to do it". so, back to my question - how did they get to think it was a good idea? kids do not spontaneously come up with such notions and then act on them (i didn't, and i doubt any of you do/did) - where is their self-discipline NOT to do it - let's face it, we all can think of someone we'd like to whack round the mush with a lump of four-by-two, but we don't do it.
the answer is, i'm afraid, me, you, and everyone else. until we ALL take responsibility for how society and culture allows this sort of thing to happen, then we're f****d, mainly. now, neither i nor you is/are personally responsible for what they did, not directly. but while we all sit on our arses, or on the fence, and moan and tut about how awful everything is, and screech for retribution, and do nothing about the CAUSES of this appalling situation, then nothing will be done, and it will just get worse. we are addressing the symptoms, not the disease, and starting up football clubs to keep yoofs off the street is bollocks - too little and coming from the wrong direction.
i believe that most of the problem is apathy, wearing blinkers, or "somebody else's problem" (thank you, douglas adams), and not actively encouraging such behaviour, by the way.
i'm not saying i have the answers, or the cure - i wish i did. but while we're focussing on cases like those mentioned above, we veering dangerously close to the scapegoating scenario. i dread to use the word (in case i'm accused of being a hippy), but we HAVE to take a holistic approach to this. and not sit there with the moral high ground and say "what are the police/government/social workers/teachers/parents doing about it?" ask rather, "what am I doing about it?" are you colluding with fast food businesses (poor diet increases dodgy behviour)? are you inactive in politics (apathy leads directly to these sorts of situations)? do you challenge injustice? are you aware of what it's all about, the issues which actually make a difference to the world, other than the media-friendly/pretty ones? do you possess a pair of blinkers? are you a confirmed NIMBY supporter?
the aggressors in the cases above must be dealt with, as i said. and, at the same time, we have to do all of the above. and let's not demonise the kids - they are just the front line. and you and i are bringing up the rear.
if you've read through to this far, then thank you. i'm not sure if i've said everything, or been clear enough, so watch this space for edits.
i shall now leave the country for a few days, while everyone shouts at me.