some feel obligated, some really feel good things about going and doing the stuff. A lot of time, when something has always been done a way, people don't ask why, they just do it. And they don't like being asked to think about it because it makes them realize it is kind of pointless, and they have probably been wasting time for 50 years.
Also, the social connections provided by the gathering are extremely useful to people. It is a social connection that everyone can share in. You might feel a bit odd about meeting a really good friend at a model train club, if you like to build model trains, since perhaps the only thing you have in common is model railroading. But a huge number of people go to church.
And worshipping a creator, and giving thanks, and asking for support, and thinking about life are things everybody can talk about. It isn't like if you are interested in football but only the strategy aspect, not the identifying with the team aspect, or physical excellence, and agression aspect. People who are interested in the strategy but not the "our team" idea have almost nothing they can talk about with people who like the "our team" aspect, but not the strategy. So even though both people have something they like they are kind of seperated from each other.
But just about everyone can talk about life, and hope, and needing support, and all the things churches provide.
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And as always, these are simply my worthless opinions.
My body is a channel that translates energy from the universe into happiness.
I either express information, or consume it. I am debating which to do right now.