cyberdad wrote:
That's not what happened? why am I the only one defending this guy?
He (C.Cooper) told her (A.Cooper) to take her dog elsewhere, and when she refused, he said, “Look, if you’re going to do what you want, I’m going to do what I want, but you’re not going to like it,”
It's hardly a threat???
The use of "if/then" is part of the very definition of the threat. This is what the threat is
defined as: "if you are not going to do what I say, I will do something you won't like".
I realize that he didn't make up the rules about the dog being on leash, the park did, so he had every right to ask her to obey these rules. But like I said, there are ways of asking
without making a threat. My issue is
not that he asked but rather
how he asked.
If he wanted to make if/then statement, the only thing that should have been after "then" should have been the
prescribed punishment (that is, call a security), nothing beyond that.
cyberdad wrote:
As far as looking threatening, he is well spoken, well dressed and had a bicycle helmet, bike and binoculars.
So, in other words, you think its okay to judge people by appearance yet its not okay to judge them by race? I guess this touches upon my earlier question about comparing my situation with my officemate and his situation with that woman. In my case, I am poorly groomed and not well spoken of. So are you saying that being poorly groomed and not well spoken of would justify being given a cold shoulder while being black would not? Why is there such a double standard? I mean,
Grooming= your outside appearance that has nothing to do with your attitude on the inside
Well liked = opinion of people on the outside that have nothing to do with who you are on the inside
Both are about social privilege as opposed to being a good person.
Incidentally, when we talked about my officemate, you also suggested that not being physically attractive might be genetic (you mentioned, for example, that more attractive people have more symmetric features). So if skin color is genetic, and symmetry of body features is genetic too, why is it not okay to judge others based on skin color yet it is okay to judge them based on the symmetry?